Hey now, Josh, the reason I adopted "Y'all" into my everyday usage was because I had 3 different managers at 3 different jobs lecture the young men about specific persons at the job who go by they/them. I'll use "Y'all" to shuck 'n jive before I call them freaks She. I also don't need some sperg going off on me for saying "take care, guys!" as I finish ringing them out. I had a grown man once get confrontational with me in a drive-thru because he misheard "Have a good one, man" as "Have a good one, ma'am".
Y'all avoids it all