...and...predictably, it was the biggest mess, a greatest hits album of all the transphobia (among other things) imaginable in the span of just about
three hours.
In fact, it all justifies so much of a trigger warning that I've marked it NSFW (actually, the NSFW tag is probably at least semi-justified content-wise anyway).
Now, granted, when he emailed me back after I came out to him (I guess making this post a follow-up to this one from when I came out to him:
https://www.reddit.com/r/MtF/comments/15in19c/worst_coming_out_ever), there's not much he didn't say a couple days ago that he hadn't already said back then. But jeez, just hearing it in person is something else, I have to tell you... (I don't want the post to be too long, so I put everything in a comment.)
And he's here for another just under two weeks.
This is exchange number one of
four. Possibly more.
The ONE upside is that he admitted that, since I'm an adult, he can't actually control what I do with my own life, and he can't force me to do or not do anything -- but he figured he needed to come over here to try and convince me one last time so that he has no regrets.
Some battles aren't meant to be won. Some things, you just have to survive, and then get out of there.