Official Kiwi Farms Man-Hate Thread

White, blue eyes, fair skinned, ideally blonde but light brown's okay, difficult major, good grades (IQ is predominantly heritable through the mother after all), facially attractive.

You will recognise this as the list of desirables which is used to set 'adoption expenses' ie the cost of a baby in America.
These are also the most desirable traits when it comes to child sex trafficking.
 
There's a duality among men where men are walking away from dating and they portray it like its good thing, but simultaneously birthrates are falling and that's a bad thing, also if a woman walks away from dating she's a catlady who will die alone and should be shamed for it.
It's almost like their duality of women fantasize about rape, but simultaneously it's entirely men getting outraged that rape simulator games are getting banned.
 
There's a duality among men where men are walking away from dating and they portray it like its good thing, but simultaneously birthrates are falling and that's a bad thing, also if a woman walks away from dating she's a catlady who will die alone and should be shamed for it.
It's almost like their duality of women fantasize about rape, but simultaneously it's entirely men getting outraged that rape simulator games are getting banned.
This has inspired me.
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Let's break it down.
"Not fair to men, as a lesbian"
Right.
Men are not "expected" to make the first move, they make the first move by approaching women they find attractive because they want to, because they are driven by dickfeels to do so. If no woman approaches a moid, that is not a sign that you are oppressed by gender roles, it's a sign that no woman wants you enough to pursue you, or even moids at all, especially in a culture where moids tend to look down on, use and discard women. This is "not fair to men". I recommend a good cry.
Men are "expected" to pay, be confident, the poor dears are "brainwashed by society" to all expect a supermodel, what victims it's so not fair to men, they are expected to be tall, fit, satisfactory in bed, be INTERESTING (lmao), they are expected to know that stupid dumbass stereotypes they invented aren't attractive to the female hivemind, which is a very hard ask, to have an attractive personality.... in short, they are "expected" to be attractive so that a woman wants them. And this is unfair because women get to have an income and rights, so how dare they not provide themselves to unattractive fat limpdicked misogynists with shit personalities who expect them to be a supermodel and will ask what they bring to the table. For free and easily.
Dating is so unfair to men.
LMAO
 
Moid explaining why therapy is totally useless for men.

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I find it hilarious how men will admit shit about their own sex what would get a woman called an extreme hateful misandrist if we said the same thing.

I can't count how many times I've said male depression isn't real and that the worst psychological torment most males are capable of experiencing is lack of pussy. Somehow this guy is allowed to say it but I'm not.
 
Moid explaining why therapy is totally useless for men.

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I find it hilarious how men will admit shit about their own sex what would get a woman called an extreme hateful misandrist if we said the same thing.

I can't count how many times I've said male depression isn't real and that the worst psychological torment most males are capable of experiencing is lack of pussy. Somehow this guy is allowed to say it but I'm not.
"Feminist thought frames" = I am being gaslighted by therapists trying to get me to see that women are people, not a fucking resource to exploit. Also i am broke and a loser.
I'd say suicide is an option to explore
 
"Feminist thought frames" = I am being gaslighted by therapists trying to get me to see that women are people, not a fucking resource to exploit. Also i am broke and a loser.
I'd say suicide is an option to explore

He knows if he went to therapy he'd actually have to listen to the expertise of a woman who knows more than he does, she might tell him uncomfortable truths about himself and his thought process, and wouldn't let him blame all his problems on women for not sucking his dick. Obviously this means therapy is feminist anti-male propaganda.
 
It's hard for me to reconcile men's constant complaints about how hard dating is for them, with what I actually see when I look around at the relationships some of the women I know are in. Most women I know will put up with endless amounts of absolute bullshit just to be able to say they have a boyfriend or husband.

Almost every woman I know has, at some point, dated a man who was ugly as fuck, fat, short, broke, small dicked, smelled like shit, didn't brush his teeth or wash his ass, never gave her an orgasm, porn addicted, never took them on dates or paid for shit, was socially retarded.. the list goes on and on. And these women will still blame themselves for how these guys act/try endlessly to make it work.

So where the fuck are these guys getting the idea that the average woman has these "crazy high" standards? Most women's standards for men are in hell.
 
"lacking access to sex"
"when I was younger, every experience of depression was rooted in lacking access to resources and/or sex"

It makes me irrationally angry every time someone describes sex (women to have sex with) like a commodity to be distributed. Some people die as virgins, some of those people are men, and there is nothing wrong with this. Not everyone is meant to perpetuate their DNA, and if you have a hard time earning resources and finding people who want to be around you enough to find a partner, it's probably your fault. (It's definitely your responsibility regardless.)

