Official Kiwi Farms Man-Hate Thread

[Tragon Dirtle]

On the topic of BPD, I think a lot of the more severe symptoms (especially when it comes to poor emotional regulation, splitting and what not)… shit reminds me of what autistic males do when they are having troubles with gaming.

Whose to say that autistic women are being misdiagnosed due to the perception that autism in women is “rare”?

The difference would be about whether it's sensory overload vs a desire to punish or destroy to avenge your ego. Men with autism can develop NPD traits (and BPD traits) as a coping mechanism for not being able to socially navigate, basically it's not them that's inferior it's everyone else.

Spoiler: Autism in women sperg

There's some neurological research conducted recently that suggests autism is underdiagnosed in women, with the difference in diagnosis being that autistic women want to fit but can't, meaning they'll attempt to mask and autistic men just don't try very hard to fit in at all and expect other people to cater to them. Masking as a concept is controversial though because people think that if you can mask why do you need a diagnosis, but really you could make the same argument for high-functioning depressives and autism is also very comorbid with suicide; I do think it's just people griping about new changes being new and also, that it's women getting the focus.

Autistic people have some neurological traits like different synaptic connections and dopamine release/response that shows up on brain scans, so you can do brain scans to prove autism exists in women but it's not financially viable to use it as a diagnostic method. Basically autistic people feel empathy, but cannot mirror it back to normal people in the expected way because their mirror neurons connect differently than in NT people. There's a concept called the Double Empathy Problem that suggests that it's happening in both directions and that NT people don't display what feels like genuine empathy to autistic people either, which would explaining a lot of autistic whining about normies and phoneys and so on. That the two different brain types have two totally different expectations of what sympathy, comfort, love looks like via body language. Autistics can learn what the 'correct' cues are from being around neurotypical people (to an extent), but if you shoved a bunch of autistic people on an island together they'd probably develop a system of body language and emotional expression very different from current expectations.

Personality disorders are basically arrested development and generally improve with age because the brain is neuroplastic (if the patient works at it; Elon Musk for example is never improving) but they're basically a deeply ingrained maladaptation to an extremely dysfunctional early environment. Also there's a genetic trend. So you can have autism and NPD, and a lot of autistic moids do because it seems like when a lot of their parents learn they have autism they just stop bothering to parent their kids. Lots of parents still see their kids as investments and if you're not going to get a return on your investment...

(disclaimer: I've worked in the health service and adjacent to patients with autism and personality disorders, but I am NOT a medical professional. I am explaining things how they have been explained to me or that I've read about them.)

 

[Hand Banana]

For all their sperging about "Life Ruination", I have yet to see a single bit of content that was actually posted on that app. One thread -one anything- that actually shows how men were driven to suicide by women talking about them on their little private app. Even in the thread discussing the whole Tea thing on this site, not a single post of what was actually discussed, instead the discussion is about Chad Thundercock and BPD whores. I recently learned about Chris Chan who was apparently the genesis for this forum: Every little detail about that person is documented, but for this particular topic a clickbaity article of NBC News is enough, it seems.

Trans people not getting their will and being locked out of something is eerily similar to men not getting their will and being locked out of something.

The logical gender is also the gender that falls for clickbait and believes lies the most. Men believe the most retarded shit like that women fuck dogs, want to get raped, constantly baby trap and accuse men of rape etc. All with 0 evidence, just because it justifies their hatred of women. Men are genuinely allergic to facts and easily influenciable which is why propaganda works so well with them and why they have always been cannon fodder.

 

[The Crack Spiders Bitch]

I might be late to this party but I'm reading endless amounts of male seethe about the Tea app.

Lol. Lmao even.

So to recap, absolute crickets from men when women and girls were being photographed all over the world and rape fiction was being written about them in Telegrams or forums.

But women complaining about deadbeat shitheels is LITERALLY. THE. WORST. THING. EVER.

Also the app itself was created a faggot.

The men are upset because "ugly Karens" were talking shit about them...even though they say they don't care what ugly women say. Aren't ugly and fat women supposed to be irrelevant and invisible?
Which is it fellas?
Why should it matter what they say then?

IDGAF when some fat ugmo complains about me or talks shit about me to other men. Go off King, the fucks given is zero.

Also during their crying they are sharing the "can I buy you a drink?"/"She's not interested" meme to describe the women involved.

