Love Questing and Dating Eduction

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I haven't had a lot of luck in dates. Most guys I've met only want to do it, and it's usually unsatisfying as hell to the point of being painful, so it's pointless to bother, really.

If I found a guy I was compatible with, and liked a lot (which I haven't yet because most men around here are sleazeballs), I don't think I'd even kiss him on first date. I'd have to get to know him first. Otherwise it would feel like a waste of time. Only one guy I've been with I wanted to see again, and he made it very clear to me that what happened between us wouldn't happen again.

I've had to go by online methods because I live in a really conservative little crap shoot were da homos, while more accepted than they used to be, are still pretty loathed. So I'm REAL well adjusted.
 
WanderingVagabond said:
Is the prime reason why him and other dateless men and yours truly hasn't taken the prostitution route yet.
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I realize this is semi- off-topic, but I do have to ask, is that the only reason you haven't taken that route? Like do you have any other fears? fear of being victimized, fear of STD, or perhaps reasons of morality? Or do you worry about being judged? (because part of the job description for prostitutes is NOT to judge, as long as you're a paying customer). Because honestly, if your only fear is the legality, hell, take a vacation to Vegas, see the sights, and go the few counties in that state, hell, in the COUNTRY, where it is actually completely legal. Then boom, no worries

(this of course assumes you're in the U.S)
 
Galvatron said:
I realize this is semi- off-topic, but I do have to ask, is that the only reason you haven't taken that route? Like do you have any other fears? fear of being victimized, fear of STD, or perhaps reasons of morality? Or do you worry about being judged? (because part of the job description for prostitutes is NOT to judge, as long as you're a paying customer). Because honestly, if your only fear is the legality, hell, take a vacation to Vegas, see the sights, and go the few counties in that state, hell, in the COUNTRY, where it is actually completely legal. Then boom, no worries

(this of course assumes you're in the U.S)
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Semi- off topic as well. I live in the U.S. I mostly fear the legality aspect most of all. I don't necessarily care about being judged or whatever it's my life and I'll live and die how I please. The STD parts I'm not worried cause duh, condoms. Victimized, I'm not sure how I would be. I would only do it just to know and enjoy the intimacy of a woman and ultimately lose my virginity (so it doesn't become a nagging thought in the back of my mind, being a male virgin in his mid 20s is extremely depressing). I lack the looks and body type to even have a woman/women pay attention to me or get text or message back so just the validation of a woman is what I care most of all. I have the personality and charm in a sense IRL despite my negative psychosis of shitposting and troll shielding I've been displaying as of late. But again my lack of looks and muscles is what heavily disqualifies me to even get a look or flirt w/o ulterior motives on the woman's part. And since I don't know how women work or figure them D/S/R is a no go for me unless I start off as friends and hope for the best.

I work in retail and transitioning into a new career pretty soon so my vacation options, traveling and money are extremely limited. Without powerleveling or revealing too much(unless I tell you via PM) any further I do live in the largest state in the East Coast of the U.S. so options for finding prostitutes w/o getting arrested by an undercover cop are slim to none.
 
WanderingVagabond said:
Semi- off topic as well. I live in the U.S. I mostly fear the legality aspect most of all. I don't necessarily care about being judged or whatever it's my life and I'll live and die how I please. The STD parts I'm not worried cause duh, condoms. Victimized, I'm not sure how I would be. I would only do it just to know and enjoy the intimacy of a woman and ultimately lose my virginity (so it doesn't become a nagging thought in the back of my mind, being a male virgin in his mid 20s is extremely depressing). I lack the looks and body type to even have a woman/women pay attention to me or get text or message back so just the validation of a woman is what I care most of all. I have the personality and charm in a sense IRL despite my negative psychosis of shitposting and troll shielding I've been displaying as of late. But again my lack of looks and muscles is what heavily disqualifies me to even get a look or flirt w/o ulterior motives on the woman's part. And since I don't know how women work or figure them D/S/R is a no go for me unless I start off as friends and hope for the best.

I work in retail and transitioning into a new career pretty soon so my vacation options, traveling and money are extremely limited. Without powerleveling or revealing too much(unless I tell you via PM) any further I do live in the largest state in the East Coast of the U.S. so options for finding prostitutes w/o getting arrested by an undercover cop are slim to none.
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Yes because revealing personal info via pm has always gone well in this forum
 
Is it normal to be asked out after only knowing someone for four days or maybe only seeing them three times and they don't even remember your name or do I just attract weirdos?
 
I normally go out with people I know for a bit. I could never flirt with someone I do not know. When I do flirt it's nothing inappropriate or heavy just light and fun. Thought it takes me awhile to even get to the point because I'm really shy.
 
Well, I haven't actually gone on a date yet, but I have confessed to a girl I liked and exchanged numbers with her.

All I can say is if you're attracted to someone, just go for it! I know that's pretty obvious, but it's true nonetheless. It's a lot better to get your feelings out there and get rejected instead of being quiet and wondering what could have been.

I know it's not as easy as it sounds. (Believe me I know) But the feeling you get for doing so is amazing. At least for the first time.
 
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Respect, honesty and confidence, in the modern sense, none of that m'lady crap.

Now try to imagine yourself in the mall. You get your first look at this "babe" as you enter a food court. She moves like a bird, lightly, bobbing her head. And you keep still because you think that maybe her visual acuity is based on movement like T-rex; she'll lose you if you don't move. But no, not a girl. You stare at her… and she just stares right back. And that's when the attack comes. Not from the front, but from the side. From the other two girls you didn't even know were there.

Because girls are a pack hunter, you see, she uses coordinated attack patterns and she is out in force today. And she slashes at you with this: a six-inch retractable claw, like a razor, on the middle toe. She doesn't bother to bite your jugular like a lion, oh no…she slashes at you here or here… or maybe across the belly, spilling your intestines. The point is, you are alive when they start to eat you. So, you know…try to show a little respect.

Respect, honesty and confidence. Simple
 
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