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Height actually means nowhere near as much for men as people on wizardchan seem to think it does tbh. I know plenty of short guys that have no problem finding companionship.Yet Another Wizard said:What's wrong with feeling subhuman or being ashamed when you are clearly inferior? Should they pretend everything is ok? Lie to themselves that they are not short and they don't look that bad or something?Cuddlebug said:>tfw on way out from grocery store and pass by three 1.90+m built young men
j-sus, just seeing such people together is intimidating. And evoke feels of being a subhuman.
I also wonder what it would be like to have a camaraderie of real men, no manlets, hungry skeletons or suchI'm ashamed of myself all the time when I'm outside because so many women are equal or taller than me.
175 cm manlet here
Now manlet is just used for every man under 180 cm.I had to google what "manlet" means. Here's what Urban Dictionary gave me.
The little fella you see at the gym who tries to draw attention away from his short stature by packing on excessive muscle mass (this generally has an effect opposite of that which was intended). Often waddles around like a muscly lil' meatball.
For that matter, why do you guys measure self-worth in the amount of effort it takes to get into a relationship? It seems like a strange thing to do.
btw, 175cm is pretty much average height.
As for what's wrong with perceiving yourself as subhuman, I'd say it's just a really unhealthy way to perceive yourself, and it would also hamper any attempt at self-improvement if it ends in 'meh, whatever, I'm just subhuman, why even bother?' wouldn't it? So it makes it seem as if some people keep themselves stuck in the position they're in even when they're really unhappy about it. I know it's not easy to work with a bad self-esteem, I really do, but it's possible to improve your self-perceptions despite it.