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[CheesyBoy]

Demon oppressed attention-seeking tranny gets upset at Bible verse
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Why get mad about something that is a very well known and popular part of their branding? It's just an innocent Bible verse printed on a cup, not even anything controversial.

 

[Sean Andalou]

Will check back in hopes of more LULz.

Nigga your pecs are gonna look like a man’s because you are a man

OK. The HRT pecs guy. Checking back.
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Mine don't show up under the breast tissue after about a year off hrt; if anything they make the boobs look bigger

You do realize that the breasts form in front of the muscles right? Having developed pecs will not affect breast growth.

Best of both worlds, am I right?

Maybe growth is the wrong word, but very large pecs with low body fat will look more like pecs than breasts.

We have a winner!

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Why get mad about something that is a very well known and popular part of their branding? It's just an innocent Bible verse printed on a cup, not even anything controversial.

He consented by being willing to do business with them.

Demonic possession?
All I see is standard brand internet atheism updated for the current year by featuring a troon.
Or is having a really annoying faggot voice a sign of demonic possession?

 

[The Lawgiver]

Or is having a really annoying faggot voice a sign of demonic possession?

Nah that's just because he's an annoying faggot that only gets his joy from complaining about others and trying to make them look bad. As the video shows the book excerpts just like "god loved the world and decided that anyone who believed in his son would get in on heaven" more or less.

 

[Lovely Kin]

Why get mad about something that is a very well known and popular part of their branding? It's just an innocent Bible verse printed on a cup, not even anything controversial.

A good portion of anti-religion behaviors from troons and fags comes down to "Don't tell me what to do, dad!" which fills them with rage. Even over the most innocuous verses make them seethe as they know deep down that they will never truly have a community like many religions do.

 

[Mad_Dog]

Or is having a really annoying faggot voice a sign of demonic possession?

Demonic obsession, not possession.

 

[Syikeblade]

Just a pooner upset that her parents refuse to play along with her fantasies.
Of course other pooner's have also cut contact with their families for that reason or arguing on why their identity has to be respected.

How do I get my parents to validate my gender?

Found another post about a tranny who was complimented by a woman and wondering if it was sincere or not.

Spoiler: What do I do when a woman tells me I'm purdy?

Do cis women tell you that you're beautiful or purdy? Is it a bad sign if you get unprompted positive feedback or compliments from cis women? My gay homosexual friends say that it's a bad sign because truly purdy women get attention from men and envy and viciousness from other women. I can see why my gay homosexual friends would say that. Usually, gay homosexuals are privy to inside information because they spend time around women doing their makeup and hair and women don't feel threatened by gay homosexuals, so they drop their guard and show their true colors. In other words, a gay homosexual has a privileged perspective on the female universe because he's not sexually desirable to men (so there is no competition with women) and he isn't a potential desirable partner for women either, so there is no sexual tension. This is why so many cis women love having a gay homosexual friend: It's the ultimate accessory, better than a Louis Vuitton handbag.
Back to my point, it does feel condescending and infantilizing when you get compliments. Or maybe these cis women who lavish compliments on trans women mean well. Maybe they know how hard life is for us and they feel bad about our plight and they want to cheer us up, which is a very noble and laudable thing to do, but sometimes a gurl just wants to be left alone and enjoy her frappuccino. I've witnessed some cringe incidents where AGP hons were asked if they tampons and I'm certain that they went home believing that they passed when, in reality, the women who made those requests were just messing with them.
I don't know. Maybe these women who give compliments just want to show their support or they feel pity, similar to how people give compliments to individuals with Down Syndrome. What do you think? My mother, for example (a cis woman, of course), is super nice when she's around unfortunate people.

I love how is gay friends act like all women act super catty like they do, and the trannies think they're better than them because they're true and honest women.

