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Definitely. The internet has a tendency of making minority groups seem majority if they are vocal enough online. Same goes for other types of spergs that acumulate tons of activity on social media.

I don't think any of the irl lgbt people i've met truly fit any of the woke sjw from tumblr or reddit stereotypes, but i've met straight people who do. Gay people are already like 3% of the population, i mean, its still a lot of people but its a proportionally small number, woke gay people who buy into all the kool aid and agenda are an even smaller number and i am pretty sure by my own experience that most lgbt wont even go out of their way to go to pride marches and stuff like that. Compared to online where 2/3rds seem to have some pronoun in their bio and some political manifesto based on their sexuality.

These poly identitarians are actually super rare to see, either in straight or gay groups, they frolic online and are enough to build a community but very few people actually live like that or see it as a normal type of relationship. Even with all the people joining the bandwagon for clout and woke points online the actual irl number is marginal, but then agian, i don't live in a cultural epicenter so maybe in a very liberal american city is diferent. Even then it would be isolated in that type of cultural mileau, like San Francisco's most cosmopolitan districts or something like that.
Exactly, So the Point of my ramble was that Jokko would be doubly fucked in finding a girlfriend that's kinda normal-ish and i can't shake off the feeling she miight have been poly because of that ( mostly because there's no guy in the equation as far as ik)

But it's on the money on the gay thing. I don't mind talking about my bisexuality but it's not something i will advertise publicly that much ( and kinda rubs off in characters i write lol) cause i feel no need to and i see it when your past your teens and 20s as a sign of insecurity ( i cut some slack to younger people and those that were closeted for long because it will tend to be a phase brought on from trying to not be ashamed of something they might have been so there doubling down)

Also, more links to poly shit done by Jokko as well as her GF meiko
Meiko's social: https://instagram.com/meikomassun?igshid=1khl8mbhphk1h

Meiko's own Poly Shit:
https://www.instagram.com/p/CGWNBVOpZok/?igshid=1063yok0bn118
( we get it mei, your a cuck)
And finnaly the reason Jokko is poly if being correct: https://www.instagram.com/p/CDcR2JDpEfz/?igshid=m0bptmiwd8zj
 
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I am p sure this was book by Le Guin or one of those mutually replaceable chick writers my brain insists on merging with her...either way, it had screwed-up setting that children have no business reading.

Not to mention seeing something like that in a book as a kid and building your life around it seems really stupid.
 
I am p sure this was book by Le Guin or one of those mutually replaceable chick writers my brain insists on merging with her...either way, it had screwed-up setting that children have no business reading.

Not to mention seeing something like that in a book as a kid and building your life around it seems really stupid.
More so that she actually recontextualized a old memory. Basically she liked the idea of this book and somehow thought that made her poly. She didn't build her life around it so much she re used this memory to push her way of life as a justification.
Idk if I'm making sense but yeah lol
 
Have a friend whos into that and it seems like a ridiculous amount of drama. People will agree to it without really thinking it through because shes hot and then seriously regret it later for the same reason. If its balanced its not so bad but done in a one sided way tends to seriously hurt people because they're super aware that they're less attractive
 
And this is the final poly comic that i was able to find:
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Top comment is to read a book. Someone else suggested writing a journal. Another commenter inquired about where OP was in her menstrual cycle. Someone respond with "I definitely think pushing people to check on cycles and plan based on energy flows would help so many things."

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Comments are boring, I just want to laugh at someone upset their partner doesn't want to talk about him fucking other girls.

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I then noticed this. u/pipecleaner6969 seems to have found the keys to endless karma. He is the skinnier guy with the cleaner beard. I wonder how many more pictures he will flood the subreddit with?

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Top comment is to read a book. Someone else suggested writing a journal. Another commenter inquired about where OP was in her menstrual cycle. Someone respond with "I definitely think pushing people to check on cycles and plan based on energy flows would help so many things."
I thought these people were supposed to be progressive? Blaming PMS is pretty misogynistic of them.

I want to feel bad for this woman but she did this to herself. I wonder if her boyfriend felt something similar when she was out fucking other men?
 
I thought these people were supposed to be progressive? Blaming PMS is pretty misogynistic of them.

I want to feel bad for this woman but she did this to herself. I wonder if her boyfriend felt something similar when she was out fucking other men?
You'll notice this amongst poly people, that everything - literally everything - is negotiable except fucking whoever you want. Nothing is sacred and everything will be sacrificed before they even entertain the notion that indulging their desires could perhaps in any way cause problems.
 
It's just a totally different feeling it being your partner instead of yourself.

Wow, cheating feels totally different than being cheated on? You dont say! :story:

She's crying alone in an empty house with only the toilet to hug for company while he's out banging his ex. Skimming her post history, she's also an alcoholic with bipolar disorder who's ballooned up and packed 30 pounds onto her 5'2 frame during quarantine. And now she's on r/asktransgender inquiring about FtM troonout surgery.
 
Even with all the people joining the bandwagon for clout and woke points online the actual irl number is marginal, but then agian, i don't live in a cultural epicenter so maybe in a very liberal american city is diferent. Even then it would be isolated in that type of cultural mileau, like San Francisco's most cosmopolitan districts or something like that.
Poly is unpopular even in San Francisco. The dating apps are clogged with neon-haired 4s insisting they are “ethically non-monogamous.” Most people hate them though, since they amount to a midden of unwanted obstacles between them and their next date.

