🐱 Black Women Are Tired of Saving Everyone

https://zora.medium.com/black-women-are-tired-of-saving-everyone-ebd44e1b4d88

Did you catch the Democratic National Convention this week? If you didn’t, I’m sure you’ve at least seen the speeches trending. Joe Biden may be getting the nomination but Black women were the stars of the DNC.

The interwebs went up for Forever FLOTUS Michelle Obama after she called out Trump for being the cruel, trash president that he is and urged us to get him out. Kamala Harris made historyaccepting the nomination for vice president and praised the Black women who helped her get here. Actress Kerry Washington gave everyone a history lesson on the work it takes to create a more perfect union.

All of these Black women implored — practically begged! — the American people to vote, to take this one small action to make this country a better place than it has been these last four years.

Are we listening to them?

This isn’t the first time Black women have had to step up and speak out about the changes we need to see in America. Earlier this week, we celebrated the anniversary of the 19th amendment and the Black women who worked tirelessly 100 years ago to earn the right to vote. Now Black women are wielding that voting power in an effort to save this country.

But we can’t do it alone. 100 years ago, white suffragists pushed Black women to the back burner. Four years ago, 53% of white women did the same thing in the last presidential election. Black women are still trying to undo the damage that’s been done. Isn’t it past time for the rest of the country to step up?

Honestly, it’s getting a little exhausting being the moral compass of a nation.Black women are awesome, it’s true. We’re super but we are not superheroes. We cannot save all y’all all the time.

Michelle said in her DNC speech that “going high is the only thing that works” but Black women have been taking the high road and carrying everyone on their backs along with them. Black women have been trying to tell y’all how to save yourselves. It’s time we listened.

 

[muh_moobs]

On a serious note, there are actually cute black/mullatas out there. However, this nigger culture Americans have is what make them unbearable, plus obesity.

No. Sex with niggers is basically bestiality.

Oh, and mulatto* by the way.

 

[wtfNeedSignUp]

I don't think there is a single population that has less contribution to human kind than black women, even non white women has the occasional genius who invents new stuff and expands their fields.

 

[muh_moobs]

That's where the"#BlackGirlMagic" thing comes from. The white shitlibs who buy into that line of thinking LITERALLY BELIEVE that black women have some sort of magic clairvoyance that gives them insight into the objectively correct moral path to take

But then why don't black women:

-Have jobs
-Avoid violent behavior
-Use prophylactics
-Avoid drugs and alcohol
-Have husbands
-Raise their children to act normal
-Share parenting with the fathers of their children
-Insure their vehicles

You"re kidding right? If a black woman found you bleeding and beaten on the ground she'd throw acid in your face just to hear you scream.

Before or after stealing your wallet?

 

[RomanesEuntDomus]

No, i wish(not for the racism part but for some kind of standing up) but whites are letting themselves be trampled over so badly, at this point an "awakening" where whites finally decide to stand their ground, it will be too late because positions of power will be held mostly by people of color.

Many of these places have been taken by benefit of the skin-color and are held against any criticism by the same magic.
At some point, people will realize that pointing out someone's incompetence can happen completely independent of their skincolor and then anyone not carrying their weight will be gone... well, at least it's technically possible.

 

[Pentex]

I mean, the kind of societal rot many black communities suffer would occur in any community with the same degree of single motherhood. It's not that mothers are bad parents, but they're largely not effective parents by themselves, and even more so for the sons.

This is true. However, blacks not only feel no shame about single motherhood, but actively glorify it. I know there are TERF refugees on KF, but single women, in general, cannot raise functional adults, because most of them lack anything resembling wisdom.

Every single mother (widows are not single mothers BTW) falls into one of two categories: Either she fucked a bad man, or ran off a good man.

 

[Opinion Discarded]

Every single mother (widows are not single mothers BTW) falls into one of two categories: Either she fucked a bad man, or ran off a good man.

This reasoning is always hilarious- men are uniquely wise and logical in a way that women cannot be, while simultaneously lacking any responsibility for their actions. It's like when religious kooks assert that only men are suited to be head of the household and women must obey at all times, but in the next breath will say they'll be reduced to a mindless, blubbering mess of lust by a single glimpse of a woman's (or even more disturbingly, a girl's) thigh.

 

[Pentex]

This reasoning is always hilarious- men are uniquely wise and logical in a way that women cannot be, while simultaneously lacking any responsibility for their actions. It's like when religious kooks assert that only men are suited to be head of the household and women must obey at all times, but in the next breath will say they'll be reduced to a mindless, blubbering mess of lust by a single glimpse of a woman's (or even more disturbingly, a girl's) thigh.

It's okay for you to seethe, but everything you wrote is unrelated to what you quoted.

Women have agency, as much as some might like to deny it when it doesn't suit them. Women even have logic, albeit a very myopic and selective form it.

Barring rape or MacKinnon-Dworkin lunacy, women choose who they fuck. She fucked a man who likes a good time, but not a long time, that's who she picked because that's who she's attracted, and likely the traits she will encourage in her male children.

Hence, single black mothers encouraging their sons to be little players, little lady-killers (sometimes literally), and little thugs.

 

[Zero Day Defense]

This reasoning is always hilarious- men are uniquely wise and logical in a way that women cannot be, while simultaneously lacking any responsibility for their actions.

If she wasn't raped, then she either chose to have sex with someone that would desert her or chose to run off someone that was willing to stick by her and the child. It's not that the man doesn't bear responsibility-- it's that said responsibility isn't the focus of the statement.

And while I wouldn't classify women as relatively unwise and illogical, they're... different. Their logic is, depending on the topic, varying levels of naturally foreign to the man. Their priorities are fundamentally different, as well-- much of this all is fundamentally biological. Modernity has widened the disparity between what women signal as their thought process and what their thought process actually is. In other words, many women (and in particular, female demagogues) misrepresent both general and particular ways of thinking (so, one may be told that in order to determine what a girl is attracted to, you don't ask the girl, but rather their ex-boyfriend).

Some of it, at least, is malevolent messaging-- re: single motherhood, much of its meteoric rise in America has to do with the women latching on to a liberal sex culture that ultimately only stands to benefit men, and even then only in the short term if they're the common man. It's partly from this that the most cited maladaptive female traits flow.

 

[potato fan]

sooo... the tl'dr version of the article is that some negro females dissed trump during DNC, and black women mostly vote democrat, and somehow this makes them all exhausted?

 

[Constellationzero]

We wuz blah blah blah

This "blacks are responsible for every single thing in civilization" shit needs to stop. They didn't like it when whites tried it so why is it ok when they do it?

Besides that, these pavement apes need to EDUCATE THEMSELVES as grorious reader Kim Il Sung invented lidurully everything for ever and ever and ever, Amen (including Randy Travis), so Oprah here needs to have several dozen seats.

And BTW: When I wake up in the morning, I'll still be white.

 

[muh_moobs]

sooo... the tl'dr version of the article is that some negro females dissed trump during DNC, and black women mostly vote democrat, and somehow this makes them all exhausted?

You'd be pretty exhausted too if you were only productive once every four years.

 

[Opinion Discarded]

It's okay for you to seethe, but everything you wrote is unrelated to what you quoted.

It's not unrelated at all. You're asserting that a woman could only end up as a single mother through her own mistakes, as if the father is never to blame. Do you think men never bail on their longtime girlfriends (sometimes even wives) during or after accidental pregnancies, or contribute to the breakdown of their relationships through their own faults? Is this just we dindu nuffin, gender edition?

She fucked a man who likes a good time, but not a long time, that's who she picked because that's who she's attracted, and likely the traits she will encourage in her male children.

This is how black women behave, not women as a whole. Whether the cause is genes, environment or some combination of both there are clear racial differences in behavior, including sexual behavior. Blacks, for whatever reason, are more likely to act "in the moment" and less likely to consider or care about the future ramifications of their actions. This makes them more prone to engage in risky sexual behaviors, forego contraceptives or use them improperly, start having sex too young and/or have a large number of partners, and so on.

There's a reason single motherhood rates are so different between races, and why even between white and black single mothers there are huge differences; black single mothers are far more likely to never have been married to or in a committed relationship with the father(s) of their child(ren) and/or have no involvement with him, while white single mothers are more likely to have been in a relationship with the father and co-parenting with him.

 

[muh_moobs]

Hot take: The reason for the decline of the nuclear family for blacks isn't some grand scheme. It's just that outside of a very few mostly mulatto outliers that black women are the most ugly, demanding and chimpish of bitches and black men (having eyes) see this and decide to go get them a better piece of tail.

Niggers don't think that much.

To understand the nigger, look not to man, but to the rabbit. They fuck, feed, fight, and then die. There is no time nor capacity for thought in the brain of Niggerus Americanus.

 

[Cowboy Boot]

It's true. I have been saved multiple times by middle aged black waitresses at waffle house who call me baby when I'm drunk ordering waffles at 2 am.

 

[Honored guest]

Tommy Sotomayor was right about black women.

speaking of does he do anything anymore? I haven't seen him in a long time.

 

[muh_moobs]

It's not unrelated at all. You're asserting that a woman could only end up as a single mother through her own mistakes, as if the father is never to blame. Do you think men never bail on their longtime girlfriends (sometimes even wives) during or after accidental pregnancies, or contribute to the breakdown of their relationships through their own faults?

Let me break this down for you. No one said men aren't responsible, but you act like women are never at fault.

"Do you think men never bail on their longtime girlfriends (sometimes even wives) during or after accidental pregnancies"

Key word being "accidental". Why didn't the woman demand the man wear a condom while also taking birth control? Why was she consenting to sexual activity without having discussed whether the man wanted children with her? This is a lack of planning on her part, and the woman is equally responsible for being single as the man is for walking away.

"contribute to the breakdown of their relationships through their own faults?"

Again, this comes down to being selective about who you breed with. You shouldn't be accepting the seed of a man who has a defective personality.

As others have said, if the woman wasn't raped she chose to accept the man's seed into her body. That places responsibility for single motherhood squarely on her shoulders for choosing the father of her child poorly.

 

[Opinion Discarded]

Let me break this down for you. No one said men aren't responsible, but you act like women are never at fault.

Let me break this down for you. The quote I was initially responding to:

Every single mother (widows are not single mothers BTW) falls into one of two categories: Either she fucked a bad man, or ran off a good man.

Not only was he saying that only women are to blame when their relationships fail, but nowhere did I so much as insinuate that women were blameless- just that men are also part of the problem.

Key word being "accidental". Why didn't the woman demand the man wear a condom while also taking birth control?

Even unfuckup-able birth control methods like the IUD and implant have a failure rate, even when used together with condoms. Even tubal ligation and vasectomy have a failure rate, and they're considered sterilization procedures.

Why was she consenting to sexual activity without having discussed whether the man wanted children with her? This is a lack of planning on her part, and the woman is equally responsible for being single as the man is for walking away.

It's always a good idea to discuss these things with your partner of course, but how do you know these women didn't do that? It's not unthinkable that a man wouldn't actually stick around even if he said he would- even married men can and do leave their wives if they find the thought of fatherhood too daunting. Most don't do this of course, but it's always possible.

Again, this comes down to being selective about who you breed with. You shouldn't be accepting the seed of a man who has a defective personality.

This advice would be better directed at men, since women are more selective than men about who they sleep with. But people can change, often years into a relationship and after children. Abusive men often start abusing their wives only when she's pregnant or has recently given birth. Do you think those poor women who have to get divorces when their husband of 20+ years troons out and starts blowing Junior's college fund on wigs just didn't vet their husband hard enough? Or that women married to men who one day pick up a nasty alcohol/pill/gambling addiction are to blame for not seeing it coming?