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ForceForHistory 1 point 5 hours ago
I mean yeah I often get compliments from women but these women are often already in a relationship so I couldn't be a competition to them. I just noticed that when you're friends with women they'll also compliment you for your everyday outfits, men didn't do this. I also get compliments from men (who don't know that I'm trans) but they are much more hesitant. The only people who give me over the top compliments are people who I'm not that close with and who probably know that I'm trans. This often feels like they want to validate me when I'm wearing a casual outfit which shows a bit of skin even though it's just a normal outfit for a young woman. But to friends who see me as more as a trans person who needs validation, I'm just a normal person getting normal compliments

Wet-N-Wavy96 5 points 9 hours ago
As a trans woman u will have a tough life if u r using gay men’s advice as a guide to navigating the world.
They r often jealous and bitter themselves so I’d personally take what they say as a grain of salt if they aren’t close friends of yours.
As far as s compliments go, as u mature u will be able to discern if a compliment or interaction is genuine or not… Being passable has a lot to do with it!
Example:
I went to a straight club Saturday night, and yes there were lots of stares and a few genuine compliments… One was from a guy I met before and a few were from random white women in passing. More on this later!
Guys r often very intimidated by me because of my overall aesthetic, confidence, and the fact that I’m AA. Yes, attractive black women r often viewed as unapproachable by many including black men!
White women don’t view me as threat UNLESS they prefer black men and for that reason I often get compliments from them!
There was a disingenuous interaction with a black guy who had been staring since when my gf and I walked in. I ignored him of course but it wasn’t unnoticed.
We took seats at a high top bar table n chatted over drinks while we caught up. Now u know he saw us sit down. He was with some friends at the next table and “mistakenly” backed into me while talking to someone to which I ignored until he apologized PROFUSELY, hoping for a response from me
I just smiled cuz I ain’t got time for games!
I refuse to feed into men’s bullshit…

ovarian_tumors -2 points 6 hours ago
No, I know that gay homosexuals are duplicitous and fake, but even a broken clock is right twice a day. I generally don't trust gay homosexuals and they feel envy towards us because they don't have nearly as much sexual buying power as we do. HOWEVER, they can be right about cis women

Tranny or pooner these people need to learn how to be people.

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[Captain Cornbread Corneli]

I like to laugh at their antics, but sometimes ...

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Is there no end to tranny horror?

I didn't realize these freaks were getting "foreskins" on their rot brats this entire time.

And here I was cherishing my turtle neck as monument to being untouched by Jewish hands.

Is nothing sacred anymore?

 

[Mad_Dog]

I didn't realize these freaks were getting "foreskins" on their rot brats this entire time.

And here I was cherishing my turtle neck as monument to being untouched by Jewish hands.

Is nothing sacred anymore?

Women have a clitoral hood. Dumb pooners call it their foreskin.

 

[Continuum Transfunctioner]

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14k for his very affirming sarlacc pit.

He spent almost as much on food as he did on the surgery, istg troons are addicted to doordash but I am admittedly unaware of cost of food in New York

 

[Magic Pickle]

I received some very excellent news this morning. which means I must spread the joy. And what is more joyous than seeing these creeps and weirdos get clowned on all the time?

How can nobody see that slathering on hormone-inducing gel that can poison pets and loved ones is obviously not a choice? The only other choice is to spiral! Clearly, this means trooning out is completely non-negotiable. One of the comments in this was so funny, I'm including it for posterity because it showcases that transition kills brain cells worse than a weekend of binge drinking.
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Frustrated at people framing transitioning as a choice​

I can't express frustration in how tedious transition is (the cost, having to consistently remember to apply gel twice per day, the stop start nature of development) but I get "Well, I chose to do it." Nope. Not a choice. If I could be a cis male, I would. Nobody chooses to be trans and what happens to trans people who don't transition? They spiral. But then as soon as you explain this, their eyes have unfocused and you can tell they've already tuned you out as noise and you've lost them. Like are we really this alone?

Spoiler: You think "It's like eating is a choice!" is a solid clapback?