If the world really is fixed against men for the simple fact of their birth (it's not but for the sake of argument let's pretend), that shouldn't be a reason to avoid reflection or self-improvement. It should be a reason to work harder or change what you're doing, if only to create a life you can enjoy as a single person. Nobody can guarantee that they will have a life that makes them happy, much less marry and reproduce, but if you lament that you can't purchase a woman for an hour and treat her like a fleshlight like you're buying chicken at the grocery store, why would anyone (suitors, employers, friends) want you? This type of man would literally be more useful ground up into fertilizer.
 
So where the fuck are these guys getting the idea that the average woman has these "crazy high" standards? Most women's standards for men are in hell.
Agreed and have been saying this for years. What 6-6-6 requirement? Go to any supermarket and you'll see that men who look like they had to bargain to get on earth are married with kids. Short, fat, balding men regularly marry (just look at the grooms in any wedding planning board) and broke men routinely have baby mamas. Dweeby limp-wristed BYU "nice guys" are married by 20. Hell, the poly scene is ruled by some of the most grotesque men ever birthed. And unless they're both rich trust fund babies or whatever, the guy will almost always be uglier compared to the girl.

Funnily enough, the Tea app leaks should have proved that there are thousands of girls getting their hearts broken by incredibly repulsive men that redpillers would assume get no action. Of course, they are allergic to any line of thought that isn't Woman Bad.
 
I'm in no way trying to claim BPD isn't real, but the disorder is such an iffy subject to me; borderline seems to be the new, re-branded "female hysteria". Young women seen as "difficult patients" or not responsive to treatment are just smacked with the diagnosis on a whim. Like throwing the towel in, "it's BPD, just learn some coping skills". Just a crazy bitch to them.
Psychiatrists and other mental health professionals seem to glaze over the diagnosis criteria and diagnosis with 'woman I don't like'. Often bipolar, CPSTD, or other cocktails of disorders can be misdiagnosed as Borderline Personality Disorder.

I feel this way about nearly every non-western cultural group, and it keeps some of my racism in check. As much as we complain (with every goddamn right to) about the white-man's wrongs against us, generally, they hold the most respect for our fairer sex than any other group.
You're not wrong - there's also an overlap between misdiagnosis of autism with BPD - but there's also a lot of BPDs who have heard this and are now trying to say they have autism to explain their 'meltdowns' and CPTSD was only given formal diagnosis status last year. Considering BPDs cause trauma and distress wherever they go, particularly when younger, why wouldn't they have the disorder that results from long term experience of stress and trauma? their whole life is that, but they're unable to see themselves as the cause or common factor. I'm personally suspicious of CPTSD as a way to deflect from BPD, like with Autism. Like it is possible to have both, but of course BPDs want to avoid the stigma. Skinwalking is never going to not carry stigma because of how fucked up it is, so we do need a label for the women who are that fucked up. There's also the argument about how men are generally diagnosed with NPD and women with BPD and whether they really need to be separate categories.

Female hysteria was basically a label for stress induced by boredom because it came from a time period where women literally couldn't leave the house easily. And the treatment was literally to stay home and masturbate (or go to your doctors for them to help). So I find it a bit dishonest that women are trying to say BPD directly = hysteria now when women still have a lot of obstacles but can have actual lives. It was not the working class women who were getting the hysteria label, it was young or middle-aged middle class and up women who were looking down the barrel of having absolutely nothing to do but hold luncheons and have babies the next 30 years, with little education to keep themselves occupied intellectually, either. There was still the problem of sexual trauma creating a (justified) mass sense of anxiety and stress in women, but that wasn't the only or main reason for the diagnosis of hysteria, where it is considered to be a driving force in present-day BPD.

The ICD-11 (European / WHO DSM) was released last year and has got rid of many individual personality disorders in favour a general 'personality disorder' label and then 'trait clusters' so that you take one trait that the patient is reporting and look at other ones that are commonly comorbid with it. There is a borderline trait cluster. I think borderline could probably benefit with a 'low on the spectrum' label like Aspergers is for Autism (although I know autistic people aren't supposed to use that any more) because that's what people are really looking to distinguish. It is possible to have borderline traits as maladaptations, without meaning you're a complete basketcase, and would probably stop the feeling that patients are being dismissed as histrionic.
 
I find it hilarious how men will admit shit about their own sex what would get a woman called an extreme hateful misandrist if we said the same thing.

This is fascinating. The dude says that all he needs is money to end his depression - so how would he explain people like Musk or Robin Williams? They have money and fame but also had to deal with depression. Kind of a crazy thing for him to say.
 
This is fascinating. The dude says that all he needs is money to end his depression - so how would he explain people like Musk or Robin Williams? They have money and fame but also had to deal with depression. Kind of a crazy thing for him to say.
Robin Williams, Chester Bennington, Chris Cornell, Anthony Bourdain, Kurt Cobain, David Foster Wallace... all faggots. Real men only kill themselves if they're broke and horny. Being sad is for gays and women.
 
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