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Who says testosterone makes women more violent?: being bullied by her female neighbor, a TiF wants to know if she's permitted to beat women's asses or if it would be seen as uncouth - and her biggest concern is whether or not it would reflect poorly on other FTMs.
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MTFs trying to get around the reality that they were raised as boys is always funny to me, but this one is especially audacious in implying that if girls were raised as boys were, they would be considered abused. Have you been forced into menstrual huts, OP? Have you had your chance at education stripped of you? Did an uncle decide you made a good bride before you ever learned to read?
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Monday morning lunacy: a tranny schizophrenically posits that it's actually gay people who are wrong for defending gender-nonconforming children, because gender non-conforming children are meant to be mutilated eunuchs reliant on pharmaceuticals for their entire adult lives. OP even declares in the comments that "Trans women deserve cishet husbands. Trans men deserve cishet wives."i have a question/ moral dilemma and need my fellow trans men to weigh in on it
as the title says I need some help with a moral dilemma if a chick ever hits me can I hit her back as a trans man or would that bring more people to hating us trans men more I was always told to never hit a woman but everyone over here still calls me a she even the cops so can I use that as my excuse to be allowed to hit her back or would I be the a..hole for that and I've spoken to many men who understand that I'm trans or don't fully understand it and they've said that if a woman or a man ever hits you as a man you have to hit back any advice would be greatly appreciated for context it is a ghetto neighborhood legitimately where I'm the only white dude I do have some Puerto Rican in me but was not raised under those principles was raised under Italian and Scottish principles I've called the cops on her many times and all my transphobic or non understanding neighbors have said how can you call the cops on someone who's been there for you and I said bc she kept saying to come tf outside and they all said yeah to talk to you for the record no racism intended at all just need to know if this is specific to any of those ethnicities and need to know what any of my trans friends will say that have grown up with these specific ethnic backgrounds
tldr just need advice if I have a bully that hits me can I hit her back especially because everybody still calls me a girl or would I be the ahole for doing that 2 months on t
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We aren’t “transing the gay away”. They’re “gaying the trans away”
The modern “Gay” and “Lesbian” identities are 20th century western liberal constructs. The “LGB” identities/lifestyles are only possible through post-industrial mass urbanization.
It is estimated that the statistical prevalence of homosexuality is about 3%. When you match this up with the Dunbar number (150) you will find that any given traditional community would have had approximately 4 or 5 homosexuals, so that means 2 or 3 per sex. This would make traditional compatible expressions of “gay” (two men) and “lesbian” (two women) relationships highly unlikely to occur. That’s why in most cultures that allowed for homosexual behavior, the homosexual would benefit from loving as the opposite sex and taking on a heterosexual relationship with a member of the same birth sex. The homosexual male would simply become female, and instead of having potentially only 1 partner, (if they were lucky) they now have up to 75 possible partners.
Gender criticals like to point out that kids who display opposite sex behavior typically grow up into gay or lesbian adults, and that telling them they might actually be the opposite sex would meddle with an otherwise healthy expression of a gay or lesbian identity, but they have the cause and effect completely backwards. By telling them “no, you are actually just gay or lesbian” you force them to suppress their innate opposite sex behavior to a degree that is palatable for the rest of society. And this is why gay and lesbian relationships are so unhealthy. You have two straight women pretending to be men who can’t actually satisfy eachother, which is why the gay male community is notoriously promiscuous and sexually degenerate. And you have two straight men pretending to be women who are fundamentally incompatible with eachother, which is why they have the highest rates of domestic violence… typical male aggression and homophobia.
Soon or later civilization is going to collapse and if our species survives it, we will be back to villages and bands of hunter gatherers and farmers. Mark my words, with that transition we will see the end of the artificial “gay and lesbian” identity, and a return to a far healthier, natural expression of homosexual trans behavior
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Based and obviously true. Most homosexual forms of desire are intersex psychosexual phenomena.
Most traditional societies have third gender castes who form relationships with ostensibly normal men.
The only reason these assemblages of desire became prohibited is to placate cisgender women’s autogynephilia
cancel feminism and drop the g
Glad to see more TW are waking up to this.
There’s always been this ‘accusation’ that TW are ‘misogynist’ and ‘homophobic’ because we’re ‘jealous’ of and want to ‘usurp’ women because we don’t accept the subordinate and abject social status of gay men.
Then there’s always been a response by despicable bootlickers to present ourselves in the least sociologically threatening way possible-as super duper gay drag queens who both pass flawlessly and yet immediately notify everyone around us of our trans status so they know not to treat us as actual women, and accept our role in society to be mopping up the spilled libidinal energy of men with psychosexual disorders.