[–] Metempsychosify
It's subtle because transitioning is a choice, but it's a choice in the same way that eating is a choice.
We don't choose to be trans, but we do choose to transition. Obviously the ignorant and the evil conflate the two, they want to take away our ability to choose. They are deciding for us that transitioning is against our best interests, and they are doing everything they can to make it true.
All the hardships we face are by design. They are that way to discourage us from transitioning by punishing us. The fact that we are willing to endure all that shows how beneficial transitioning is for us. They want to make it seem like a trivial decision on the level of fashion or hobbies, when in reality our continued existence proves that it's more fundamental.

Get-a-load-of-this-guy-cam, enhance: this fucked up pervert has been trying to produce fucking colostrum because at one point he and his wife of 16 years were going to adopt, but with an impending divorce she's changed her mind because not only has he been using his wife's breast pump to induce said discharge, but he has been doing it while their 15-year-old biological daughter is at home. The kicker? He's 35 years old, and when you get a look at him, you see the real L were the genetics he inherited along the way.
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My marriage is over and it was 3 and a half years coming​

Well where to begin. I started transitioning in 2022. It was fairly rocky with how my spouse and I worked through it. We really didn't work thru it at all honestly. I've felt 4 years of resentment towards them over it and then they voted for Trump. That's a whole different kettle of fish that was already gonna lead to us getting a divorce. Well then the other day I was using my breast pump (I have a few ml each time I pump now so yay) she comes in says I can't use any of our stuff to sanitize my breast pump nor can I use it any time our 15 yr old daughter is at home.
Yeah no fuck that. You can't tell me I can't do something natural in my own home that doesn't effect anyone other than myself that she also did when we had our daughter? Yeah no fuck you. That was the final straw that broke the camel's back. Shortly after moving back to the states from Tokyo I'm filing for divorce.

Spoiler: Better send Godzilla back to Tokyo, 'cause we don't want him.

Trans people often say that they are living as their true and authentic selves, but for some reason, "going stealth" (i.e. tricking people) makes them feel dishonest and stressed out. Hm, it's almost as if con artists are always afraid of when the ruse is up...
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stealth people, how do you live with the stress?​

hey guys, i’m a stealth trans guy only because i want people just to treat me like any other guy and not see me for being trans. i go to art school so obviously everyone would be pretty accepting, and i don’t mind that people know as long as it’s on my terms.
anyway im constantly stressed out that somehow someone is going to clock me or if i come out they’ll say something like “i had a hunch” and it’ll just ruin me. how do i cope with the stress of the possibility of being clocked (even though it’s all in my head i pass everywhere)
i hope this makes sense, its been keeping me awake and i just had to get it out

Lonelier than a Linkin Park song: this li'l dood is afraid that she'll never find love locked away in her tower, yet somehow seems to believe she's a princess worth fighting for despite being 1) chronically ill to the point of being unable to support herself or take herself anywhere, 2) terminally online and 3) as aforementioned, a pooner. Maybe you'll just have to go prison gay with another "gay trans man" in an LDR, little gal!
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starting to feel like love just might not ever be possible and it bums me out​

