Alice Walker Wright / Alice Weaver Wright / Alice Ridley / partypantsNYC / Mercatur / nycaw - The morbidly obese raging alcoholic thieving owner of GOMI.

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All of the above, plus she's looking for a rich husband. Unfortunately she's about twenty years past her expiration date. Women like her, at her age, used to be able to land an "eligible" "bachelor" by looking the other way from his homosexual indiscretions. Too bad that, much like phone operators, 'beard' is a career track of the past.

Bitch thinks she's Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big is finally gonna come sweep her off her feet when she's 40.
 
Bitch thinks she's Carrie Bradshaw and Mr. Big is finally gonna come sweep her off her feet when she's 40.

More like 50. She's already 44, I think? Pathetic.

As for the "I hate Chick-fil-A" stuff, she virtue signals about gay and tranny issues all the time. Being an ally (ugh) is probably just the easiest/laziest way for her to look woke without getting called out or too close to the SJW "perfect activist" viper's nest.
 
What is her angle? Is she doing this for her followers? Is she trying to get noticed by NYC society? Is she just delusional in general? She used to be so "poor" she was begging for money all the time. I guess GOMI is earning the big bucks now? We know she's a failure as a coder so it's not like she moved up the tech ladder.

She's more screwed up and narcissistic than a lot of the bloggers talked about on GOMI.

She got too old, fat and sad to be a Brooklyn hipster. Alice got to watch her hipster paradise turn yuppie and fill with baby strollers and mommy yoga by the trust fund set that gentrified Brooklyn for her. I think @Umaibae is right, she decided to become a Upper East Side career girl and try to live a Sex and the City fantasy.
 
Long time lurker, first time poster...

I’ve known Alice for a long, long time. I feel bad that she has gotten to this point, although obviously all her own doing. She didn’t used to be this way.
How did she used to be? Do you still know her in the present and how long have you known her? What all do you know?
 
Hello fellow GOMI refugee!
Who are you into now? I’m following along JY, Brianna Wu, Becca Gerber and a few others from a far....
I was never on GOMI I tried to join and Alice refused to let me get an account. I've always wondered why tbh!

Honestly it was originally Stephanie Nielson that got me interested. I fucking despise NieNie

As it is these days I much prefer here anyway
 
I was never on GOMI I tried to join and Alice refused to let me get an account. I've always wondered why tbh!

Honestly it was originally Stephanie Nielson that got me interested. I fucking despise NieNie

As it is these days I much prefer here anyway
Haha! I could never make an account either. Anyway, like you, I find this place is a much better fit for me and much more amusing!!!!
 
How did she used to be? Do you still know her in the present and how long have you known her? What all do you know?

We haven’t spoken in about a year. I’ve known her for 25 years. I see or talk to her off and on.

I’m not here to trash her or defend her. Maybe just add my perspective.

She didn’t drink much back then. She did lie, about crazy things. She hadn’t started GOMI yet, so got her attention and narcissist fix from her website and running her cam.

She was always so creative and good at writing. Loved playing with her hair and her look. She was super into tech and computer hardware and used to love building her own computers.

She’s made bad choices and has had to live with the guilt. It tears her up inside. I know she’s not a great person right now, but she needs help, not all the hatred. I wish it was that easy I guess. I wish she could change, get help. Ah well.
 
We haven’t spoken in about a year. I’ve known her for 25 years. I see or talk to her off and on.

I’m not here to trash her or defend her. Maybe just add my perspective.

She didn’t drink much back then. She did lie, about crazy things. She hadn’t started GOMI yet, so got her attention and narcissist fix from her website and running her cam.

She was always so creative and good at writing. Loved playing with her hair and her look. She was super into tech and computer hardware and used to love building her own computers.

She’s made bad choices and has had to live with the guilt. It tears her up inside. I know she’s not a great person right now, but she needs help, not all the hatred. I wish it was that easy I guess. I wish she could change, get help. Ah well.
You've known her since she was 20? She's nearly 45 years old. Your perspective is welcome, but this isn't a place to make excuses for people. Why did you drop in?

I'm tight with someone she recently burned. Someone who was really good and decent to her. Someone who spent years trying to help her. I don't really care about her guilt. She just uses it to excuse her sociopathy and hurt people. She's nearly 45 years old and she has the means to help herself, but instead, all she does is use and abuse people on her way to her grave. And because she's too much of a fucking coward to eat a bullet, she's taking the long road on a bottle and shitting on everyone who extends their hand to her.

She's nearly 45 years old. If you don't have your shit sorted by 45, you're never going to have your shit sorted. Boo hoo, I did bad things and now everyone else must pay.

Are you someone who actually knows her, or are you actually Alice?
 
You've known her since she was 20? She's nearly 45 years old. Your perspective is welcome, but this isn't a place to make excuses for people. Why did you drop in?

I'm tight with someone she recently burned. Someone who was really good and decent to her. Someone who spent years trying to help her. I don't really care about her guilt. She just uses it to excuse her sociopathy and hurt people.

Can you share anymore? Without revealing too much about your friend, of course. I'm not surprised she burns so many bridges.
 
