I'm a pansexual, post op trans woman, on HRT for 6 years. 18 months post op. I live in southern ontario & I am looking for that special someone to share my life with & I'm willing to relocate anywhere in Canada for this purpose.
I've raised myself since I was a child, I'm very independent, I'm an excellent cook, I do well by myself & with others, I don't need your money, & overall am just a chill person who doesn't enjoy yelling or drama & would rather be laughing & smiling all day, preferably while eating banana bread or some other tasty baked treat hehe.
I take care of myself, I'm in excellent shape (6'1 160lbs) for my age (46) & look half it. I don't eat a lot of junk, I don't smoke cigs, I only drink rarely & socially, I do enjoy my 420 time tho, really my only vice. I have no debt, I have no kids, no crazy exes, & really just very little baggage =)
I'm very intelligent & well spoken. I'm exceedingly polite with excellent manners. I am charming, clever, pretty (imo), & I'm not afraid to stand up for myself or others. I enjoy a lot of activities & hobbies, anything from staying at home & cuddling by the fire while we watch sci-fi/fantasy movies/shows & get fat together on tasty nibbles, or we are out on a night out dancing or maybe at a swingers club hehe. While, I also love to be outdoors, travelling, exploring, meeting new people & experiencing new things.
I'm looking for someone dominant, with their act together & knows what they want & isn't afraid to ask for it. I prefer folks who aren't shy or meek. Someone that is caring & nurturing, fun & spontaneous. Someone that also enjoys cooking, learning new things (languages, history, gardening, cooking, baking, fashion, etc), someone funny & wise.
I do have some hard limits such as kids. They are a deal breaker for me. I'm sorry, I've never wanted them my whole life & I'm glad others do, but they've just never been for me. I'm also not into obesity, or rudeness, or bigotry, or racism, or small members (for those with them).
If you'd like to talk more & are serious about settling down, then please feel comfortable reaching out & we can get to know each other.
Thank you for your time & I hope you're having a wonderful day =)
**edit: going to add this little bit at the bottom. If you're under 30, I'm very likely not interested. I am 46 myself & I don't want to be your mother or your aunt hehe. I'm sorry, it just feels weird to me that you would be interested in someone literally double your age. I don't say this to be mean, or rude, I'm just getting hit on by a lot of like 18-20 year olds & that just feels creepy to me. I also feel like I have nothing in common with you. I'm sorry.
Also, I'm getting quite a few people that are pre-everything & just contact me to ask about HRT & stuff & while I don't mind doing that, it's not really the purpose of this post. Like, I'm here to find love, & a serious relationship, I would ask that you please kindly respect that. If you have a question like that, I frequent the
https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/ sub reddit all the time & would be happy to answer your questions there publicly so others can learn as well =)
I will also add in here at the end (since folks are asking), that yes, I am gamer, I play on PC exclusively. I generally like fps, looter shooters, rpgs, co-ops, mmos, that kinda stuff. Of late, I've been playing a lil last epoch, dead island 2, occasionally I log into eso. I'm not into survival / crafting types of games, so no minecraft, no fortnite, no apex, nothing like that.
Thanks so much for your understanding