And what do we get in return for that? Absolutely nothing. In Britain one of the primary contributions of institutional feminism to political discourse is to make sure we can’t access support services when we are victims of domestic violence and rape.
So I say no, fuck you, that first caricature is completely accurate; we deserve all the ‘birthrights’ that cis women feel entitled to and we will get that through stealth. We will blur the boundaries until the only options are to treat trans women like cis women or to treat cis women like trans women by default. They will not stop us until we are in jail or dead
Based and obviously true. Most homosexual forms of desire are intersex psychosexual phenomena.
Most traditional societies have third gender castes who form relationships with ostensibly normal men.
The only reason these assemblages of desire became prohibited is to placate cisgender women’s autogynephilia
cancel feminism and drop the g

Glad to see more TW are waking up to this.
There’s always been this ‘accusation’ that TW are ‘misogynist’ and ‘homophobic’ because we’re ‘jealous’ of and want to ‘usurp’ women because we don’t accept the subordinate and abject social status of gay men.
Then there’s always been a response by despicable bootlickers to present ourselves in the least sociologically threatening way possible-as super duper gay drag queens who both pass flawlessly and yet immediately notify everyone around us of our trans status so they know not to treat us as actual women, and accept our role in society to be mopping up the spilled libidinal energy of men with psychosexual disorders.
And what do we get in return for that? Absolutely nothing. In Britain one of the primary contributions of institutional feminism to political discourse is to make sure we can’t access support services when we are victims of domestic violence and rape.
So I say no, fuck you, that first caricature is completely accurate; we deserve all the ‘birthrights’ that cis women feel entitled to and we will get that through stealth. We will blur the boundaries until the only options are to treat trans women like cis women or to treat cis women like trans women by default. They will not stop us until we are in jail or dead

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This one is so delusional, I sort of think OP should be strapped to a chair A Clockwork Orange-style and forced to read every phalloplastic result in the SRS thread. You really think they can fucking ejaculate? You really believe ordinary men are getting phalloplasties all the time? Remember, these people are allowed to vote for the boards of schools you send your children to.How about instead of saying "male socialization" we start saying we were forced to grow up as boys against our will.
If a cis girl was forced to be boy by everyone around them, it would be seen as abusive and inhumane...but for us it's treated like something we have to repent for.
Let's be real about what actually happened. We were born and everyone said we were boys, and then we were coerced (with the threat of punishment) to dress and act like boys. Regardless of how much you personally protested that upbringing, or how old you were when you realized you were a woman, that's what happened to you.
Cis people were forced to be their gender too, but I guess they're able to reconcile the gender they were forced to be with their true selves. Either way it's not right to force people to into genders and gender roles, and for us it's especially traumatizing. Acting like it's something we have to apologize for, rather than something horrible that was done to us is just victim blaming. How can we grieve and grow as people if we can't even understand what truly happened to us...
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A selfish pooner resents her parents for still missing the daughter they once brought home with love and joy in their eyes; if only they'd known it was a Rosemary's Baby situation and terminated early on.Some of the most rancid & transphobic comments I have heard about phallo, have been from the "tucute" community.
Some of the most rancid and transphobic comments I have ever seen about phallo have come from tucutes. I have seen them implying how it isn't "advanced enough", despite the fact that this surgery has been around nearly one hundred years now. I have heard how it is ugly and doesn't pass as a "real" penis (They view photos in the stage one phase and assume that this is how it stays. No. These penises when fully done are immensely realistic to a natal penis). I have heard them say how it can't ejaculate, (It can. It varies for each person, but it is possible). I have heard them spread around the lie that you lose the ability to orgasm post-op, (Extremely rare and extremely unlikely. If you can orgasm pre-op, you almost certainly still can post-op. The way you achieve orgasm will just be different due to new anatomy). I have seen the most rancid, horrific transphobic comments uttered about phallo by self proclaimed trans "mascs", NB mascs, and even some people who say they're trans men, and it is absolutely infuriating. I have even seen many claim how getting phallo is "mutilation" (hmm..where have I heard that before? Oh yes. TERFS and MAGAS say that quite often!), and expressing how they would NEVER want a penis, and how having a vagina is far better and more attractive.
