I never noticed it was Chud who asked him. So Chud was aware of the memes even then.
Destiny got
obsessed with her, said he would be in a monogamous relationship, etc. He spoke about what happened on stream once but it's not worth hunting for the clip.
She rejected him, partly because of the harassment she was getting from his fans:
https://www.reddit.com/r/LivestreamFail/comments/a84lvy/girlwithyellowspoon_breaks_down_because_of/
https://streamable.com/9gl8e
(I'm not uploading these to KF because I don't feel like wasting a day waiting on the attachment to upload properly, download them if you care)
It's funny, because it's such a huge contradiction. Every once in a while, usually after talking about poly/monogamy with Aella, and his audience gets mad for a few days, he will hint towards his true position that monogamous people are just insecure/inferior.
He never outright says it, but from his position that poly/open relationships are better, and his desire for everyone to be like that, shows that's his underlying thought.
He must experience such strong cognitive dissonance when every other girl he pursues he's willing to ditch all his beliefs for.
He has also mentioned before, I believe it was soon after him and Lauren broke things up and Melina returned from TX, that Melina obviously has problems with him being willing to become monogamous for other women but not for her, as it does imply she's lesser than Lauren (which is obviously the woman they were discussing).
Sure, each woman is different and each relationship with any of those women is also bound to be different, but to be willing to try to become Christian, for example, or be monogamous I think that's deeper than simple differences between relationships.
Destiny must see relationships in a completely different way than I do, or that I'm capable to even try to comprehend.
If he's aware that he's able to find women for whom he's willing to try to be monogamous for why does he keep getting into poly/open relationships? Does he just see these relationships like he had with Melina or now with Layna like being close roommates or very good friends but decides to call them his gf to not hurt their feelings?
Why not just continue to do the different girl each week waiting for months-years to find the one in a hundred girl that he's willing to drop all his beliefs for since he knows this behaviour will continue, as he must be somewhat self-aware that he's not been able to change that part of himself.
(I do not think this behaviour of him changing his beliefs depending of the woman is healthy, nor do I think he should actually wait for the one in a hundred girl, I'm just trying to point out the absurdity of his actions.)
It's hilarious, because he probably hasn't realized it yet. This is the same kind of behaviour for which he hates Brittany Simon.
She was in open/poly relationships, and had her own way of seeing the world. She met the "right guy" and she married him in 6 months after knowing him (like Destiny was willing to breakup with Melina after such a short affair with Lauren), closed the relationship and moved out of the country. ( I'll admit, I've almost completely blanked out any information about Brittany Simon from my brain, if I'm wrong that she used to be open/poly please correct me)
Here is where Tiny says
"Wrong. I hate Brittany because she encourages that kind of behaviour and thinks should be the norm".
But isn't that exactly what Tiny is doing by continuously repeating that behaviour himself in his personal life? didn't he read that C.S. Lewis book in which our actions not only shape our fundamental character (or "soul" if you will)? doesn't he say that by our actions and what we do in our personal lives illustrate how we think the world should be and its morality?
I think that none of his relationships will succeed until he resolves this fundamental issue that he has. But Tiny even has a cope for that because he says "no relationship is forever", which is somewhat true, but he starts all his relationships knowing that they'll end, expecting them to end, and planning to jump ship to the next one waiting until he finds his next "oneitis" to get obsessed over, and I do not think that if he did end up with Lauren he wouldn't end up cheating eventually, because again, he hasn't resolved that contradiction within himself.
What I'm getting at is that his behaviour is nonsensical and retarded.
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" and her going "steve! ♥" over and over again. Melina was a warm body and an empty head, it's not surprising he moved on so quickly.
) then actually spending time with him: