ok, as for 'I am a member of Faith's household', what details lead you to that conclusion? There are several people who are VERY close to that household, have been for years, close enough to be considered 'family you chose'. And some of us have even been present for some of your manure. I warned Faith about you the minute I met you. I get these vibes about people that so far have never proved wrong, even though once or twice I thought they had, they've always proved right in the end.
I remember Faith's mother (she doesn't have a step mother) telling me about all the times she had to either pick you up from or drop you off to the mental hospital here in Jax, and you were in the ER so often (taken by Faith's mother) that I seriously had to consider whether or not to wait two weeks before visiting the household for fear of what that house had been exposed to in this pandemic crisis.
As for your points as I know the facts:
1) no, at this point she isn't going to let you back into her life enough to let you take her to a dentist. She'd bill you, but would it ever get paid? I understand you lost your last job.
2)I have known the family, as I said, for over a decade. That said, the step-father has a pervy sense of humor (his wife kinda does too, when she's relaxed enough) and will make playful comments to build up women's confidence about themselves that may come across as flirting when it's not. That's his step-daughter's girlfriend. He wouldn't go there.
3)Yes, the step-father has anger issues, but that, we have learned stemmed from uncontrolled anxiety which he has sought help for. I have never heard or seen evidence of a violent insident (outside of his father) either before or after the alleged chair incident. Having been witness to domestic abuse against his mother as a child, he would never hit a female, abhors that sort of thing and suffers from White Knight Syndrome. If he witnesses a man hit a woman... then you might see violence (not that I've ever witnessed it in action, but I've seen him restrainging himself while watching such acts staged in a LARP.)
a) for the record, they have these chairs with really high backs and really low ceilings, and moving them from one side of the table to the other even I have hit that dratted chandelier. b) having spoken to the infant's mother, she was never scared of him before, during or after that argument. and admitted they both were pushing every button they knew of. (I have heard stories from Faith's mother of the tantrums you've thrown in their home, screaming and crying like a mucking toddler.) c) I know for a fact that Alyssa spent weeks after the eye insident agonizing over how miserable being with you made her feel and she didn't break up immediately because she was scared you would do what you have. Hell, even her Therapist told her after your first breakup that you were toxic. d) you never LIVED in that home. You stayed there a few days here a few days there. If you 'lived' there at all it was no more than a week or two. And believe me, you were far from the model houseguest. Faith's mother complained often at the state you left her home and fridge, the way you ate and the amount of hot water you used for your 5 a day thereputic 20 minute showers. (she showed me the power bill before and after you started staying overnights)
4) Faith's dad does not threaten violence (I've seen him angry and in arguments but hey, everybody has those, yeah?). (oh, and as for the baby being in her mother's arms when he 'threw' the chair? She calls you a liar, as does everyone else who was there. The moment their voices were raised, the baby was given to Faith in another room) Against you? Hell yeah, after you threatened to tazer his step-daughter and kidnap a member of his household. He does not take 'testosterone' suppliments. He has taken in the past a vitamin suppliment that happened to have a booster, but had to stop taking it (this was years ago) because it made him too aggressive. He was never on it during the time you knew him. The baby's mother left him just after the baby's first birthday because she was becoming attracted to other people (truthfully, she started pulling away the moment she found out she was pregnant and I am half convinced she left because she'd gotten what she wanted out of him)
Oh, and Paracelus? Her thing with tazers is that she was a security guard (because no way in hell they'd let her become the cop she wants to be) and liscenced to do so. Also, allows her to incapacitate her targets so she has a carrot's chance in a feedbag of actually winning the fight.
Prove you're the subject of this thread or GTFO.
and exactly how is she supposed to do that?
also, that was kinda rude. I would expect a 'global moderator' to have more tact.