Wizchan / Assigned Male Accidental Merger

Move to Lolcow Subforum?


  • Total voters
    42
  • Poll closed .
Status
Not open for further replies.
It's kind of weird seeing a comic supporting trans men from Sophie, especially after she introduced Aiden to be a truscum trans man strawman (although he's actually the most likable character in the comic). Tumblr types usually hate trans men in general, because something something male privilege.
Also, why is Stephie suddenly on some TV discussion panel as some sort of expert on trans issues? Besides wish fulfillment on Sophie's part, of course.
 
So I'm enrolled in a Developmental Psychology class. Today we had a guest speaker from Darkness to Light come to speak to us about child sexual abuse, in a 2-hour thing that's going to continue on in Thursday's class. She gave out a workbook with a lot of statistics and plans of action regarding child sexual abuse. Some interesting tidbits:

Sexually abused children are more likely to experience the following, during childhood and throughout their lives:
[...]
Sexual promiscuity

What is child sexual abuse?

Any sexual act between an adult and a minor, or between two minors, when one exerts power over the other.
Forcing, coercing, or persuading a child to engage in any type of sexual act. It also includes non-contact acts such as exhibitionism, exposure to pornography, voyeurism, and communicating in a sexual manner by phone or internet.
(emphasis mine)

Child pornography is child sexual abuse. It is illegal to produce or possess child pornography in any form.

Children who witness or are the victim of other crimes are significantly more likely to be sexually abused.

40% of children who are sexually abused are abused by older, or more powerful children.
(emphasis not mine, but it would have been anyway)

Youth who sexually offend against children need to receive firm, appropriate boundaries, and skillful professional help. When they do receive help, they often do not continue to sexually offend against children as adults. If you know a youth who is crossing sexual boundaries with younger children, you can contact the Child Molestation Research and Prevention Institute to find therapists in the U.S. and Canada for the youth who has offended.
Go to: http://www.cmrpi.org/pages/diagnosis.html

Boundary violations include:
*Touching of private parts.
*Touch that is excessive or uncomfortable.
*Speaking in a sexual way or showing sexual media.
*Asking that a secret be kept, or having interactions that are overly private.
*Asking or encouraging a youth to be in an isolated situation.
*Gifts and special privileges that are exclusive, excessive, or kept private.

Learn the signs in children and teens:
[...]
*Sexual behavior and language that are not age appropriate can be red flags.
(emphasis mine)

Offenders are rarely caught in the act of abusing a child, but they're often seen breaking the rules and pressing boundaries.

Some resources given by the book:
National Sexual Assault Hotline - 800-656-4673
Darkness to Light Helpline - 866-367-5444
CyberTipline (for child pornography) - 1-800-THE-LOST or www.missingkids.com
Child Information Welfare Gateway (to learn reporting laws of the U.S. states) - www.childwelfare.gov/responding/mandated.cfm

Additionally, I don't remember where James lives, but my state has a requirement that "Any person or institution who has cause to suspect that any juvenile is abused, neglected, or dependent [...] shall report the case of that juvenile to the director of the department of social services in the county where the juvenile resides or is found." referring to it strictly as a duty to report child sexual abuse.

Like I said, the speaker's coming back Thursday. I am debating whether or not to bring up this case to her and ask how it might be possible to bring a sexual abuser to justice when the victim has since turned 18 and, as James states, has no ill will toward the abuser. Is this too much of a w.een act to do?
 
So I'm enrolled in a Developmental Psychology class. Today we had a guest speaker from Darkness to Light come to speak to us about child sexual abuse, in a 2-hour thing that's going to continue on in Thursday's class. She gave out a workbook with a lot of statistics and plans of action regarding child sexual abuse. Some interesting tidbits:




(emphasis mine)






(emphasis not mine, but it would have been anyway)






(emphasis mine)



Some resources given by the book:
National Sexual Assault Hotline - 800-656-4673
Darkness to Light Helpline - 866-367-5444
CyberTipline (for child pornography) - 1-800-THE-LOST or www.missingkids.com
Child Information Welfare Gateway (to learn reporting laws of the U.S. states) - www.childwelfare.gov/responding/mandated.cfm

Additionally, I don't remember where James lives, but my state has a requirement that "Any person or institution who has cause to suspect that any juvenile is abused, neglected, or dependent [...] shall report the case of that juvenile to the director of the department of social services in the county where the juvenile resides or is found." referring to it strictly as a duty to report child sexual abuse.

