Note how all the furries all initially act the same way, exactly the same way as in the ERP chains while being "groomed."
Until they get doxed. Because they know that the dichotomy of their little seperate worlds cannot last if they mix together. They're now hysterically bouncing between forums trying to cope and find a "solution." This part is where their differing personalities shine, by the way.
Best guess, all their choices is "double down" while ignoring the epiphany of their paradoxical "lives" while essentially telling people that already did, "bitch you won't."