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So you're feeling some conflictedness about the role of therapists in trooncope. And on the one hand it seems like maybe these therapists are harboring some secret hostility. But on the other hand you consider, maybe they just mirror back to the client whatever the client says, using different words. I hear that and I think your concerns are really valid. How does it make you feel to have these concerns about someone's motives?Therapists make me laugh.
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I can't decide if therapists are secret terfs or if they're just passive cucks who just exist to reinforce whatever the client thinks.Orgasm?
So... my srs vaginoplasty was November 19th 2021. I had a labiaplasty in April I believe, or March. Anyway. Been over a year and I have some nerve issues on my left side that make dilation painful at first but when everything is stretched it seems to subside but it's always lurking, a pinching/poking feeling in the tissue just above the ring.. Anyway, scar tissue nerv issues, the right side doesn't have this. Beyond that and my own weight causing aesthetic fat girl bits which is less so what I'd like.. meh, I accept.
What I DON'T accept... is the fact that I haven't been able to reach orgasm. Vibrators, manual... nothing I do will get me there. I've gone 2 hours multiple times to no avail. I've waited, I've tried porn, I've tried repeated attempts. I get frustrated when I try so hard for so long only to have to give up, defeated. I talked to a sex therapist, and they just set the expectation that their goal was to help me accept and enjoy what I can more and that I would need to accept I wasn't going to have an orgasm.
No. F that. There's no reason why I can't, I have plenty of nerve sensation down there, everything works even if there are numb spots, my clitoris is plenty sensitive. Problem is my trigger point was on the underside of the D just under the glans and that no longer exists. So... I feel like I can edge but I can't make myself actually orgasm. I get what I think I remember feeling as close... but nothing. Mentally, porn does nothing anymore... nothing turns me on like it used to.
And now I'm worried about being broken. I can't begin to tell you how important having my orgasm back Is to me. So much is wrapped up in that, that admittedly shouldn't be, but it feels like if I can't then srs was a mistake.
Please. Please if anyone can help me... I'm at my wits end.

It's the classic midwit therapist move- it's the safest, easiest, laziest way to talk to a client who is too insane for anything taught in your 12 month distance MA in Counseling program.