Gay people have different rules, but dating is different for them anyway.
You'll notice this amongst poly people, that everything - literally everything - is negotiable except fucking whoever you want. Nothing is sacred and everything will be sacrificed before they even entertain the notion that indulging their desires could perhaps in any way cause problems.
This is the crux of the matter. Poly people talk nonstop about how you have to be “mature” and learn to “communicate.” But what you really have to do is tolerate sleeping around. They will tell you to read books or go to therapy, but those are only incidental approaches to the real goal of letting your gf openly cheat on you without hard feelings. Maturity and communication are vague concepts which theoretically enable this unspoken goal. But do they really? We all know many effective communicators with mature demeanors. And yet, few if any of these people respond apathetically to jealousy.

A surprising number of millennials believe that maturity is about suppressing natural and appropriate feelings of jealousy. This is in fact a deeply immature attitude. Jealousy is a normal feeling. Denying it is not healthy, it is counterproductive. It cannot be willed away, and yet poly beliefs require that just that must happen.

The poly cultists tell themselves, “I only need to master myself, and then I can fuck anybody I want.” The truth, however, is that you cannot fully master yourself. A human is a creature of both reason and instinct. Maturity is accepting that some things are not possible, and reconciling oneself to that reality. To do otherwise is immature.
 
Poly is unpopular even in San Francisco. The dating apps are clogged with neon-haired 4s insisting they are “ethically non-monogamous.” Most people hate them though, since they amount to a midden of unwanted obstacles between them and their next date.

Gay people have different rules, but dating is different for them anyway.

This is the crux of the matter. Poly people talk nonstop about how you have to be “mature” and learn to “communicate.” But what you really have to do is tolerate sleeping around. They will tell you to read books or go to therapy, but those are only incidental approaches to the real goal of letting your gf openly cheat on you without hard feelings. Maturity and communication are vague concepts which theoretically enable this unspoken goal. But do they really? We all know many effective communicators with mature demeanors. And yet, few if any of these people respond apathetically to jealousy.

A surprising number of millennials believe that maturity is about suppressing natural and appropriate feelings of jealousy. This is in fact a deeply immature attitude. Jealousy is a normal feeling. Denying it is not healthy, it is counterproductive. It cannot be willed away, and yet poly beliefs require that just that must happen.

The poly cultists tell themselves, “I only need to master myself, and then I can fuck anybody I want.” The truth, however, is that you cannot fully master yourself. A human is a creature of both reason and instinct. Maturity is accepting that some things are not possible, and reconciling oneself to that reality. To do otherwise is immature.
This reminds me of a review I read on the movie "Silver Linings Playbook" by a guy named Miles Mathis.

Long excerpt:
Now let's study the plot. Husband Pat finds his wife in the shower with another man and beats him up. Everyone around Pat, led by psychiatrists and state workers, uses this to label him violent and bi-polar, drug him up, and then put him in an institution. No one in the movie finds this strange. Rather, the director of the film uses every trick in his arsenal to make the audience agree with the psychiatrists and state workers: a man who gets mad when he catches his wife in the shower with another man is mental.

The sane reaction to such a situation is to ask them if they need any shampoo, I suppose; or to walk out the door, stroll calmly to the drugstore, and buy a year's supply of tranquilizers.

Actually, that part of the plot is told to you as backstory, which conveniently keeps you from questioning it. It just burrows into your brain like an alien worm inserted into your ear. It is
surrounded by bad jokes and fast dialog, and you will have swallowed it before you even knew it was in your dinner.

This is so easy to deconstruct, folks. The government doesn't want you to think you have the right to feel any real emotions, or, worse, to act on them. If you feel mad or sad or even happy, they want you to think you have gone mental. They want you to believe the only sane response to the world is a flat acceptance. Even a shrug of the shoulders is suspect, because it indicates you may be hiding your true feelings. You aren't allowed any true feelings.

That is what “bi-polar” is telling you, you know. They are trying to sell you the idea that mood swings are unnatural. Just as they have labeled kids' natural energy as ADHD, they have labeled adults' natural moods as bi-polar. People are supposed to have mood swings, but they don't want you to believe that.

People are supposed to feel both happy and sad, provided they have some reason to feel either way. Life here on Earth provides highs and lows in abundance, so we should look sideways at people who do not have mood swings, not those who do. If you don't have mood swings, you are a zombie in training.

But that doesn't suit the drug pushers. They see human nature not as a given, but as another thing they can exploit for profit. They want to turn every action and thought into a symptom they can medicate.

This movie is selling four things, and is not selling them subtly. First, it is selling the idea that being a man (or a human) is now unacceptable behavior. Fifty years ago, the same scene in a movie would have been read the opposite way: the wife would have been seen as an adulterer, the other man would have been seen as a creep who got what he deserved, and Husband Pat would have been seen as a hero. If Husband John Wayne had thrown other man out the window on his head, no one would have blinked an eye.

Link to PDF of the whole thing: http://mileswmathis.com/silver.pdf
 
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