It is extremely nonconsensual and I feel violated every time he does it.
I've been looking around a bit at what might have played into Tony's decision to troon out, and came across something that didn't sit right with me (well all of it but you know what I mean).
When you go back and look at his crying about his divorce, he mentions several times that his mother in law said to him in court: "You lied to her." He always says that the thing he was meant to be lying about was "his transition" or "being trans". Which is a bit odd, unless she specifically asked him at the start of their relationship, but whatever.
Where it gets interesting for me though is that in his announcement thread on Twitter, where he gives his estrogen start date as March 20 2019, he says that after he and his wife moved from Louisiana to DC, he "quickly found [him]self with more freedom than [he] bargained for (
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Which is a weird way of putting it. "More than I bargained for" is usually a way of describing when something
worse than you were expecting happens. What bad thing did Tony do with all his newfound freedom?
And then, lastly, we come to Tony's wife. She too is ""upset I had lied to her in our marriage" and seemingly is feeling like we are now "even" after she cheated on me." (
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But for her to feel even by cheating, the bad thing Tony did would have come first, right?
So what was Tony lying about to his ex-wife? I don't buy for a second it was "that he was secretly a woman". What was it Tony? Watching shemale porn? Cross-dressing in secret? Going to tranny hookers?