The irony of insisting they're a real transsexual male while in the same breath being repulsed by the idea of having male anatomy, is staggering. I will never forget how they have said this, while in the same breath having the audacity to call us the transphobic ones for daring to call out their hatred and misinformation to a life saving surgery that we need. It isn't just transsexual men who have phallo, but cis males too, this is a very common surgery and is has very high success rates, the complications often are minor and easy to resolve aside from a few unlucky cases, but that comes with all surgeries. The way they seem shocked to find out a major part of transitioning for transsexual males involves getting a penis, tells me everything I need to know about them and their little brain rotted community. Yes, we are men, we are males, as such, we want and have a penis, and not having one causes us immense stress and horrific levels of dysphoria. I know. It is hard to believe when you're stuck in the land of tiktok. Every single thing they say ans think about phallo is nothing but pure misinformation to try and makes themselves feel better about not wanting it.
I haven't seen this spoken about much, but it is wildly common, especially on tumblr, tiktok, and even instagram, and I am so beyond tired of it. Body shaming is apparently fine when it involves a penis, whether it is natal or created via surgery to ease horrifically bad dysphoria. Go figure. You will never win with these people, any explanation of why they are wrong is seen as an attack, so I don't even bother anymore, but it is still infuriating to witness how widespread this has become. It is all "it is your body, transition how you want!!!" until said transition involves getting rid of your vagina and other female organs, then suddenly you are disgusting, mutilated, and a traitor. Their idea of a trans man, (or should I say, trans masc/boy), gives me such second hand dysphoria. If you know, you know. The art they do alone is atrocious. There's a reason you never see them drawing trans men with penises. That's all I will say.
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Why do parents feel the compulsive need to keep speaking about their grief ?
Like bitch i am NOT the one to hear your tiggering weird grief feelings
Its not my fault your cis ass thinks you have to grieve someone just because you were too dumb to corellate this "little girl" with what i really was while in the closet; a suicidal, almost recluse, anxiety and tic ridden child-teen.
Even if your trans child never was significally unhappy when closeted, that still doesnt justify exposing your grief when you clearly see that it embarrasses or angers your child.
The signs were always there for me.
Me pretending i was sick to avoid doing sports in school and in HS. Not have to change in front of others, not having my body seen.
Me hating my breasts. Me speaking of dreaming i cut them off. I started having those dreams in hs, as a minor. Im 23, yet my mother still have not made that connection.
Me never relating to girls.
But just because all they saw is the very normative "girl appearence", they feel like it gives them something to grieve.
Just because i dyed my hair in HS and didnt wear fully boy clothes (i did wear "boy clothes" a lot still).
I have breasts made to feed starving european kids in a cold era. I never couldve hidden them. So i just didnt even try. Still dont. So yeah i cant stick to the stereotype of the nb/transmasc/trans man that could bind and have a physique that helped them seem "not like a girl"
What
They only saw a girl?
That girlness is a person?
Speaking of grief while the person is in front of you is illogical. Im not dead.
I still like the same shit as before. I still have the same mind. Its crazy cause ive consciously accepted i was trans years before i came out to them. So all that time where they thought i was a girl-woman... i was not. Its just their binary assumption and dellusion.
I just got tired of the closet and finally found my community in early adult life. The only reason i was closeted before was due to bullying and n9t having any representation. You cant properly articulate why you feel a certain way if you have no example, you just live life feeling disconnected from your body and others, never relating to "who youre supposed to relate with".
My mother never said i was not trans. She tries to be supportive. She still speaks in ways that are bad or truggering... which is confusing. Like girl if you wanna be progressive why cant you listen to me instead of relying on your maigre progressive commrehension.
When i try to correct words and thoughts she has, that she always speaks about that grief and shit, instead of listening and bettering the ways she speaks about me;
Example, i hate that when she speaks of me pre official coming out, she genders me as a she and as a girl. KNOWING at the time that alreafy made me feel suicidal and ruined my confidence. I spoke to her many times about the fact that way befofe i came out to them, the transness was already there.
Cant she just shut up, listen, not make a fuss and change that?
Yet she doesnt change that.
Ive been out to my mother for more than 2 years. That feels like WAY MORE than enough time to adapt.
In any case speaking of that weird, misplaxed, cisfuxkedy grief TO the trans person feels deeply disrespectful and tone deaf.
If she made the mistake like once of twice in the early coming out, i wouldve brushed it off
But 2 years in and she still uses these shitty terms.
Also, parents that were emotionally volatile/unavailable/distant/negligent have even LESS legitimacy to speak of grief when they dont have much complicity with the "girl/boy they knew". Like no fuck off. Dont act like we were close like that anyway.
Why dont they whine about their grief between each other?
Like wtf do you want ME to say? Coddle you in your cisfuckery? Just cause you associate relationships with gendered places in society? Am i not just an individual?
Cis people always make transness more complicated than it is and i hate it.