So why in the world is she still with him? Is money enough to stay with someone you clearly despise and are disgusted by?
It's could be several things or a combination of them For one, the perceived clout he brings. At one time he had actual clout,and while almost no one likes or admires her, before she got with him, she was a barely known streamer that no one would have paid attention to. When she married Ian, she became Idubbbz's wife and for a narcissistic attention seeker like Anus, that was great, even if most of the attention was negative. Now, his status has fallen and he's nearly as despised as she is, but being with him still makes her feel important, especially because she gets to control him this person who was once considered a big deal, .
And yes money is a thing. Not sure how much money they still have. Other than maybe the latest content Content Cop and Content Deputy, nothing he's uploaded done lately-and by lately I mean in the last few years -, has garnered many views, plus he took down a lot of his older content which might have brought in residual money. Anything they do together other than perhaps the first Creator Clash probably brings in almost no money. However, he did make bank years ago and he's a known cheapskate, so other than the home or homes they bought, he might not have spent much money...so its 50/50 that they're broke or he's still got a lot of money.
Maybe she's convinced herself she actually loves him, even though its obvious doesn't even like him and may pretty much hate him, but people fool themselves into believing a lot of things. And even if she knows she doesnt love him, again its all about attention for her, so just the fact that he appears to love her may just be enough for her.
Finally, they that just stay together because they're afraid of change and being alone, even for a short time...call it the devil you know cliche' or the sunk cost fallacy, but we all are familiar with couples that are awful together, that should have probably broken up long ago, but still stay together year after year, rotting in their shared misery.