Like I said, the speaker's coming back Thursday. I am debating whether or not to bring up this case to her and ask how it might be possible to bring a sexual abuser to justice when the victim has since turned 18 and, as James states, has no ill will toward the abuser. Is this too much of a w.een act to do?
I think it would be interesting for you to bring it up to the speaker mainly because it (would) help in the long run to know if he can be prosecuted still. (Or, for future reference)

James lives in Indiana, I know the county but I can't spell it, sadly. (Muncie?)
 
So I'm enrolled in a Developmental Psychology class. Today we had a guest speaker from Darkness to Light come to speak to us about child sexual abuse, in a 2-hour thing that's going to continue on in Thursday's class. She gave out a workbook with a lot of statistics and plans of action regarding child sexual abuse. Some interesting tidbits:




(emphasis mine)






(emphasis not mine, but it would have been anyway)






(emphasis mine)



Some resources given by the book:
National Sexual Assault Hotline - 800-656-4673
Darkness to Light Helpline - 866-367-5444
CyberTipline (for child pornography) - 1-800-THE-LOST or www.missingkids.com
Child Information Welfare Gateway (to learn reporting laws of the U.S. states) - www.childwelfare.gov/responding/mandated.cfm

Additionally, I don't remember where James lives, but my state has a requirement that "Any person or institution who has cause to suspect that any juvenile is abused, neglected, or dependent [...] shall report the case of that juvenile to the director of the department of social services in the county where the juvenile resides or is found." referring to it strictly as a duty to report child sexual abuse.

Like I said, the speaker's coming back Thursday. I am debating whether or not to bring up this case to her and ask how it might be possible to bring a sexual abuser to justice when the victim has since turned 18 and, as James states, has no ill will toward the abuser. Is this too much of a w.een act to do?
When I worked on presentation materials for The Red Cross involving child abuse, those who have information about the mistreatment of minors are obligated to make a report. (Doesn't happen usually due to "I don't want to be a snitch", "it's not my problem", or "I don't want to be involved")

I would bring it up to the speaker and ask about the proper routes. Bring some print outs and talk to them in private if you need to.
 
There is a reason the age of consent laws are in place, James. I know this is fucking obvious to everyone and it should be to you too but I'm going to lay it down anyway. It's to keep adults from taking advantage of children whose brains are significantly less developed than theirs. You can spew your bullshit about children "wanting" and being "mature" enough to have sex as young as the age of 7 but in the end there isn't any room for debate in this topic because it's SCIENCE. Basic fucking biology. They just don't have the brains to understand and the result of rape (because it's not sex. that implies the child is capable of giving consent) will result in trauma.

It might not ruin their lives (you say your victim told you it didn't) but it will make it shitty beyond belief for an indeterminate amount of time. Again, basic science. When you're 16 and a child asks you for sex it's your responsibility as the adult in the situation to say NO. No matter what the child thinks it wants. Children will do things that can injure them (mentally or physically) because they don't know better. It's our job to not let them do things that can end in trauma. Just like we don't let them play in the street because of the possibility of them being hit by a car. Or let them use sharp objects like knives. While a child might desire to play in the street or with a knife, and while they might not injure themselves in the process, it is our job as adults to not let them. Because we know better. They don't.

Just to powerlevel a bit, I work with children not that much younger than the ones you describe wanting to fuck. They believe in Santa. They need help with cutting their food and want the cores cut out of their apples because otherwise they'll take one bite and then throw it away. When they hurt themselves I can magically fix it by blowing where the pain is. I constantly have to remind them that if another child hurts them they can't just get upset, they also have to tell them to stop. Ask them to paint an apple and they will paint some abstract shit that would put Robert Delanuay to shame. Not because they're great at art, but because they're stupid. Because they're too young to be able to paint a simple thing like an apple.
Do you honestly think humans that small who do stuff like that are capable of understanding and desiring the complex emotions that come with sex? If so you're not just a deviant, you're a fucking moron too.
I know that there is more to this post than this, however, I still believe in Santa Claus And I always will.
 
