So I’ve been on T for six years. I have a full beard and what I feel is a masc voice in person, so I’m never clocked at trans irl. But I was ma’am’d three times today from different people on the phone. One was with a healthcare facility so they could see I have a masc first name, and I legally changed it a long time ago so it’s not put as preferred.
I also get called maam and ms at drive thru speakers then they look confused when a full dude pulls up.
Am I doing something wrong with my voice? Pls help