And I'm like...men are the dumbest fucking creatures on the planet.
When I was younger, pretty much every single time we went clubbing I'd say to my friends "I don't care what I say when we are out, or what the dude looks like - DO NOT LET ME GO HOME WITH ANYONE".

I know this is going to blow the minds of the male population because they're fucking stupid but alcohol makes you retarded.

The woman saying "She's not interested" on behalf of another woman has been asked to do that by her friends.

Fuck, I've asked over a dozen random women to help me get rid of dudes over the years and I've also done it for other women.

Some weirdo sticks to you at the club, you manage to get rid of him by escaping to the bathroom, you chat and make bathroom friends and ask one of them "Hey, this guy won't take a hint. Can you help me get rid of him?"

How do men still not know that we do this?

 

[SubZeroth]

Moid explaining why therapy is totally useless for men.

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I find it hilarious how men will admit shit about their own sex what would get a woman called an extreme hateful misandrist if we said the same thing.

I can't count how many times I've said male depression isn't real and that the worst psychological torment most males are capable of experiencing is lack of pussy. Somehow this guy is allowed to say it but I'm not.

He's straight up admitting that the only thing that gives men a sense of purpose is the assurance that there are women they can rape with no social consequence. That's what prostitutes are, at their core. They have unwanted sex in exchange for money, but the exchange is assymetric. It entrenches every degrading stereotype men have about women -- that we are things for them to use for their sexual gratification; that our earnings, economic value, even our human potential is founded on how amenable we are to letting men exploit our most intimate self.

This is why I hate OF whores and the legions of Zillennial women lining up to jeer at women who have firm sexual boundaries and treat physical intimacy as something meaningful, who want to be both attracted to the person they're with AND enjoy being around him (his company, how he makes them feel and vice versa). Concurrent or multiple sex partners and casual sex have never served women well. They're not sexually fulfilling and are just a shortcut to STIs or worse, STIs AND a pregnancy.

Meanwhile these NLOGs revile other women for the sin of wanting to feel safe, loved and cherished, a relationship that goes beyond cold calculations and transactions, prioritising her health, viewing her body as sacrosanct.

As if wanting to be treated humanely and valued as a human being makes women sexless prudes. F those self serving women. Their happiness is a function of male attention and admiration. They have no capacity for introspection or the will to care about how their actions might be affecting their sisters.

'Why would I give it for free when I can earn 1000s off it?' Losers don't understand it's not free, it's priceless. Far from being exclusive, you are accessible to any man with a chequebook, literally the only barrier to entry is money.

It's most disheartening. I blame hyperindividualism, which is fundamentally incompatible with a society founded on mutual trust and cooperation and the nature of humans as sapient, sentient social animals that revel in emotional connections. The current state of affairs serves only the male default -- driven by greed and extreme self interest.

Disingenuous men will always hold up these maladjusted women as exemplars of womanhood as a whole (don't even get me started on how every single man appears to have dated a woman who digs being brutally beaten, tortured or strangled in bed).

 

[Beteljuice]

Are all trannies basically like this, or just all reddit trannies? Minus the sex part, as they are very open about their sexual degeneracy, though in a "heckin wholesome" and "empowering way." I found this in a female space and at first I thought this must be hyperspecific cause there aren't a lot of straight men like that out there (I think), then I realized this is literally just trans "women" lol

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

I might be late to this party but I'm reading endless amounts of male seethe about the Tea app.

Lol. Lmao even.

So to recap, absolute crickets from men when women and girls were being photographed all over the world and rape fiction was being written about them in Telegrams or forums.

But women complaining about deadbeat shitheels is LITERALLY. THE. WORST. THING. EVER.

Also the app itself was created a faggot.

The men are upset because "ugly Karens" were talking shit about them...even though they say they don't care what ugly women say. Aren't ugly and fat women supposed to be irrelevant and invisible?
Which is it fellas?
Why should it matter what they say then?

IDGAF when some fat ugmo complains about me or talks shit about me to other men. Go off King, the fucks given is zero.

Also during their crying they are sharing the "can I buy you a drink?"/"She's not interested" meme to describe the women involved.

And I'm like...men are the dumbest fucking creatures on the planet.
When I was younger, pretty much every single time we went clubbing I'd say to my friends "I don't care what I say when we are out, or what the dude looks like - DO NOT LET ME GO HOME WITH ANYONE".

I know this is going to blow the minds of the male population because they're fucking stupid but alcohol makes you retarded.

