"It's just jokes", "kids being kids", etc. It's funny to you but it's our harsh reality. You refuse to accept that your brothers are rapists because you're not encouraged or required to understand the reality of being a woman. This shit is actively rotting the brains of young men and feeding in them the entitlement to our bodies. Not just on the topic of abortion -- rape itself is being normalized and incentivized with this kind of speech. I have no faith in "good" men, men who swear that they're our protectors. Who are you protecting us from? Who is threatening to us? It's men and boys who believe that our bodies are part of their domain.