so context, im chronically ill and it severely limits my ability to do much of anything. i cant work or drive, im dependant on my parents for pretty much everything at 26. my friends from school got sick of dealing with my shit and all abandoned me, so i have nobody irl really, especially since my parents are often busy with other shit. its pretty bleak but ive made peace with it anyway and managed to find fulfillment in life all the same. i have hobbies and online friends who i adore and make my life pretty okay despite all the bullshit i have to deal with.
but man. i wish dating were even remotely feasible for me.
my health has meant ive had to give up on basically every dream ive ever had but i was at least optimistic that maybe id by some freak chance or through the internet meet someone and get to be like, a househusband and stay-at-home dog parents for my breadwinner husband or smth. i genuinely wholeheartedly feel like id be a good partner, despite the glaring flaw of not being able to financially contribute. im decently average-to-good looking and im sure someone out there would be into my looks. im funny, kind, a good listener, affectionate and loving without being clingy or dependant. i just need someone patient and caring who is willing to sit with me through my bad days and support me. and someone who is actually going to realise i exist at all.
trouble is i just dont know how to go about meeting people. i live in an area so small if i give too much information ill doxx myself, with no access to public transport. as mentioned above, cant drive and cant reliably depend on my mum to chauffeur me around because shes busy with other stuff. my chances of meeting someone organically irl are slim to none and dating apps also feel out of the question- i dont wanna connect with someone as a grown ass adult and then have to be like oh sorry i cant go on a date with you because my mum says she cant drive me there like a fucking child. it feels like itd be immediately off-putting. ive spent years in hobby spaces online trying to connect with people organically that way and ive made some wonderful friends but nothing romantic has ever come from that. i genuinely dont know what else im supposed to do. i love my friends and family but theres a lot of stuff only a partner can provide that my life is sorely missing and i want it so badly and i just feel like its never gonna happen. i know 26 is hardly old but my chances are so utterly abysmal already just from being the way that i am and unable to chance and then im trans and gay on top of that.... genuinely feels like i have a higher chance of winning the fucking lottery than ever finding a compatible romantic partner.
it sucks so much seeing all my friends get into serious relationships around me and be the only one left out. im so worried eventually theyre all gonna stop having time for me because theyre busy with their partners which has already happened with a few people and im just terrified of ending up all alone. and im terrified of never getting to achieve the one dream im still clinging to.

A pooner mom's world is rocked to its very core when her supposedly "trans questioning" and "pansexual" 15-year-old daughter starts to think her conservative father may have some credible points when it comes to transgenderism. She, of course, is devastated, and takes this out on a daughter who still holds her ground. Let us all cross our fingers that the daughter makes it out of here with her wits still about her despite clearly being groomed by her mother.
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At odds with teen daughter​

I don't even know what to think. I put the sensitive topic flair because it's sensitive to me, at the least. Today was Father's Day. I'm FTM and have two teens. They have a biological father, whom I'm divorced from, for a lot of reasons. He came over to visit them today, and spewed his usual right-wing, psuedo-Christian, anti-lgbtq+ rhetoric, which I'm used to from him. It wasn't unexpected. Unfortunately, he started going on about how he believes sexual orientation and being trans are a choice, as if one chooses whom they're attracted to or what gender they naturally align with.
My daughter is 15, almost 16, and pan and thought she might be trans at a point and is still trying to figure it out. I took her to her first Pride event yesterday. I stupidly asked her opinion on the topic, since she was involved in the conversation. Being who she is and having friends who are also lgbtq, I thought she would have known better. But to my surprise, she agreed with her bio father. She actually said she thought these things are a choice, which she repeated several more times after he left and I tried to talk to her.
I explained some different examples to her, such as how someone might make the choice to be with someone they aren't necessarily attracted to at some point, but it doesn't change their sexuality. I explained that a trans person might choose to keep presenting as the sex they were assigned at birth, but it doesn't mean they identify as such mentally or physically. I showed her literature from medical sources saying these things are not a choice, but she held her stance that she thinks these are choices.
I'm not angry, but I am sad. I have always been open with her, and let her know she has my full support as someone who is pan and might or might not be trans. I literally can't fathom her mindset. I thought she knew better and certainly didn't think she'd maintain such views after we talked about it all. Her behavior at the Pride event we went to concerned me, as well. I took her, two of her friends, and my son. While me and my son, who is an ally, participated, my daughter asked if she and her friends, one of whom is a lesbian, could leave the venue and go elsewhere. She made it clear she wasn't interested in being there, and I didn't want her attitude pervading the event, so I told her she and her friends could leave and meet up with me and my son afterward.
I am at a loss. I have supported her sexuality, her consideration of possibly being trans herself, and recently helped her through a breakup with her girlfriend. I asked her if she thought she being pan was a choice. She said yes. I explained fluidity to her and how it is different from a choice. But all to no avail. I finally told her she hurt my feelings and gave her bio dad more ammunition to use against me, herself, and the community, and how her beliefs can affect the entire community. I told her to get online and do some reading and watch some content creators and educate herself before deciding to say such things again.
We haven't spoken in hours, and I honestly don't want to talk to her right now because I am just hurt and disappointed. My thoughts go deeper than that, but I won't elaborate on my mental health. I don't know what to think or do. I have no intention of discussing it with her any further, as she clearly doesn't want to and I'm not going to push her. I feel betrayed by my own daughter, who is lgbtq herself. I was thinking about taking her to a larger Pride event at the end of the month, but I feel no pride at this moment. I feel shame for being who I am, for ever being open with her about myself, and I feel like I failed at something somewhere along the way with her. I don't see this being easily mended, unless she educates herself, which she is very capable of, and I've never felt further away from my own child. Thanks for reading.

