There's this trend you can see with "self declared oppressed groups" and this is something I've also seen TERFs express in relation to the patriarchy, they seem to want to "turn the tables", to become the ones in power and become the oppressors, as if that would right a perceived wrong. Equal rights is not the goal, the goal is seizing power over other people. They relish being in control. That's why Stephie wins all arguments in the comics, it's brainwashing its readers to believe in The Ideology. In the case of the trans movement, it reeeeees things like "controlled opposition!!!!" but you know they secretly want to be the ones in control of the opposition. Very nasty stuff.
In the case of the TERFs, they want a matriarchy with eugenics to keep the male population at a minimum and under strict control.
When you think about it, what would a realistic Assigned Male with real struggles look like? It'd show people men have no business in women's bathroom, if anything, it'd show the nonsense of the trans ideology.