As others have said, if the woman wasn't raped she chose to accept the man's seed into her body. That places responsibility for single motherhood squarely on her shoulders for choosing the father of her child poorly.

What a ridiculous thing to say. Unless he was raped, the father bears responsibility for the pregnancy as well. Was your bit earlier about "No one said men aren't responsible" just you having a laugh or something?

 

[Pentex]

It's not unrelated at all. You're asserting that a woman could only end up as a single mother through her own mistakes, as if the father is never to blame. Do you think men never bail on their longtime girlfriends (sometimes even wives) during or after accidental pregnancies, or contribute to the breakdown of their relationships through their own faults? Is this just we dindu nuffin, gender edition?

Not at all. My assertion is that women who are pieces of shit tend to be attracted to men who are pieces of shit. But I do like the way you characterized a woman letting a man nut in her as a 'mistake' and then proceed through the pre-packaged litany of Lifetime that men leave or do bad stuff. I have women associates who pull that shit with me from time to time, telling me about how dirty their exes were and my answer is always the same:

There must have been something you liked about that ain't-shit nigga when he was balls deep in your pussy.

This is how black women behave, not women as a whole. Whether the cause is genes, environment or some combination of both there are clear racial differences in behavior, including sexual behavior. Blacks, for whatever reason, are more likely to act "in the moment" and less likely to consider or care about the future ramifications of their actions. This makes them more prone to engage in risky sexual behaviors, forego contraceptives or use them improperly, start having sex too young and/or have a large number of partners, and so on.

There's a reason single motherhood rates are so different between races, and why even between white and black single mothers there are huge differences; black single mothers are far more likely to never have been married to or in a committed relationship with the father(s) of their child(ren) and/or have no involvement with him, while white single mothers are more likely to have been in a relationship with the father and co-parenting with him.

You're half right. That is how black women behave, but black women were just the prototype of the (((liberated))) woman. Have you noticed those white marriage rates creeping ever downward while the rate of nonmarital white births has creeped upward (near 30%)? Noticed the dearth of white women twerking, going to 'urban music' concerts, and filling their meaningless social media accounts with declarations of their 'kweenship'? Have you paid a visit to the George Floyd protest thread and listened to the white women mindlessly bleating whatever comes out of some Negress' mouth?

The black nuclear family was destroyed a long time ago. All LBJ and his (((advisors))) had to do was wave 'dem programs' under black women's noses and they kicked black men to the curb. The white nuclear family is currently being dismantled, though white women needed a little more inducement (Eat, Pray, Love; Dopamine & Validation 24/7; MUH DEGREE).

Not only was he saying that only women are to blame when their relationships fail, but nowhere did I so much as insinuate that women were blameless- just that men are also part of the problem.

Uh, no that really wasn't it. When I call a bad man a bad man, it's consistent that he's going to keep on being bad for the duration of the relationship. And if the current girl gives him too much of a problem, it's on to the next one, because there's always another one.

 

[MelloYello]

Saving us from what? Low self esteem? "Man I was gonna suck start a shotgun but then I saw this ugly loudmouth donkey kong looking sheboon and I thought hey at least I'm not THAT!"

How can niggers be so smug, yet so whiny, at the same time? Going from "we wuz kangz" to a screeching victim, without skipping a beat.
You'd think that level of cognitive dissonance must hurt.
But then again, given the statistics, most of them probably can't spell "cognitive dissonance". Or read it, for that matter.

The white shitlibs who buy into that line of thinking LITERALLY BELIEVE that black women have some sort of magic clairvoyance

They can magically get chlamydia at an unprecedented rate, that's for sure.

 

[Zero Day Defense]

t's not unthinkable that a man wouldn't actually stick around even if he said he would- even married men can and do leave their wives if they find the thought of fatherhood too daunting.

The woman should have figured that the man she married was enough of a degenerate to not even care for his own offspring and wife.

This advice would be better directed at men, since women are more selective than men about who they sleep with.

Just because they're more selective doesn't mean they're making good selections.