This is, unfortunately, another mommy-child L: a little boy asks grandma where his mother has gone, and his dipshit TiF mom still prioritizes her feelings over his own. A pox upon you!
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My Son Hates that I Took His Mom Away​

I have a son (6) and this was the first time we had a real father's day. I had to work for most of the day but we had a nice dinner with us and my mom/his grandma. After he went to bed my mom let me know he was asking why he didn't have a mom any more and was mad at me that I took his mom away. I feel like I failed him and I'm going to have to re explain it to him after work tomorrow. I don't really know what I'm doing anymore.

This one, however, is fucking hilarious: another FTM "father" spent her lunch break sobbing because she and her daughter couldn't wear matching daddy-daughter outfits for her first Father's Day as a troon parent. Genuinely hilarious to imagine to imagine some little hobbit wailing in her car because her daughter is sick which means she can't wear cute clothes with mommy daddy! The injustice of it all!
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i’m really sad over silly reasons​

i work in childcare. my daughter comes with me to school everyday, but she has a different teacher. today was “dress up like ur dad day” and had special activities for father’s day. i went out of my way and bought her the cutest outfit so we could match. i was SO excited for it. she’s sick, so she was hanging out with the nurse yesterday in quarantine and would have been today as well. a bunch of teachers called out today, and we don’t have subs, so the nurse was sent to step in, meaning my daughter had to stay home. it’s my first father’s day, and i’m CRUSHED. i just wanted to feel like the rest of the dads. i can dress her up monday but it won’t be special anymore. i know it’s silly but i’ve been fighting tears all day and now im sobbing in my car on break. i just wanted to be included as a dad

A little boy misses the comfort of his mother's chest, asking her quite frankly: "Where did the doctor take your boobs?" Personally, I find this to be a somewhat unnerving exchange to be had with a 5-year-old, but I don't have little pickles of my own so I don't know whether it's a red flag for him to be so invested. Still, the fact that "his feelings aren't changing how I feel about it" is remarkably cold of Mama Dood to admit.
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5yo misses my old chest​

Hi! I'm new to the subreddit, thank you for allowing me to be here.
I started my transition last year which medically, for me, started with top surgery in November.
So it's been about 6 months. My 5yo has generally not seemed very phased about it. He's had lots of questions and likes to touch my scars and he likes our hugs better without my bras stabbing him.
But very occasionally he does say that he misses my boobs. The other day I was trying to comfort him and he asked me when my boobs were going to grow back. I told him they won't be growing back and I don't want them to. He started to cry and said that my boobs were "special, and kind, and a part of you". He wanted to know where the doctor took my boobs. When I tried to gently tell him my chest was not kind to me and hurt me before, he very sincerely responded that my boobs were kind to him.
VERY grown up grief feelings here for this little guy
I'm very secure in my decision to get my surgery, so his feelings aren't changing how I feel about it. But it seems like there's been a lot simmering under the surface for the last 6 months that are coming up for him and I'm not sure how to handle it next time it comes up.