The woman saying "She's not interested" on behalf of another woman has been asked to do that by her friends.

Fuck, I've asked over a dozen random women to help me get rid of dudes over the years and I've also done it for other women.

Some weirdo sticks to you at the club, you manage to get rid of him by escaping to the bathroom, you chat and make bathroom friends and ask one of them "Hey, this guy won't take a hint. Can you help me get rid of him?"

How do men still not know that we do this?

Just to add this was posted as serious liferuination accusation by a guy who tried to use his kid and divorce as get out jail free card for whoring around



Das right you will loose custody over small dick accusation

Look at the life ruination accusations: small dick, mattress on the floor and can't hold liquor
Guys this will make the judges to take away his custody and his keeeedz

 

[Mary Lee Harvey osWalsh]

The Tea app thing is pissing me off. (I had never even heard of this app before the leak happened.)

Okay, yes, I understand that there are a lot of annoying BPD women who are going to complain that a man ghosted them after a short conversation or something. I have been annoyed when one of the very, very few men I ever felt anything for on a dating app ended up ghosting me. But I wouldn't go on Tea and complain about it. I'd bitch about it to my friends at the most, with the understanding that this kind of stuff unfortunately just happens in the dating world. I have ghosted men after our short conversations didn't interest me, after all. (I'm not arguing that it's okay to do that, but I also don't want to be a hypocrite. I am socially awkward, after all, so I have no idea how to say, "I'm not interested.") I understand that men shouldn't be doxxed over really stupid shit and have their lives ruined by a bunch of catty women.

With that said, though, women's safety is a huge issue. I need to make sure I am safe when talking to men online and even moreso when finally meeting them. I think it's fair that women should be able to share this kind of stuff.

Or, there are legitimate catfishes and scams out there. People should be aware of them! At the same time, men should be able to warn each other about catfishing or scamming women because it is very common on both sides of the aisle. Or, what if there's some douchebag guy going around and not telling people he's married or has a girlfriend while he's on these dating sites? Yeah, that shit should be shared to prevent women from getting hurt.

What is really, really, grinding my gears, though, is the insistence that this Tea app is all ugly women who are mad at attractive women. Ugly women who are fucked by men and then dumped.

Well gee, maybe, just maybe, these men shouldn't just go around fucking women that they have no intention of being in a relationship with. Maybe they shouldn't get these womens' hopes up and then completely dash them. It really fucking hurts. Yes, there are women who just want to hook up, but women are more likely to want a relationship before the fucking.

Spoiler: PL

I recently fell for a man who wanted to hook up with me, but I turned him down (because I don't do hookups). I said I wanted a relationship and he said that he had to "sort some things out in his life before thinking of romance." I found out a couple weeks ago he now has a girlfriend. I was livid. But I haven't gone around trashing him to his friends or anything because I also understand that this shit happens.

 

[Justa Grata Honoria]

The Tea app thing is pissing me off. (I had never even heard of this app before the leak happened.)

Fuck no , man wasted your time he deserves to be mocked and ridiculed . I am tired of being the bigger person party. Nope you wanna whore around and waste time go ahead but women should go full stasi on them and report every single whoring around and wasting time as a warning to other women. I firmly believe men should get what they wish for body count check for everyone in HD quality. You dont want to be talked about pick one pick good and marry her .

 

[Shakira Flabbergasted]

this kind of stuff unfortunately just happens in the dating world

I haven't gone around trashing him to his friends or anything because I also understand that this shit happens

It happens because you're on dating apps, and I'm not convinced women need to use these apps to meet men. Interested men are everywhere. At the bar, at the gym, at work, at school, at the bookstore, at the coffee shop. The kind of connections you form on a dating app are transactional and fleeting, so of course you don't expect better. Everyone's just on those apps to waste each other's time, with few exceptions. I don't know a single married person, including myself, who met their spouse on an app for meeting people. I agree apps like Tea are necessary if you're going to be dating that way, but is dating that way really necessary? The low success rate doesn't seem worth the pain and risk.

Then again, I haven't dated in a decade so maybe it's really just that bad out there. Someone who's been single for longer might be able to weigh in on if it's still possible to find a date at the music store, or if men are actually terrified to approach women now like they claim.

