Some of y'all know how much I HATE Chins. I don't watch for fun, or even curiosity--I'm waiting for her to die on stream. I've even referred to her, albeit erroneously and out of desperation, as evil.
But even
I can recognize that Chinny isn't the worst human being on the planet. There are worse creatures out there, and she seems to have gotten herself attached to one of them.
I don't know why this is such a stretch for some people to accept. They're so anti-Chins that they believe beyond logic and reason that she must be the evil puppeteer behind this whole situation, the mastermind cooking up all the drama and playing these two men skillfully against each other.
They cannot conceive that Nads is actually just a really fucking bad guy.
At the risk of power-leveling (as if this is a power-level),
guys like this exist. Guys who will follow you down a very public street screaming obscenities at you in broad daylight. Guys who will abuse you, emotionally and physically, and then convince you that it's your fault.
She has said from the beginning that Nads doesn't like cats. Given that, his attitude towards the Timbit situation seems fairly plausible.
She has also said before this current debacle that he doesn't like her living with or interacting with Peetz, actively attempts to limit their time together, and gets upset when she does favors for Peetz. It isn't a stretch to believe that Nads was responsible for Chinny's abandonment of Peetz the day Timbit died, even if she took the fall for him afterwards.
We have heard him curse out and verbally abuse people in livestream. This is the real Nader, not this polite, cultured, cheerful character we see online who is actively marketing himself for views and superchats. Even then, we see evidence of his controlling and abusive nature. Why would that get any better once the camera is turned off?
I just don't get it. I haven't forgotten that Chantal Lies. But if you fit all these pieces together, it starts to paint a really fucking clear picture of who this man really is, what his motives are, and what he's capable of. As
@GargoyleGorl said earlier in the thread, if the shoe fits...
Chins is a fucking asshole. She's a liar and a manipulator and a narcissist. But
so is Nads, which is why I believe this current truth.
Having said that, I have zero empathy for her. She's still just out for asspats and superchats. When you see abuse for what it is, really
see the man behind the curtain, something changes, and you
can't go back. Chinny, however, only
pretends to see it, with the ranting and the sniffling and the "I don't want any of this to be true!"
And the "HIIIIIII, POO POO FIGGLE FARTS!!"
She even says to her chat at one point, "You guys see something I don't." Why is she so upset if she can't even see the thing she should be upset about? It's like whining about having stubbed a toe whilst fleeing from your burning home--or worrying that your man might have been unfaithful to you when the greater crime may have involved sexual assault. She's focused on all the wrong things.
That, and the fact that she bounces back and forth between SOUL-CRUSHING MISERY and manic glee. Nader may be an abusive asshole, but that's just a minor bump in the road for her. She's upset about the embarrassment of a public blow-out and not knowing who he's with or what he's doing in her absence. She will be back with him in under 24 hours, gaslighting and berating her audience like some kind of weird online version of the abuse cycle.