Based father-in-law lets a T4T couple know that they shouldn't have children, but unfortunately, he's too late: his moronic crossdressing son has already knocked up this TiF and the baby is due in November. I hope that the FiL changes his mind and is involved in the baby's life, if only so that baby can grow up around some degree of common sense.
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I just need some support from other seahorse dads: my FIL told my wife(mtf) that people “like us” shouldn’t have children and are inviting hate onto any baby we have. He doesn’t know I’m currently 3 months pregnant.​

I feel so lonely in this journey. What should be a happy time for me feels tainted with judgment and hate.
My own family is very supportive but they live far away from me now.
I moved from my hometown area (Los Angeles) to be with my wife and also buy a house (Inland).
I’m used to Los Angeles being very progressive and lgbt friendly. Here I feel like my wife and I are constantly being stared at in public and like we don’t belong. I’ve heard people talk poorly about my wife while shopping for baby gear. It’s major Trump territory if you get my drift.
Then my FiL told my wife that we don’t deserve to have children. That any child we have will have hate invited upon them. That people “like us” shouldn’t have kids. He said this to my wife while we were about 10 weeks along and hadn’t told anyone yet.
I am just so sad lately. We tried very hard for our rainbow baby and it seems we won’t have family to support or love us here.
I’m worried nobody will show up for our baby shower or help us with the baby.
I’m so used to having love and support, and my wife is distraught with how they’ve been treating her and talking badly about me and how “confused” I am and that I “influenced” her to be trans.
They blame me for everything because I’ve been trans since 16 but she only came out to them 2 years after being with me.
I’m so deeply sad and depressed over this. I’m so stressed and I just wanted to enjoy my pregnancy.
I’m currently 3 months along and my baby boy is due in November.

Lastly, this is really a visual L, and one that OP is unaware of: she took a selfie of herself pregnant at 36 weeks + 4 days pregnant, and... well, let's just say the baby bump likely won't be the first thing you notice.
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Spoiler: If you care to zoom in.

 

[Syikeblade]

Genuinely hilarious to imagine to imagine some little hobbit wailing in her car because her daughter is sick which means she can't wear cute clothes with mommy daddy! The injustice of it all!

Notice she doesn't have any concern for her sick daughter and only cared about being seen as a manlet.
Trannies and pooner's should just be sterilized.

 

[Paper Machete]

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[monstrous bubo]

The doctors keep talking to us and explaining shit to us like we’re 5. They’re dumbing us down as parents because we’re young.

Also because you and the father think you’re a man despite gestating two humans.

THREAD TAX God I love this based wife so much


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Just a big ol’ „nope” to her husband’s perversions. In the comments a fellow troon suggests this is her cunning plan to force him to leave her; in response he reveals they have a 10 and 12 year old and is worried that if he leaves she will turn them against him. He managed that all by himself.

 

[$5.3 Million Dollars]

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Gee, I wonder why the doctors keep talking to you like you're children? Maybe its because you and your boyfriend are literal teens? Perhaps something else in your posting history will offer enlightenment.


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Okay so we've got a homeless teen pooner without insurance who did not keep up on appointments even while having a high risk birth complication like twins known to her.


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And she managed to get kicked out from her parents home, so little hope of help from them. With such a rocky relationship I doubt the boyfriend will be much better in this regard.


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Sounds like she should've heeded her last ounce of common sense. And shoutout to the person who archived this one before me!

 

[Owls Owls Owls]

Okay this has to be some pedo fantasy, there's no other reason why a grown woman would want to be a 12 year old boy.

Arrested development. Danny Phantom stopped airing back in 2007, and she hasn't been able to move on. I promise you any current fandom for that show is comprised of no one younger than 30.

I don't know whether it's a red flag for him to be so invested.

Won't PL but yes, it's very normal.

