What I find frustrating is Chris's inability to budget and prioritize. The money he spent for the DVDs and Lego mini figs was approximately half of the money he's trying to raise to have Barb's teeth fixed. If Chris's finances were in order, Barb's teeth were fixed, and he was spending whatever was left afterwards on this stuff, then that would be find with me, and I think most of us here. That's the way a normal person budgets. Take care of necessities / obligations first, have a little fun with what's left. There's nothing wrong with that, and I wouldn't begrudge Chris a few little non-essential fun items if he'd taken care of his obligations first.