I know that there is more to this post than this, however, I still believe in Santa Claus And I always will.
"I know I raped a child but I'm gonna make a joke about santa so I sound ~cute~"
I hope you realize we're trying all we can to get you the proper punishment for what you've done, Jamesy boy.
 
For someone who claims he "loved" that girl, he sure does like ignoring and dismissing anything that points to him hurting her in a very real way. It's almost like he only cares about himself and only cared that he had someone complacent to molest any time he wanted.
 
Like I said, the speaker's coming back Thursday. I am debating whether or not to bring up this case to her and ask how it might be possible to bring a sexual abuser to justice when the victim has since turned 18 and, as James states, has no ill will toward the abuser. Is this too much of a w.een act to do?

Not only is that the right thing to do, but the resulting panic that will happen will be amazing to watch.

Do it.
 
I know that there is more to this post than this, however, I still believe in Santa Claus And I always will.
Did you even read it? I feel like you did but just don't give a fuck. Maybe you should pay more attention to people trying to tell you about yourself instead of trying to gain sympathy points by lying and acting innocent.
 
Not only is that the right thing to do, but the resulting panic that will happen will be amazing to watch.

Do it.
Alright, I seem to have universal support for this. With that in mind, what materials and evidence should I prepare for this? I know the basic story is that, as a 16-year-old, the abuser had sex with a 9-year-old that he claimed came onto him. The 9-year-old had experienced previous familial sexual abuse and therefore was acting inappropriately, and the 16-year-old took this as a cue that he was allowed to do what he and she both (presumably) wished. It happened around 13 years ago.

That's that story but what about his current actions? He has been creepy to women, but is it women or girls? What incriminating stuff does he have on his tumblr? I mostly follow the thread rather than the supplemental materials so I've missed some of what he's done apart from the initial 16-and-9 sex thing. What else can I bring to the table for this?
 
Did you even read it? I feel like you did but just don't give a fuck. Maybe you should pay more attention to people trying to tell you about yourself instead of trying to gain sympathy points by lying and acting innocent.
Pride will always be his downfall. I don't think he cares about anything. He said (and I will summarize) that if he hadn't cared about himself, then nobody would. That's the statement of a person who's selfish. He won't see past this point of view.
 
Alright, I seem to have universal support for this. With that in mind, what materials and evidence should I prepare for this? I know the basic story is that, as a 16-year-old, the abuser had sex with a 9-year-old that he claimed came onto him. The 9-year-old had experienced previous familial sexual abuse and therefore was acting inappropriately, and the 16-year-old took this as a cue that he was allowed to do what he and she both (presumably) wished. It happened around 13 years ago.

That's that story but what about his current actions? He has been creepy to women, but is it women or girls? What incriminating stuff does he have on his tumblr? I mostly follow the thread rather than the supplemental materials so I've missed some of what he's done apart from the initial 16-and-9 sex thing. What else can I bring to the table for this?
Well, I've seen him comment on a 15 year old's boobs. I seen him comment on a few underage girls. (I wouldn't call them "women".) Though, the 15 year old hadn't mind, but the 17 year old sure did.
 
That's that story but what about his current actions? He has been creepy to women, but is it women or girls? What incriminating stuff does he have on his tumblr? I mostly follow the thread rather than the supplemental materials so I've missed some of what he's done apart from the initial 16-and-9 sex thing. What else can I bring to the table for this?
He has left inappropriate comments on selfies of both women and underage girls. He has had over 12 blogs, some of which have been deleted for posting child porn. We have found porn of cartoon characters younger than 12 in his likes. He admits when he was in his late 20s he had sex with a sixteen-year-old. He has also shared multiple fantasies involving young girls online. He also admitted to contacting his victim years after the incident.

I think that's everything?
 
Do we have archive links to these specific incidents I can collect? (Don't have the time to find them myself atm)
 
Status
Not open for further replies.
Back