 

[Mary Lee Harvey osWalsh]

It happens because you're on dating apps, and I'm not convinced women need to use these apps to meet men. Interested men are everywhere. At the bar, at the gym, at work, at school, at the bookstore, at the coffee shop. The kind of connections you form on a dating app are transactional and fleeting, so of course you don't expect better. Everyone's just on those apps to waste each other's time, with few exceptions. I don't know a single married person, including myself, who met their spouse on an app for meeting people. I agree apps like Tea are necessary if you're going to be dating that way, but is dating that way really necessary? The low success rate doesn't seem worth the pain and risk.

Then again, I haven't dated in a decade so maybe it's really just that bad out there. Someone who's been single for longer might be able to weigh in on if it's still possible to find a date at the music store, or if men are actually terrified to approach women now like they claim.

Actually, the guy I was talking about was a guy I met through a mutual friend, not on a dating site!

I agree that dating apps are horrible and I hate every second of them. For me it's hard to meet outside of them because I do go to places and all of the men there are in relationships or they're too young or too old or what have you. I'm also terrified to approach men. And also people suck.

But I didn't come on this thread to whine about my single life problems, obvs. I just wanted to give my two cents on the Tea thing.

 

[ishtar is incredible]

Are all trannies basically like this, or just all reddit trannies? Minus the sex part, as they are very open about their sexual degeneracy, though in a "heckin wholesome" and "empowering way." I found this in a female space and at first I thought this must be hyperspecific cause there aren't a lot of straight men like that out there (I think), then I realized this is literally just trans "women" lol

"women's" spaces on Reddit are dead. ALL of them have been invaded by troons. r/femcelgrippysockjail and r/letgirlshavefun is pretty much all men skinwalking as women, that seems like the type of meme that would come out of those subreddits, unfortunately.

Lesbian subreddits (the ones not dedicated to male-gazey porn) are all troons. How can you verify this? Subreddit User-Overlap is great. Unfortunately it doesn't have smaller subreddits like FCGSJ or LGHF on there.

Let's check some other overlaps, though?



lmao.

Thankfully, subs like twoxchromosomes don't have as much troon overlap, but some of their mods are XY-havers. Odd.

From my knowledge, the only lesbian/women's subreddit that is not infested with TiMs is thelezistance. You could try Fourth Wave Women, too.

 

[crazedaze]

I have ghosted men after our short conversations didn't interest me, after all. (I'm not arguing that it's okay to do that, but I also don't want to be a hypocrite. I am socially awkward, after all, so I have no idea how to say, "I'm not interested.")

It is ok to do that. There's zero reason to continue talking to someone who doesn't interest you and give a random stranger an opportunity to crash out and insult you over being rejected. Block and move on, this is a STRANGER you haven't even met yet. Adults should be able to handle their emotions in this regard or stay off the apps if you can't.

men shouldn't be doxxed over really stupid shit and have their lives ruined by a bunch of catty women.

With that said, though, women's safety is a huge issue. I need to make sure I am safe when talking to men online and even moreso when finally meeting them. I think it's fair that women should be able to share this kind of stuff.

One of these is reality and one of them is a parroting of what idiot misogynists say to victimize themselves. Women are not stupid and are able to tell the difference between "he ghosted me after a short conversation on an app where I developed feelings for a stranger I've never met ( )" and abuse or major red flags.

 

[a s t r o f u z z]

Someone who's been single for longer might be able to weigh in on if it's still possible to find a date at the music store, or if men are actually terrified to approach women now like they claim.

They are skeered in fact but I doubt it's because of worries of being me tooed. It's a convenient excuse. Unfortunately the ways they try to get attention irl generally sabotage their chances anyway whether out of fear or lack of game. Most recently I had a guy I know tangentially swoop in for a kiss at a party. He certainly could have asked. Oh and no I didn't write about it on Tea. It's not sexual assault, it is an unwanted advance, and now I don't want to get to know him better.

 

[The Cheese Aisle]

They are skeered in fact but I doubt it's because of worries of being me tooed. It's a convenient excuse.

If a man is so fucking socially retarded that he is worried his interactions will come across as being perceived as sexual assault/unwanted sexual advances, he needs to stay inside because he is the problem. Plenty of normal men have normal interactions without living in that fear every day. "You can't approach women anymore or you will get me-too'ed" have you considered that you're just a fucking creep who repels women with your words and actions?

 

[Shakira Flabbergasted]

Plenty of normal men have normal interactions without living in that fear every day.