She’s made bad choices and has had to live with the guilt. It tears her up inside. I know she’s not a great person right now, but she needs help, not all the hatred. I wish it was that easy I guess. I wish she could change, get help. Ah well.
I mean, speaking about hatred, have you seen the shit she's been constantly spewing on GOMI? The things she says about those boring Mormon housewives and their children is ten times more hateful than anything in this thread - and we are supposedly the people killing hate site or whatever. She's not a victim here.

Nobody would be talking about her bad fashion choices, alcoholism or desperate social climbing if she just stopped judging other women and pretending she's some kind of authority on fashion/family/house decor/everything else.
 
Can you share anymore? Without revealing too much about your friend, of course. I'm not surprised she burns so many bridges.
My friend has been stone cold sober for a very long time. It was hard won, but they got there and stayed there. I guess Alice found this appealing, like maybe this person could be a sort of "sober buddy" and help her not drink. I've known about Alice for many years, and I was a lot more cynical. Like, I wouldn't put it past her to try and get someone to break their sobriety both as an accomplishment, and to feel like she wasn't the only drunk in the universe.

Alice is almost pleasant when she's sober for the day, albeit profoundly self-absorbed. And this is how she lures people in. Here's this deeply troubled awkward weirdo, and this person felt for her. Alice would become increasingly clingy and demanding, then would back off. She would constantly impose her alcoholism and her alcoholic behavior on this person. She would sometimes try and talk them into drinking along with her.

This person is well known in some circles. Not a household name, but known to a certain set. Alice was on one of her never ending benders, and this person told Alice they needed to remove her from their life as it was endangering their sobriety, and wished her all the best.

Alice, who is a vindictive little guttersnipe, got smashed and started badmouthing this person all over the place. Assailing their character and talking trash -all of which was untrue- trying to hurt them socially and professionally and anyone who knows this person knows it's all untrue.

I feel this is sufficiently vague as there are a lot of former addicts in the circles Alice is trying and failing to peck her way into, and there are a lot of people she's used and hurt, badmouthed and tried to buy, and who ultimately abandoned her like the rat infested ship she is. It's the story of every relationship she's ever had.

So spare me the "she needs help not hate!!!!" HORSESHIT. And to be clear, I think @higherandhigher is Alice. That woman doesn't have friends she's kept for a quarter of a century. She's fucking cancer with a tragically lopsided tit lift. I'm also going to call her fat because she is and I know for a fact that hurts her feelings. And unlike my friend, I wish her nothing but the worst.
 
You've known her since she was 20? She's nearly 45 years old. Your perspective is welcome, but this isn't a place to make excuses for people. Why did you drop in?

Are you someone who actually knows her, or are you actually Alice?

Ha, I’m not Alice. I’m not sure how to prove that to you without revealing who I am, which I definitely don’t want to do. I’m also sure she reads these forums and will still know exactly who I am.

Maybe this was a mistake, coming here. It seems like anything but spewing hatred for her may not be tolerated.

I’m sorry to hear that your friend got hurt by her. She’s hurt me too, over and over and over. I don’t follow her on GOMI and am only vaguely aware of the bad things she’s said or done. But please don't think I’m here to defend her or make excuses, I just see her as a broken human, not an evil human. There is a difference.
 
Ha, I’m not Alice. I’m not sure how to prove that to you without revealing who I am, which I definitely don’t want to do. I’m also sure she reads these forums and will still know exactly who I am.

Maybe this was a mistake, coming here. It seems like anything but spewing hatred for her may not be tolerated.

I’m sorry to hear that your friend got hurt by her. She’s hurt me too, over and over and over. I don’t follow her on GOMI and am only vaguely aware of the bad things she’s said or done. But please don't think I’m here to defend her or make excuses, I just see her as a broken human, not an evil human. There is a difference.
You don't need to prove anything to me or anyone. I'm genuinely curious as to why you came here, though.

Broken things can be repaired, or the shards can be used to endlessly inflict wounds to others. Those are choices. Clear ones. Alice made her choice and has committed to it.

Your point seems to be that people are not black or white and there are reasons for x,y,z. I think people here get that. No one here is stupid.

The Farms is an interesting place. If Alice, or any lolcow confessed to their sins so to speak, and undertook a serious course of character and behavioral rehabilitation and made amends, Farmers would stop documenting their bullshit, as there would be nothing to document. People here are always willing to give credit when credit is due.

But, Alice is not one of those people. That's why Alice is a cow and will die a cow.

I don't know if Alice is evil, but she isn't just another crazy person doing crazy things on the internet that people here document. She's certainly those things, but she's also bitter, cruel, cowardly, and abusive. She earned her thread and continues to do so.

Why do you stick around and allow her to hurt you over and over, as you say? Because you remember when she was just a budding sociopath who liked to dye her hair and had hopes and dreams? Think of it this way: In the time you've known her -in the entire time she's been on this earth- she has spent more years being an abusive pickled asshole than she's spent not being an abusive pickled asshole.

But, keep hope alive, I guess?
 
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