@Scarlet Imperial
If you've known Paul & been close for that long, he doesn't strike me as one who'll immediately think you're into a grift, or kick you to the curb for asking.
Just tell him about your friend who legit needs a kidney & why; then ask if he has any ideas. Don't mention anything about fundraising; if anything, just ask if he knows anyone in the medical world who can help find the resources. If the need is legit (and you can prove it), you shouldn't get dinged for trying to help someone.
And now for something completely different:
The next guntube crossover with another greaseball Floridaman.
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