I haven't been sitting alone in public places much since I've been married, but when I used to do that, I'd get approached by men pretty frequently and it never bothered me since they acted like normal people. If you ask a woman what she's reading or some other benign conversation-starter, there's zero chance she's going to accuse you of sexual harassment. The "hello HR??" meme isn't reality.

The only time I've ever talked to the police about a random dude is when some autist at the gas station asked me if he could touch my feet. The cops showed up while I was paying because an employee had called them earlier, so I told them what had happened. Apparently he was a frequent nuisance in the area and had been officially trespassed from that service station because of a prior incident. He probably went online later that day to complain about how women are always calling the cops on him for being born ugly.

 

[Pervbashing]

"women's" spaces on Reddit are dead. ALL of them have been invaded by troons. r/femcelgrippysockjail and r/letgirlshavefun is pretty much all men skinwalking as women, that seems like the type of meme that would come out of those subreddits, unfortunately.

Lesbian subreddits (the ones not dedicated to male-gazey porn) are all troons. How can you verify this? Subreddit User-Overlap is great. Unfortunately it doesn't have smaller subreddits like FCGSJ or LGHF on there.

Let's check some other overlaps, though?

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lmao.

Thankfully, subs like twoxchromosomes don't have as much troon overlap, but some of their mods are XY-havers. Odd.

From my knowledge, the only lesbian/women's subreddit that is not infested with TiMs is thelezistance. You could try Fourth Wave Women, too.

there's a new lesbian sub every couple of months or so in response to how fetishy and misogynistic /r/actuallesbians has become. /r/lesbianactually is a bit less infested with het men, /r/lesbiangang still has some but they're usually browbeaten until they stop outing themselves as porn addicts every few minutes. /r/actuallylesbian is another one but not nearly as active as the other two.

that being said, reddit is like 70% men no matter where you go, the culture of the website attracts moids like crazy.

Re: Dating apps, if you're even remotely normal I wouldn't bother using them. Like other posters have said, interested men (and women, if you're in a city) are pretty much everywhere. General interest clubs/events/etc are far better for meeting people who are at the very least well-adjusted.

 

[Super Mario Brothers]

Are all trannies basically like this, or just all reddit trannies? Minus the sex part, as they are very open about their sexual degeneracy, though in a "heckin wholesome" and "empowering way." I found this in a female space and at first I thought this must be hyperspecific cause there aren't a lot of straight men like that out there (I think), then I realized this is literally just trans "women" lol

The Male Feminist --> Trans Woman(tm) Pipeline is a real thing.

"women's" spaces on Reddit are dead. ALL of them have been invaded by troons. r/femcelgrippysockjail and r/letgirlshavefun is pretty much all men skinwalking as women, that seems like the type of meme that would come out of those subreddits, unfortunately.

The lack of self awareness will never not be funny.

 

[The Crying Children]

Can someone explain to me why scrotes are being blamed for the Tea thing when the entire thing was a poorly designed ticking time bomb.
And i don't know about you but if i wanted a safe space free from moids i'd rather not have to show my bobs and vegana government ID and for it to be stored in a public database anyone can access called Tea_userbase_plzdontleak.excel.

 

[The Cheese Aisle]

there's a new lesbian sub every couple of months or so in response to how fetishy and misogynistic /r/actuallesbians has become.

There's one- I forget which- where the actual women keep downvoting the trannies into oblivion, and there are regular posts from them seething about it. It's good for a chuckle once in a while

 

[King Koopa]

I don't know why I ever click on sex-related A&N threads and think there will be any kind of decent commentary. Best I can get is a laugh from projections like this:

Because fundamentally women want men to be an apparatus to virtue signal their social and fiscal worth through, yet they don't want to actually do what women were meant to be: a partner to a man that encourages him to be better than he was without them.

This is what men do. Most women are pretty humble about their boyfriends/husbands, I've met very, very few people who show off their men like flashy jewelry or anything at all like this, usually because they obviously aren't worth that. Women have eyes and brains so we don't go "look, my incredibly important and successful husband!" when they're presenting a fat and ugly caveman-looking desk jockey.

And "encouragement" means jack shit, they'll piss and whine if they feel like any thinking, effort, or even compromise is expected of them. I would say that not watching rape on tape makes someone a much better person, but men in relationships will drown themselves in it with no regard for the feelings of his girlfriend or wife, the rapee, or their own sense of morality and mentality.