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takes balls to meet and date someone from here tbh. i'm sure there are a lot of normies and well adjusted people but there's a lot of freaks too. were u armed?
god bless u, be safe
god bless u, be safe
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3deadniggers
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Am I old fashioned where I think dating random people to get to know them is a bad idea? I always thought it was better to get to know them for at least a month before going on a date. After that you should know how compatible you are once the lust wears off and then you can try for more with a stronger foundation.
Give me some please.
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Now we're just being ridiculous. Leave it to a bunch of terminally online spergs to take someone's normal and sane real life interaction and over-analyze it to the point of nausea.
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Well obviously i'm not trying to lust after someone just by meeting them, we just spend some time, I give them my number, and whatever happens happens. I get a text, I send a text, we hit it off, we don't, I don't say anything, they don't say anything, or anything other than that. I met some good friends recently with that trick, especially finding different friend groups if I'm enough fun for a party.
No, I gotta smoke it before it expires. Lift some weights and try to look people in the eye when you speak.
Da R00D D00D
kiwifarms.net
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For you maybe but it varies from person to person. For some people, they want to find someone they can truly connect with and have deep conversations that you probably wouldn't have with a normal friend. You can have fun with anyone without it necessarily being a "date".
3deadniggers
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He said yes IRL as well. "Do you want kids" is a question without a time frame attached.
The way men and women approach relationships and family is completely different. If you think it's sperging out to say men view a kid differently to the way a woman does then you're the terminally online sperg.
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Can't believe you spent God knows how long searching for him on various dating sites when he was right here, under your nose, the entire time!
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Sorry, but i don't want to give the world even more autistic retards
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Proper sex ed, proper net ed, proper eth ed, proper food ed, proper fin ed, proper home ed. How about we just round up all the creeps and deviants and send them to the artic? Really, it sounds as if all kids need to read a library's-worth of guidelines to either not end up in a ditch, more degenerate than Caligula, or crazier than Chris Chan if their parents lose sight of them for 5 seconds
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Her biggest mistake was not giving Jacob the nickname 'Cobson'.
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He said he was one thing, and then said that he actually wasn't but would be open to it on the future. Would you date a guy that said he's rich, who then tells you that he's actually broke, but will become a millionare in the future?
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Did anybody already created profile for the dear Leader?
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Good on you for having the stones to cut it off after that deal breaker was revealed.
I've seen women in the situation that you would have likely found yourself in if you had continued dating him, being strung along by someone who will keep promising kids but it never happens.
A truly tragic fate.
I've seen women in the situation that you would have likely found yourself in if you had continued dating him, being strung along by someone who will keep promising kids but it never happens.
A truly tragic fate.
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FWIW, slight powerlevel, also your situation can obv be different: I said the same when I first met my S/O and my opinion changed over the years.
Especially if you’re both really young, chances are guys will mature over time. I think it’s doubly likely for guys with more conservative views. Still good to look for compatibility there though.
Especially if you’re both really young, chances are guys will mature over time. I think it’s doubly likely for guys with more conservative views. Still good to look for compatibility there though.
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Nice of you for sharing, I definitely relate with the mask part cause people are either stupid or pozzed irl so Im sure most kiwis are forced to lead a double life. I was surprised that women arent like that though cause from my experience women are more pozzed on average unless they are secretly based, partially why I dont approach them in the first place.Some context about me and why I used this app. Despite what some people asusmed, I'm not a femcel. I've had a couple of long term boyfriends, and I've been on a ton of dates. I've used dating apps before and didn't like them. They feel really cold and I also feel like they aren't really meant for someone like me. While I'm normal appearing and can get along with just about anyone, I feel like I'm wearing a mask a lot of the time. As I'm sure a lot of kiwis can relate, it's a tough time to be a person that has opinions that go against the mainstream media, on KF I feel like I can be my true self and say what I really feel, but offline I feel like I have to hold myself back a lot. It gets really exhausting at times.
The date and the break up:
Another issue I run into is that while I have some minor spergy interests, I'm not a complete sped about them. I like video games, for example, but I'm not a gamer. I also like manga, but I'm not a huge freak or consumer. And I do like discussing politics, but not to the extent that I work myself up into a rage or doomer about it. Finding someone like that offline has been pretty tough so far. Why is it so hard to find someone like me offline? To be blunt I actually think there are more people like me offline than I realize, but they are suffering the same problem I am: you can't openly advertise yourself since you'll be labeled a bigot or whatever. That's why I think there is potential for Duolicious or another app like it.