I don't expect this will make sense for anyone except another mother, but that kid thinks of the boobs more like a teddy bear than anything else. Way she describes it, the kid was used to cuddling her in a way that included her chest in some way, be it laying on top of it or using them as pillows when cuddling on the couch or bed. Now he misses that source of comfort more than ever, even it sometimes it "stabbed him" (meaning she used bras with a poking underwire, because I guess taking proper care of it was too dysphoric) since his mommy is slowly but surely turning into an unrecognizable monster.

Out of all the freaks in your amazing post, the one that concerns me the most is the Pooner mother who was obviously trying to trans her teenage daughter because it reeks of cult indoctrination. "Guys, my daughter is not responding how the cult manual says she should. She has an opinion of her own based on her own experience, and it goes against mine. I told her to educate herself, but this isn't Twitter/Tumblr/Reddit, so she's just in her room, still existing. What can I do besides ignore her?"

That and the retarded "seahorse dad". Part of becoming a parent is considering the community you're bringing a child into. This retard and her AGP babydaddy chose to conceive while in a hostile environment, yet she's worried no one will show up to the baby shower, boo-hoo. If the place is as red as she claims, she should be more worried about the kid's schooling and the inevitable bullying they will suffer for being the child of a couple of freaks.

Fingers crossed she comes to her senses before the AGP creep tries breastfeeding the baby.

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Man goes to therapy, is shocked to find it is not a Reddit echo chamber. His sadness is doubled when making the mistake of confiding in a trusted friend, said friend also dared to have an opinion that disagreed with the internet cult's.

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It's not the first time I've went to a therapist, but it's the first time I specifically tried to find someone who is knowledgeable about the trans experience, and supportive. I found a place that specifically advertised these topics and it seemed like the right place.

However, when I managed to get a response and an appointment and I went there, the lady's first course of action was to challenge my thoughts and feelings entirely. I explained that my final cracking moment was wearing female avatars in VR, and I think she really grabbed onto this point, about how VR is not real, and from there proceeded to explain how I re-painted all of my old memories 'through the trans prism' and am basically imagining the whole entirety of being trans because I am in a very difficult period of my life. I explained that I'm not an idiot and have questioned the validity of things already, and am looking for advice, but she seemed to have grabbed onto the idea that I am not trans, and wanted to focus on everything else except that (which is all pretty serious, but was not the point of looking for such a therapist, any therapist can talk about the rest).

At the time I took it as well as I could, but naturally, about an hour later when I calmed down I wrote an email saying I'm not going a second time there, and that I hope she hasn't done this with much younger trans people, who could actually be dramatically affected by this. To me, it just ruined a few days.

But what got me more is one of my old friends basically agreeing with her, and trying to 'safely' lecture me about how I should listen to the professionals and how it is "not smart" to not trust a single word - because she is a medical professional, you know? Basically, he outed himself as transphobic a few weeks ago by saying that trans women are trying to trick men into dating them, and how it would make him gay - which also outed him as homophobic at the same time, while being transphobic in the first place. I thought I could change his mind as it sounded like just stuff he automatically says without thinking, but once he tried to tell me this therapist was right, I just told him GFY and blocked him. This is a friend I've known for 15+ years now, but I guess if I am trans then he's not really a friend, right?

I'm sorry, I needed to tell this to someone who would get it, and I have exactly zero people like that outside of my digital life. This therapist was an attempt to find someone to help me process things IRL, and it backfired quite horribly. I'm much better now, but I'm not crazy for feeling like this, right? I'm so disappointed in my ex-friend too, I thought he was a good person but now I just see him as a genuine bigot and have no plans of ever unblocking him at all.

Thank you for reading and understanding.

 

[Prince Vegeta]

but unfortunately, it seems he has a habit of withholding information from people to get what he wants to hear

I'm reminded of what dear Feeder once said on MATI: the troon will always tell you what happened to him, but never why.

