This is not a father, this is a prop. Just like this young boy is seen as a prop. Just as, despite the wailing, the victim of the crime is a prop. Every single person in this show is a prop held up to paint out a message and nothing makes this clearer than the decisions the show seems to have made in regards to what and who gets focused on episode to episode, and how his father responds to all of it.
A 13 year old boy is taken in and his father, this seemingly good and loving man, folds over like paper in the face of his innocent child getting arrested and pinned for murder. He does not know his son well enough not to have doubts he's a killer but we are made to believe it is the internet, bullying, and manosphere figures like Andrew Tate that radicalized him into committing a brutal act of violence.
So was this a good father, who spent every hour he could helping his child grow into a normal human being, or is Eddie an inattentive piece of shit that believed being a father was buying his child tech and leaving him in his room for hours on end, exposed to who knows what, because dad didn't check in regularly and never bothered to ask his son what he was watching, what he liked, or how he was feeling?
This question is never answered. We are treated to an episode where instead of showcasing the day to day life of this family, because even Dahmer's behaviors come into slightly sharper focus when you learn of how unstable his upbringing had been, we sit the boy down with the woman tasked with wielding the decision of whether or not the 13 year old boy was of 'sound mind' when he killed another human being.
There is no situation where a 13 year old child is not mentally unstable if they choose to take a life. This does not make them innocent but there is no normal, healthy, loved 13 year old killing anything or anyone in anything other than stomping goombas in their newest Mario game.
Stabbing is one of the most intimate acts of murder and I'm to believe that this boy, with his loving family and suburban home life and supportive father figure, with a loving sister and a loving mother, turned on a dime and because a murderous incel-esque woman hater because he had 'one bad day' and killed a girl in his class over a few comments on Instagram?
This boy who, at age 13, has likely dealt with or witnessed teasing, rough-housing, and insults hurled at him or someone else from boys his own age worse than a secretive emoji morse code? Likely from the boys with shittier families, less money, and a more fucked up nest to grow up in? But HE'S the one that kills a girl?
Disregarding that I'm sure I read someone mention they do not show the audience this information and they are assuming that is what is shown on the tapes, you're telling me a loving parent who truly believes they have reared a good kid would lay down and accept that with little to no push back? You're telling me that a mere 13 months later this parent would be willing to say goodbye to their son, possibly forever, over a crime they committed at the age of 13 and just be okay with that? Kiss for the teddy bear's head that's there to replace my prop son, see you after your life sentence. It's been real!
Partners and family members of people who have committed just as if not more egregious crimes when all parties were of age will staunchly defend the version of that person they remember. No matter how much evidence is put in front of them. No matter if they're guilty or not. But dad is content to have his son forever labelled a misogynistic murderer at the age of 13 despite not seeming to believe there was something wrong with him before this all happened?
There is one big, strong driving force throughout the narrative and the hand of punishment.
The child is swiftly taken by armed police in a raid. No one fights back, everyone follows the process. Evidence is presented and his own flesh and blood begins to detach itself from him; there is no push back, no demand for more, no belief that this could have been fabricated if only through the knowledge of the fabric of this child's basic morality. The system has spoken. He is kept away from his friends and his family. No one bats an eye, this is fair treatment for the child. He is subjected to verbal sparring with an adult he clearly distrusts, as though he hadn't tearfully claimed innocence in the first episode, as though all of his experiences leading up to the murder don't all boil down to nonsensical but typical teenage angst and sexual interactions over the internet.
But it is atypical for his age. He is 13. He is still a child. It does not matter that the number itself ends in a teen. Legally, he is an adult at 18. He can drink 15 (with adult supervision), and even the youth detention facilities are meant for youth younger than 15.
No one bats an eye that 13 year old CHILDREN were exchanging porn of themselves over the internet. That they are familiar with the application of terms like incel, with pimps like Andrew Tate. That their immediate thought when wanting to intimidate a girl is not to loudly laugh at her hair the following Monday in class but to get a knife and scare her into submission. No one cares that these children are behaving like 15-18 year olds on Euphoria; everyone acts like any of this is normal for a child, let alone an entire group of children raised by different families in different homes.
Who cares that this child is a victim of negligence and a societal disinterest in maintaining the innocence of his youth? Accept that he and his peers are all under the legal drinking age, driving age, even the legal age of consent, and demonize him as you would a 18 year old in the eyes of the law, in the eyes of society. He is the problem, this sprout of a human being is the poison in the soil. We do not believe him capable of most acts befitting an adult but murder? Just another Friday for Jamie.
The last we hear of him, he submits to the processes churning around him and his family submit right along side him, as if moved by the hands of fate. From the moment he was apprehended it was decreed: Jamie will be punished. No matter the reasons, no matter the cause, no matter the actual factual evidence. It does not matter what the evidence is, it does not matter what circumstances led to this: this 13 year old boy was seemingly groomed into murderous intent over the course of who knows how many years, despite the loving family, the comfortable home, the picture perfect frame to his unbecoming monstruous portrait, and that is normal.
Let the hand of punishment fall where it must. Let the law do as it deems fit. Ignore the people behind the curtain and everything else going wrong. Look at this 13 year old boy and see how evil he is. Doesn't that scare you? You wouldn't want this hand hovering over your son, would you? Maybe if you cut of access to the internet. A little bit here and there, just to keep your child safer. Who knows what they're learning when you're not watching? Certainly not you. Let the hand of punishment guide you. When has acting solely out of paranoia ever steered you wrong?