Now that context is out of the way, I went into this app mostly curious and not expecting much, but I did end up finding several men that were seemingly what I was looking for, and I actually met up and went on a date with one! For ease of this story I'm going to call this man "Jacob". I have no idea if this man was a farmer or not. He claims he lurked KF sometimes but I do think he was probably an active user, he spoke like someone that was an active user and knew way too much KF meta lore for just a casual lurker. Just in case he is a farmer, I'm not going to give a whole lot of identifying information about him because I don't want to be a jerk and accidentally dox him.
Anyways, I'm too lazy to look up when we officially started talking. All you have to know is that me and Jacob hit it off right away. He was very easy to talk to and we had a lot in common with our jobs and life situation. It was so nice to talk to a potential romantic interest that was like me: normal enough to hold a job and function with other people, while also having some niche interests, a dark sense of humor, and ""controversial"" political opinions without being a complete sperg about everything.
After about a week of talking he asked to meet up and go on a date. I had already vetted the guy and felt he wasn't a serial killer, so I agreed to meet up at a halfway point. Before leaving to meet him, I told my mom what I was doing and where I was going, and I also shared my phone location with her. This isn't my first time meeting up with a stranger on the internet, I took all the safety precautions. No way in hell was I going to end up on some Beauty Guru's channel with some airhead discussing about how I went missing after meeting up with someone on a dating app and my body was never found.
On the way over to meet him, I felt very nervous. I've met up with guys before and some of the dates went bad. The men had lied about their age, lied about height or their weight or appearance, etc. I remember when I went on one date with a man who claimed he was 6 foot tall and yet in person he was only two inches taller than me. Why do some people think they can get away with this blatant lies is beyond me.
Luckily for me, Jacob was exactly who he said he was. In fact, he looked even better in person than he did in photos. When we first met, there was some clear nervousness on his part, he was a nervous wreck actually, but after about 10 minutes that faded away and we were talking like a couple of people that had known each other for years. He was even funnier in person than through text. He was very polite and had great old school manners (Honestly, most Southern guys I meet have old school manners, just saying ladies). After eating, we went to the haunted cave (if you could really call it a cave, it wasn't lol).
I had a blast. Seriously, this date was super fun and I have no complaints. It was the best first date I've ever been on. Jacob was fun, charming, and he was a true gentleman.
Now, despite what some kiwis were speculating: I did not get sick from kissing or being physical with Jacob. I'm not going to shame women that get intimate on the first date, but I'm not that kind of woman, the most I'll ever do on the first few dates is maybe give a hug. I was actually already sick before I met up with Jacob, but I didn't know the tickle in my throat I kept feeling was the beginning stages of strep throat, I thought it was just mild allergies from all the blooming plants.
The date ended early because it started to rain, and also I was starting to feel like shit due to the above mentioned strep throat. Jacob was visibly sad the date ended early, and I was too. He was very sweet and after we left, he checked in on me to make sure I made it home safely (Pro tip male kiwis, always check in and make sure your date gets home safely if you can't take her home yourself). Once I got home, I went straight to bed.
The next day, I knew I was actually really sick, but still went to work and hoped for the best. Over the course of the day not only was my throat on fire, but I started getting a massive headache behind my eyes that did not go away even with Tylenol, this I would later learn was a sinus infection on top of the strep throat. I managed to work one entire day before having to call out sick and spent the rest of the week in bed. Despite feeling like complete and total shit, things with me and Jacob were going great. He showed concern for my health and was being very sweet. He even sent me flowers (No, I didn't give him my address, you can send flowers without knowing their address) as a get well present.
So, if everything was going so damn well, why did I break up with him? Well, I kind of think this extreme sickness was meant to happen because without it, I wouldn't have learned something about Jacob that ended up being a deal breaker. Like I would have learned it eventually, but probably not until much later when it would have been harder to break up. Even though I was unable to talk to Jacob verbally, we still texted constantly whenever I wasn't passed out from various OTC medicine. And thanks to this illness, we somehow ended up talking about what a parent is supposed to do when their kid is ill. This conversation then lead to Jacob being honest about his desire to have kids: it turns out, he doesn't want kids.