 

[ItsaKnife]

Okay so we've got a homeless teen pooner without insurance who did not keep up on appointments even while having a high risk birth complication like twins known to her.

Is there anywhere in America where a poor pregnant woman DOESN'T qualify for Medicaid? She could've went to the doctors while also applying since Medicaid coverage can be retroactive. It sounds like she didn't even try. I wonder if she's one of those people who didn't want to fill out the applications due to "anxiety" or if she and her babydaddy genuinely had zero clue the board of social services was a thing she could visit.

 

[$5.3 Million Dollars]

Is there anywhere in America where a poor pregnant woman DOESN'T qualify for Medicaid?

Medicaid, WIC, CHIP - there's a lot of programs for medical care out there for both children and pregnant women with low to no income and those are just the ones off the top of my head. I'm sure there's a bunch of state level Pennsylvania ones she could've also looked into, instead she mentions a "case worker" and that at the time of her trying to get housing she was not yet 18 and that it was causing issues as well, however even just a quick google search shows several programs she could apply for as a minor. She claims that she had been waiting for months in the current program she is for housing, but doesn't mention healthcare beyond not having it and thinking she'd have a healthier pregnancy back home. From her reddit posts it sounds like she was on the verge of going home with her tail between her legs but she let herself be talked out of it by the bf.

Going off her previous actions I'm going to guess she didn't fully understand the need for neonatal services (hence the doctors now drilling it into her) and given her age and the fact she got knocked up while not even having family or friends to help support a child I'm going to guess both her and the babydaddy aren't playing with full decks.

 

[Dick Johnson]

Why don't these people ever consider that their movement will always be dead because the average person simply does not want it? We have made great leaps in equality in regards to stuff like race and sexuality because most people recognize that those things either aren't choices or can be easily ignored. They have to "justify" their identity because most people don't believe it and don't want to put up with the disaster troons are trying to create. This recent attempt to force representation into politics and media was done because there was no other way to get a platform that they are quickly losing.

The trans movement will always be DoA because most people don't want mentally deranged perverts leeching off of healthcare programs.

I think that there are people who experience gender dysphoria, and that they should get medical care just as anyone else with some sort of mental issue.

As far as transgenderism as a public issue, I think that people are gradually going to realize that trans people, unlike every other demographic that's had to fight for 'civil rights', are a patient group. They're people who are receiving the current best practices in terms of treating gender dysphoria. It's not like being black or female or gay, where the groups are seeking the same treatment as whites/men/straights. They don't need anything about them changed, they just needed to have the laws stop treating them differently.

Trans people are fighting for medical care as an integral part of their group identity (something that's never been a part of any 'civil rights' movement), but that medical care being bound intrinsically to their nature means that they're not seeking rights, but accommodations. The closest analogue is disabled people, who needed society to treat them differently from everyone else. Special considerations to help certain groups live in society, like closed captions on TV for the deaf, audio cues and ground textures at crosswalks for the blind, or ramps for the mobility-impaired.

Society has a responsibility to bend a bit for people who have some sort of medical problem, but there are limits. No one would think it was reasonable for disabled people to demand that stairs be done away with and every building replace them with ramps. Or that every food producer stop using any ingredient that people are allergic to, rather than labeling allergens. What mainstream trans advocates are demanding is like those examples, where society doesn't make space for them but changes to suit them in a way that's not-beneficial-to-detrimental to everyone else.

 

[Sean Andalou]

Same old story. Almost gets it ... goes to Reddit ...


Reddit -- Archive

I'm a half closeted trans woman. I am out to a few people, but not my family and since I still live with them I don't get a lot of opportunities to be me. Well this past weekend and through till the beginning of this coming weekend I've been home alone. And while I didn't get to dress up, this past weekend has been one of the best in the long time because I've mentally been myself uninterrupted. Does that make sense or
am I just gaslighting myself?

Emphasis added.

Just posted no answers yet.