It says ask me about my love life.
What's going on with your love life?
- I'm a member of the Seattle Kink community.
- Seattle Kink, okay, all right.
- I'm in something called ABDL, if you know the abbreviation.
- I don't know the abbreviation, can you tell me?
- It stands for Adult Baby Diaper Lover.
- Adult Baby Diaper Lover.
(audience laughing)
- They are so upset with Josh Fides' goal.
- As brief as possible, can you bring me up to speed
on what Adult Baby Diaper Lover?
- Honestly, it's all there in the name.
(audience laughing)
- Yes it is, all right.
And I'm not trying to get you to like,
tell tales out of school or anything,
but do you recognize anybody right now?
(audience laughing)
- No one in the room.
As I said, I'm from Seattle, so I wouldn't know.
- Oh, okay.
What was your first experience like
when you were like, let me dive in?
- Honestly, after I started going to therapy,
and like, was able to feel a little bit more confident
of like, okay, this isn't gonna kill me.
- I'm sorry, do you shit in the diaper?
(audience laughing)
- This is a whole thing.
- Yeah, sorry, I can't, I, no, no, it's fine.
- Open up this dialogue, no.
- Okay, okay.
- Really?
- Right.
(audience laughing)
- There's a big split in the community
between people who shit.
- Yeah, it's called the ass crack.
(audience laughing)
- I'm so sorry.
- Let's add back that point for (mumbles)
(audience cheering)
- So you said there's a division in the community.
- There is.
- There are the people who poop,
the people who are just like, nah, wait, right?
- They're just all about piss, yeah.
(audience laughing)
- Wait, wait, wait, wait.
So it's not in thirds?
It's not clean diaper?
- Oh, I don't think so, no.
- Something's happening every time.
- Oh yeah, absolutely, yeah, that's part of it.
- Oh.
(audience laughing)
But you're now looking at, meanwhile,
like, don't you know we all piss in the diaper?
I just thought that you were wearing the diaper.
Okay, so what is the etiquette?
- What is the etiquette, Sean?
- No, I'm just saying, like,
let's say you're at the adult, adult--
- At an event, yeah.
- At an event, and you don't know
that you're around a bunch of pissers,
and so you poop and everybody's like,
ugh, you killing the vibe.
- Consent is king.
They're always like, hey, no poop.
Like, anything else is okay.
- It's actually the rule for most parties.
(audience laughing)