Now, for those of you who haven't used the Duolicious app, it asks you if you want kids or not. My profile clearly states I do want kids, and so did Jacob's profile. I had also made it known before we even went on a date that my long term goal in life is to have at least two children. I'm not saying I want to go and get pregnant in like, the next year or two, but to be very clear I am not into casual or short term dating, I'm looking for a long term partner that shares my same goals. Again, this was something I made known to Jacob.
It was hard to hear this stuff, especially when you're sick as shit. As much as it hurt to hear, I'm not gonna waste time and keep dating someone that doesn't have the same long term goals in mind as me. What's the point? Jacob tried to backtrack and said that he likes the idea of kids but there are things he wants to do in life and he won't be ready for kids for another 8-10 years. So, basically, I guess I could stay with him and hope that MAYBE he's ready for kids in another decade?
So that's it really. After learning that Jacob doesn't want kids, I figured there was absolutely no point in continuing to date him since that's huge deal breaker for me. I dumped Jacob and then stayed in my bed feeling sick and sad for over a week. The end.
I feel better now and I'm completely over Jacob. I admit that it sucks it didn't work out, it was nice to finally date someone where I felt like I could be myself. It's a shame our long term goals didn't mesh. Despite this, I am actually more optimistic than before about finding someone and this has encouraged me to not give up. This showed me that there are definitely guys like me out there. I'll probably use the app again, but for now I'm taking a break from dating and focusing on touching grass.
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Hmm.Now that context is out of the way, I went into this app mostly curious and not expecting much, but I did end up finding several men that were seemingly what I was looking for, and I actually met up and went on a date with one! For ease of this story I'm going to call this man "Jacob". I have no idea if this man was a farmer or not. He claims he lurked KF sometimes but I do think he was probably an active user, he spoke like someone that was an active user and knew way too much KF meta lore for just a casual lurker. Just in case he is a farmer, I'm not going to give a whole lot of identifying information about him because I don't want to be a jerk and accidentally dox him.
Anyways, I'm too lazy to look up when we officially started talking. All you have to know is that me and Jacob hit it off right away. He was very easy to talk to and we had a lot in common with our jobs and life situation. It was so nice to talk to a potential romantic interest that was like me: normal enough to hold a job and function with other people, while also having some niche interests, a dark sense of humor, and ""controversial"" political opinions without being a complete sperg about everything.
After about a week of talking he asked to meet up and go on a date. I had already vetted the guy and felt he wasn't a serial killer, so I agreed to meet up at a halfway point. Before leaving to meet him, I told my mom what I was doing and where I was going, and I also shared my phone location with her. This isn't my first time meeting up with a stranger on the internet, I took all the safety precautions. No way in hell was I going to end up on some Beauty Guru's channel with some airhead discussing about how I went missing after meeting up with someone on a dating app and my body was never found.
On the way over to meet him, I felt very nervous. I've met up with guys before and some of the dates went bad. The men had lied about their age, lied about height or their weight or appearance, etc. I remember when I went on one date with a man who claimed he was 6 foot tall and yet in person he was only two inches taller than me. Why do some people think they can get away with this blatant lies is beyond me.
Luckily for me, Jacob was exactly who he said he was. In fact, he looked even better in person than he did in photos. When we first met, there was some clear nervousness on his part, he was a nervous wreck actually, but after about 10 minutes that faded away and we were talking like a couple of people that had known each other for years. He was even funnier in person than through text. He was very polite and had great old school manners (Honestly, most Southern guys I meet have old school manners, just saying ladies). After eating, we went to the haunted cave (if you could really call it a cave, it wasn't lol).
I had a blast. Seriously, this date was super fun and I have no complaints. It was the best first date I've ever been on. Jacob was fun, charming, and he was a true gentleman.
Now, despite what some kiwis were speculating: I did not get sick from kissing or being physical with Jacob. I'm not going to shame women that get intimate on the first date, but I'm not that kind of woman, the most I'll ever do on the first few dates is maybe give a hug. I was actually already sick before I met up with Jacob, but I didn't know the tickle in my throat I kept feeling was the beginning stages of strep throat, I thought it was just mild allergies from all the blooming plants.
The date ended early because it started to rain, and also I was starting to feel like shit due to the above mentioned strep throat. Jacob was visibly sad the date ended early, and I was too. He was very sweet and after we left, he checked in on me to make sure I made it home safely (Pro tip male kiwis, always check in and make sure your date gets home safely if you can't take her home yourself). Once I got home, I went straight to bed.
