Off-Topic Losing people to transgenderism support thread - Support group for trans widows and other people who lost loved ones to troonism

[Wallace]

They're not allowed to stop people from self-harming in the psych ward here so it's very apparent who do it for attention. You guessed it: Fat ex-tumblrinas who're so cut up and fat you basically can't tell the gender in the first place. So far I've only seen troons employed there, not patients. I knew troons' idea of the opposite gender is stuck at age 6-18, why f2ms look like Bieber and m2fs look like fuckdolls with pumps, stockings and skirts, but this was too on the nose. Build and posture of a young girl, short dyed ginger hair, puberty-tier beard, blue denim overalls like some kind of Dennis the Menace, a squeaky voice, and basically pulled most of my coworkers' head around to go "the hell is that?". And they're all loving parents with lots of compassion

A lot of psychological problems can be contagious, like eating disorders and cutting, or even Munchausens or Tourette's. It teaches kids that these are valid ways to express feelings of distress, gain attention, emotionally manipulate others, or even for peer approval. Troonery is likely the same, especially since troonery tells these kids that they will die if they are not allowed to transition, and those that try to stop them are doing so with the deliberate intent of getting them to hurt themselves.

 

[There She Glows]

Close friend is trooning out. His girlfriend confided that they've already had an argument because he seems to think "you don't understand what it's like to be fearful walking alone at night in the same way that I do" magically no longer applies now that he uses they/them pronouns. Literally nothing about his appearance has changed other than his hair btw. Lol and lmao

I'm being flippant but this actually sucks. I hoped maybe he wouldn't go full retard and would just pretty much stay himself but it isn't looking that way.

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

His girlfriend confided that they've already had an argument

And she is still his girlfriend even after the troon out? She needs to leave the tranny monster asap.

 

[There She Glows]

And she is still his girlfriend even after the troon out? She needs to leave the tranny monster asap.

She has dated women also so I don't think it's a deterrent in theory, especially since he's a pretty slightly built dude and won't be a full on gigahon. but she'll have to come to her own conclusions as things get worse you can't force someone to see things your way. she's genuinely one of the kindest sweetest people I've ever met so yeah this sucks.

 

[⋖ cørdion ⋗]

And she is still his girlfriend even after the troon out? She needs to leave the tranny monster asap.

And give up the ability to brag about being a confirmed bisexual and dating a non-cishet dude while also being piped down? She won the lottery!

 

[Dolly Brooks]

She has dated women also so I don't think it's a deterrent in theory, especially since he's a pretty slightly built dude and won't be a full on gigahon. but she'll have to come to her own conclusions as things get worse you can't force someone to see things your way. she's genuinely one of the kindest sweetest people I've ever met so yeah this sucks.

Any way to anonymously send her this documentary or something like it?

 

[There She Glows]

Any way to anonymously send her this documentary or something like it?

I don't think he's out to enough people yet where I could do this anonymously but it's an option if I wait a bit, I'll definitely consider it. She still uses he/him pronouns in private and I've seriously never heard her utter a single political opinion in years of knowing her so I don't think she's a lost cause for figuring this out eventually.

 

[The Decimator]

He’s technically not a family member or loved one, but he was somebody I used to interact with.

There was this kid I used to go to daycare with, whom I’ll call “Tex”. Anyway, “Tex” was the first person I ever knew who had same-sex parents. It was due to their influence that he gradually became more and more feminine. Eventually, after I moved on with my life, I heard from my dad that “Tex” was now identifying as a girl, to nobody’s surprise.

 

[FedPostalService]

Close friend is trooning out. His girlfriend confided that they've already had an argument because he seems to think "you don't understand what it's like to be fearful walking alone at night in the same way that I do" magically no longer applies now that he uses they/them pronouns. Literally nothing about his appearance has changed other than his hair btw. Lol and lmao

I'm being flippant but this actually sucks. I hoped maybe he wouldn't go full retard and would just pretty much stay himself but it isn't looking that way.

Your friend is dead and only a weird twisted creature remains. You and the girlfriend need to cut your losses.

 

[toilet_rainbow]

Old friend messages me out of the blue for the first time in a couple years.

Friend: hey, Toilet! How's it going? I've been doing okay. Work sucks, but what's new? I got top surgery a couple years ago, so that's awesome!



I am so fucking tired

 

[Bill's Due]

Close friend is trooning out. His girlfriend confided that they've already had an argument because he seems to think "you don't understand what it's like to be fearful walking alone at night in the same way that I do" magically no longer applies now that he uses they/them pronouns. Literally nothing about his appearance has changed other than his hair btw. Lol and lmao

I'm being flippant but this actually sucks. I hoped maybe he wouldn't go full retard and would just pretty much stay himself but it isn't looking that way.

Hey, at least there's a positive to this. At some point the girlfriend will be available. Is she hot?

And you won't have to stick to the "bro code" of not dating a bro's ex, because he refuses to be a man anyway!

 

[There She Glows]

Hey, at least there's a positive to this. At some point the girlfriend will be available. Is she hot?

