Jesus who is this in reference to?
Nobody in particular. It's a reference to the fact that Destiny is specifically attracted to BPD girls who feel a sense of emptiness that they fill with promiscuity. When Destiny was still with melina he would talk about how women would develop feelings for him but "they knew the deal." Basically Destiny justifies his behavior by saying that women consent to the sex and know he wasn't going to leave Melina for them. But the reality is, most BPD girls don't realize that they're not special just because men use them as cum dumpsters. A lot of them fill the emptiness in their lives by sleeping with or being validated by people like Destiny.
I differ from a lot of my fellow KF users in that I recognize that BPD girls are not normal. They look at this thread, and they "consent" to the relationship they have with Destiny, but they do not process information the way a normal person does. I promise you a lot of the girls that Destiny has made feel special, or unique, have wound up harming themselves because of his callous attitude towards them. You can see it a lot in Lav, who would hate the idea of not actually being in control of herself.
I would encourage anyone interested in the subject to look into the borderline personality disorder's "favorite person." Destiny has definitely filled this role for a lot of BPD women. Look at Chaeiry, actually. He is Chaeiry's "favorite person," and it's why she goes back and forth on him all the time. She can't help herself. Her self worth is based on Destiny's feelings towards her. When she has an opinion, she needs Destiny to validate it.
She is going to spend years "splitting" and going back for more validation when he sucks her back in for foot pics. It's no different than a heroin addict. She needs his validation, and he needs her adoration to cope with his parents abandoning him. He benefits from her promiscuity becasuse he will get to cum over and over, and he can tell himself that she knew the score. He doesn't need to be there for her. He knows he can't be. HIS mental illness benefits from HER mental illness. Every time she makes him cum and he doesn't have to make her cum, his ego is boosted. He's so great that he doesn't even need to provide anything for her. And from her point of view, the bare minimum is enough to make her feel wanted and important by someone who is so busy that if he gives her any time and attention, she must be important.
As soon as Destiny, "gets upset and needs to be left alone," they feel complete abandonment and act in the way BPD girls do. Self harm. One of the primary traits of narcissism is what Destiny describes when he gets upset. Hot and cold behavior. And BPD girls do not take the "cold" part of that well. They react to it by trying to get the "hot" part back. That's how Destiny's entire negging program works. He hurts them and he's the only one who can make it better, so they constantly work to make him like them.
And Destiny gets a major ego boost out of this because these girls wants him in a way that his parents never did.
Actually, if you want an example, look into Cassie Catnip. He sicced his fans on her, calling her abusive because she criticized him, and she didn't take it well. He probably did get off on that.
Most decent men would look at how past sex partners see them and say, "this isn't okay." Not Destiny, though. He gets their "consent" and that's all that matters.
