Maybe I’m overthinking it but literally all the genderspecial examples that go into homosexual places seem to do so from a place of sexual entitlement. The hugbox makes these weirdos think that gay men really do see the doods as “one of us,” even the lady born “femboys,” that a Grindr dude would be totally down to pound her magic gender soul. I bet the girl from the video is bisexual and used to being able to draw special attention online, like demanding sexual attention but with extra steps to really indicate their interest. That this gay bro didn’t immediately grovel and “what’s yer pronouns omg” must’ve been a shocking contrast from what she experiences online.
That might be the case with FtMs, but for the female "queers" I think it's more just the same thing that attracted fag hags 10 or 20 years ago. They are attracted to men, and they like being around men socially, but they are too threatened to be around heterosexual males, so they hang off gays.
It's no coincidence that the rare female who actually befriends and hangs out with male troons, as well as most of the mothers who troon out their kids, almost all fit the profile of the fag hag from yesteryear. Often fat and unattractive (gays won't put her down about that, they don't want to fuck her anyway, so they are safe), socially awkward, or generally stunted.
Exactly once in my life I met a woman who was 6 ft 4 in.
She still looked and sounded unmistakably female.
Tall women do exist, though at that extreme it's pretty rare, and a troon would never hope to pass as one.
TRAs all have this strange brain disease where they cannot comprehend that humans do not notice one trait at a time: they notice a whole person. So they don't understand that the effects of masculine traits are cumulative.
Is it possible for a woman to be very tall? Yes.
Is it possible for a woman to have an unusually low voice? Yes.
Is it possible for a woman to have prominent thyroid cartilage that could be mistaken for an Adam's apple? Yes.
But what is the probability of all of those things naturally occurring at once
in the same woman? Pretty much zero.
They can't face that though, so they will keep telling each other things like "there are plenty of tall women!" "some cis women have broad shoulders too!" as if every masculine element of their body is separate and unrelated and no one could possibly synthesize it into a whole when perceiving it.