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So Dan has shown a proclivity for cheating, physical violence and has a short fuse, and she thinks its a-okay to have two small kids around him? And she gets bent out of shape when Nate is rightfully concerned for his and his wife's safety?

I will never understand the overwhelming selfishness of these people.
 
DelicateMageflower said:
I will never understand the overwhelming selfishness of these people.
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Agreed! I honestly don’t understand why people are willing to prioritize sex at the expense of their children, family, friends and careers.

I can’t confirm this, but I think I may have found “Dan’s” post with his side of the story. It’s even more exceptional than his wife’s

r/polyamory - So I've screwed up. How to make amends?

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Ndnd said:
Holy fuck. This is one of the more depressing accounts I’ve seen on r/polyamory.

TL,DR Hubs doesn’t respect OP’s boundaries and keeps breaking their rules (bangs his bossman’s sister and sexes up his latest partner before getting a full STD panel), acts violent towards OP and scares off her paramours.

And unfortunately, children are involved

r/polyamory - This has been a remarkably difficult week with a mixture of betrayal, cheating and abuse. It’s been a perfect storm - and I’m tempted to call it off with all of my partners.

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Why do they have to say shit like “sex without barriers”. Why can’t they just be honest and say they fucked without a condom?
 
Gingervitis said:
Why do they have to say shit like “sex without barriers”. Why can’t they just be honest and say they fucked without a condom?
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The term "fluid bonding" is quite possibly one of the cringiest poly terms in existence. And they're dishonest because polyamory is nothing but a collection of pretty lies told to justify shitty behaviour.
 
Ndnd said:
I can’t confirm this, but I think I may have found “Dan’s” post with his side of the story. It’s even more exceptional than his wife’s

r/polyamory - So I've screwed up. How to make amends?

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Reading those posts, I see how complicated being poly is. So many rules in order to try and make this horrible idea actually feasible.

And I think there is approximately 0% chance that other poly couples with similar rules actually follow said rules. You only fuck someone if they just had an STD test? Get the fuck out of here. Regular STD test, yea okay, I can see this happening for some couples. But no way you're going to put your affair on hold so your partner can get tested. Who has time to go to the doctor that often?

Im guessing most are like this guy, where he asks the STD question and if the answer is anything short of "I have AIDS", its full steam ahead
 
Ndnd said:
Agreed! I honestly don’t understand why people are willing to prioritize sex at the expense of their children, family, friends and careers.
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Well, for men, the reason is obvious - they're thinking with their dicks.

For women, the reasons are much more varied - they're "exploring" or "open" about their sexuality. Or they don't conform to traditional gender roles. Eh, who am I kidding, that's the same thing as men.
 
Ndnd said:
Holy fuck. This is one of the more depressing accounts I’ve seen on r/polyamory.

TL,DR Hubs doesn’t respect OP’s boundaries and keeps breaking their rules (bangs his bossman’s sister and sexes up his latest partner before getting a full STD panel), acts violent towards OP and scares off her paramours.

And unfortunately, children are involved

r/polyamory - This has been a remarkably difficult week with a mixture of betrayal, cheating and abuse. It’s been a perfect storm - and I’m tempted to call it off with all of my partners.

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The most horrifying part of all of these stories is that children are always a complete afterthought they tack on at the end after writing essays about how many people they're having sex with.
 
queerape said:
To be fair, there are barrier methods other than condoms, like female condoms, diaphragms, sponges, cervical caps.
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Most people use the catch all Protected/Unprotected sex. The polyweirdos are trying to make them just having unprotected sex sound a lot more grandios and meaning full. They mean "barriers" as in nothing holding them back from feeling each others true love or something like that.
 
Otis Boi said:
Most people use the catch all Protected/Unprotected sex. The polyweirdos are trying to make them just having unprotected sex sound a lot more grandios and meaning full. They mean "barriers" as in nothing holding them back from feeling each others true love or something like that.
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LGBT relationships in a nutshell. If society is designed for heterosexuality, as these nutcases argue, why do we not run around groping each other in public and breeding like animals? Because there's a greater intent to straight relationships. Fuckbuddies can turn into parents. There's always a next level.

Fags? Ever watched The Normal Heart; a highly acclaimed aids-focused historical movie? It had 5-6 sex scenes. Half of these in a sauna with a stranger. There's no next level, so you can fuck freely and the only possible downside are STI's. You'd think only having this one thing to deal with, they'd at least protect themselves. For women it's basically the same as any other straight relationship no matter how many Chads and Joes you got in your hivemind relationship. You're gonna get pregnant and suddenly it's not all fun and games anymore.

I can't be convinced open relationships in which it's a majority mostly-straight men aren't just mental gymnastics for the woman to get more dick. Look at any case in which it was the opposite; ProJared or Anthony Burch, in which the one who wanted an open relationship gets laid less, and it turns out unhealthy and "actually no!!". It's a way to make cucking normal and "deep".
 
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NoReturn said:
Now there's an idea. Do you think people looking to cheat intentionally look for "non-monogamous" people on dating apps?
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Oh absolutely. Monogamous people, even single, aren't gonna be too happy about dating a married person because they want monogamy.
 
NoReturn said:
Now there's an idea. Do you think people looking to cheat intentionally look for "non-monogamous" people on dating apps?
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If they're up front about it and seek out people into that same shit and agree to a relationship on those terms it isn't cheating. They may be and probably still are trashy people, though.
 
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