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- Dec 18, 2018
Yeah, I did a quick search for Mahari and all I've really found are a bunch of BPD people gushing over how great her videos are and how she "gets it".@GargoyleGorl sorry but the quote function isn't working right now. On reading some of her pyscho-babble, it's both. Buggered if I can find the link where I read it though. She claims she is "recovered" herself from BPD as well as having a BPD/NPD ex. It could be an exciting new chapter in the world according to Gunt. Speaking of which it's less than 2 hours until Gunt's first appointment with her new therapist. Gosh I hope I haven't ruined it by outing her new VIB (alleged by her other VIBs to be her new therapist) because we all know Chinny was absolutely going to get up and keep that appointment.![]()
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ETA...if she was 28 in 2006 and has been giving her clients the benefit of her life experience, social work/pyschology /religion experience since 1995 (which in her maths is 30 years of experience in the field), then she's been ripping of her clients since she was 19 years old.
Here's another link that talks about her claim yo have been "cured" from BPD in 1995
Online “Life Coaches”. Helpful or misleading?
24-hour live discussions about Borderline Personality Disorder with other family membersbpdfamily.com
I'm very suspicious of this for what I think ought to be obvious reasons. It's nice to feel "got" and a lot of people think that's what therapy is. But Cluster B people in particular need to do a lot of hard, painful work on themselves if they ever want to approach something like "normal". Being understood is a nice first couple of weeks with a therapist, but that's not what therapy is. In fact, BPD people in particular are notorious for quitting therapy when the going gets tough and the therapist starts challenging them -- in other words, when they stop "getting" them.
Also, she says she's cured herself of BPD but she also says she can't be in a relationship because it triggers her BPD. That's like saying you're no longer an alcoholic, but the taste of whiskey triggers your alcoholism. Or you're someone who's prayed the gay away and coincidentally decided to be celibate. Bitch, you're not cured. You're maybe smart enough to recognize you're incapable of emotional intimacy without going insane, and have decided to abstain. That's nice. But if you have a condition that prevents you from doing X effectively, then simply avoiding X isn't fixing your condition, it's just stopping it from being an issue. If I'm colorblind and decide not to be a painter, that doesn't fix my colorblindness, it just makes it a non-issue.
Grift. Delusional grift.