And you won't have to stick to the "bro code" of not dating a bro's ex, because he refuses to be a man anyway!

She is hot but I am a) heterosexual and b) happily married. In all seriousness one of the major reasons this sucks on a personal level is that they were our best "couple" friends. It's hard to find another couple to hang out with where everybody gets along and doesn't have any interest in some kind of swinger degeneracy.

 

[LillyTheBestGirl]

I was going on dates with a really great girl and it was showing a lot of promise - I never had such chemistry from the get-go before. We both admitted it felt like we were already a couple, and even people we interacted with on one of the dates asked us how long have we been together.

But on the last date, we started talking about deal breakers, and I dropped that I don't believe in genderism, I think those people are mentally ill, and I'm super against transing kids. To which she replied, that she had dated a "trans-woman" and her best friend's fiance is a tranny too. She said she'd need to think about it, and two days later she texted me saying we have fundamental differences in our beliefs and this will not work.

And I can't really argue with her. We did have some other hiccups, honestly, but it seemed like we liked each other enough to work through them. But her being a handmaiden is just too much - I can't imagine building a family with someone you'd have to guard your kids from.

Dating has been hard because I live in one of the most progressive cities ever (Seattle), so finding someone who at least seems normal is already a challenge. And now I'm back to square one.

I fucking hate trannies and people that helped push this ideology mainstream so much.

 

[Anasa Tristis]

I was going on dates with a really great girl and it was showing a lot of promise - I never had such chemistry from the get-go before. We both admitted it felt like we were already a couple, and even people we interacted with on one of the dates asked us how long have we been together.

But on the last date, we started talking about deal breakers, and I dropped that I don't believe in genderism, I think those people are mentally ill, and I'm super against transing kids. To which she replied, that she had dated a "trans-woman" and her best friend's fiance is a tranny too. She said she'd need to think about it, and two days later she texted me saying we have fundamental differences in our beliefs and this will not work.

And I can't really argue with her. We did have some other hiccups, honestly, but it seemed like we liked each other enough to work through them. But her being a handmaiden is just too much - I can't imagine building a family with someone you'd have to guard your kids from.

Dating has been hard because I live in one of the most progressive cities ever (Seattle), so finding someone who at least seems normal is already a challenge. And now I'm back to square one.

I fucking hate trannies and people that helped push this ideology mainstream so much.

So sorry fren. But it’s better to know handmaiden status sooner rather than later. Her breaking things off with you over it was an indication that she wasn’t open to simply agreeing to disagree either. Bullet dodged. Spin again!

 

[NoReturn]

Dating has been hard because I live in one of the most progressive cities ever (Seattle), so finding someone who at least seems normal is already a challenge. And now I'm back to square one.

Feels like if you find a sane person in a place like Seattle, Portland, or San Francisco, then you're very lucky indeed.
I'm not so far gone as to say it's impossible, but I don't envy your search.

 

[90 Day Beyonce]

There were some troons in my social periphery about 10-15 years ago, I never really knew them or had to deal with them but was I already pretty peaked (unlike anyone I knew irl). Everyone only knew them post-transition or at least post-coming-out, so there wasn't really a basis for comparison.

Then later I heard some other guys came out as trans - one of whom was the most stereotypical dudey dude ever up until that point, big buff dude into whiskey and Vikings and shit. It makes me wonder if that made anyone else peak, suddenly having to face the cognitive dissonance of "But SHE has NEVER had male privilege!" Somehow I doubt it.

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

two days later she texted me saying we have fundamental differences in our beliefs and this will not work.

She is a true believer so for her the trans cult has the first priority. You would have to submit to the cult so you doged a bullet. You will find someone better who isn't a cult lumatic.

 

[Kerry Benton]

I was a full, level 9000 handmaiden up until last year, when a dude I went to high school with trooned out. This stupid asshole had physically and sexually assaulted many of my friends when we were in school together. He put on a skirt and grew out his hair, and told one of our mutual friends that his “egg had cracked” after he got into a forcefem BDSM relationship and enjoyed being humiliated so much that he wanted to live that lifestyle full time.
He also has a mommy kink and is a ABDL. He’s in a grad school program and says he wants to work with kids.
Allegedly he is getting a stink ditch installed this year. After browsing the SRS thread… I can’t wait. I hope he gets exactly what he deserves.
I am thankful he peaked me though. Abandoning all the gender nonsense has felt like a huge weight off of my shoulders.

 

[Sinner's Sandwich]

I was a full, level 9000 handmaiden up until last year,

What took you this long to realize that sex can't be changed?

 

[Kerry Benton]

What took you this long to realize that sex can't be changed?

TBH I didn’t’t think about it that deeply. I never truly believed that sex could be changed, but that gender could. I did think that transitioning would alleviate gender dysphoria and enable trans people to live normal, more comfortable lives. I thought it was a weird coincidence that every trans person I met was deeply mentally ill and that transitioning didn’t help, until this dude really pushed me over the edge and I started digging into trans ideology.

Feels stupid now, but I didn’t think anyone REALLY thought they could change sex.