The next day, I knew I was actually really sick, but still went to work and hoped for the best. Over the course of the day not only was my throat on fire, but I started getting a massive headache behind my eyes that did not go away even with Tylenol, this I would later learn was a sinus infection on top of the strep throat. I managed to work one entire day before having to call out sick and spent the rest of the week in bed. Despite feeling like complete and total shit, things with me and Jacob were going great. He showed concern for my health and was being very sweet. He even sent me flowers (No, I didn't give him my address, you can send flowers without knowing their address) as a get well present.
So, if everything was going so damn well, why did I break up with him? Well, I kind of think this extreme sickness was meant to happen because without it, I wouldn't have learned something about Jacob that ended up being a deal breaker. Like I would have learned it eventually, but probably not until much later when it would have been harder to break up. Even though I was unable to talk to Jacob verbally, we still texted constantly whenever I wasn't passed out from various OTC medicine. And thanks to this illness, we somehow ended up talking about what a parent is supposed to do when their kid is ill. This conversation then lead to Jacob being honest about his desire to have kids: it turns out, he doesn't want kids.
Now, for those of you who haven't used the Duolicious app, it asks you if you want kids or not. My profile clearly states I do want kids, and so did Jacob's profile. I had also made it known before we even went on a date that my long term goal in life is to have at least two children. I'm not saying I want to go and get pregnant in like, the next year or two, but to be very clear I am not into casual or short term dating, I'm looking for a long term partner that shares my same goals. Again, this was something I made known to Jacob.
It was hard to hear this stuff, especially when you're sick as shit. As much as it hurt to hear, I'm not gonna waste time and keep dating someone that doesn't have the same long term goals in mind as me. What's the point? Jacob tried to backtrack and said that he likes the idea of kids but there are things he wants to do in life and he won't be ready for kids for another 8-10 years. So, basically, I guess I could stay with him and hope that MAYBE he's ready for kids in another decade?
So that's it really. After learning that Jacob doesn't want kids, I figured there was absolutely no point in continuing to date him since that's huge deal breaker for me. I dumped Jacob and then stayed in my bed feeling sick and sad for over a week. The end.
I feel better now and I'm completely over Jacob. I admit that it sucks it didn't work out, it was nice to finally date someone where I felt like I could be myself. It's a shame our long term goals didn't mesh. Despite this, I am actually more optimistic than before about finding someone and this has encouraged me to not give up. This showed me that there are definitely guys like me out there. I'll probably use the app again, but for now I'm taking a break from dating and focusing on touching grass.
Thanks for deciding to share.
But, reading this, felt like I was sipping a cup of plain hot water. Maybe this blogpost is some help to the zoomy shits around here, but I personally come to the farms to be entertained (at the expense of others) and this didn't do it.
What I'm trying to say is, I don't hate the chinese, but I do get a laugh when I see liveleak videos from their factories and car traffic.
So, I don't dislike you, but...you know...a post with you on the back of a milk carton would've been funnier.
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Jarlsberg if you say otherwise i'll cry and shit in your cereal.
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Null is really sitting on a great potential business opportunity: Just make a dating app for Kiwis, but have it so only True & Honest Fans get to participate.
I think the biggest problem is having the confidence and the environment in which it would be appropriate to communicate your ideals and aspirations through to others. I still believe that the idea behind Duolicious - of having a dating app specially tailored to a specific group - isn't really that bad, especially for relatively niche communities like KF.
I'm certain there are many more of us guys that are like that, even on here. Uhh... anyone who'd be interested who's from Europe? :-)
I think the biggest problem is having the confidence and the environment in which it would be appropriate to communicate your ideals and aspirations through to others. I still believe that the idea behind Duolicious - of having a dating app specially tailored to a specific group - isn't really that bad, especially for relatively niche communities like KF.
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Congratulations on having more sense than Dick Masterson's forever girlfriend.So, basically, I guess I could stay with him and hope that MAYBE he's ready for kids in another decade?
That's definitely the most important factor I consider when assessing a potential partner and future mother of my children. You're totally right and very sane: when he laughed at her George Floyd impression she should have let him knock her up right there on the spot.
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childless people are miserable, and misery loves company. good on you for breaking it off and not allowing him to waste your time or string you along. he would've "any day now'd" you right up to menopause