Incel and Lonely Men Debate thread - Defend men giving up or tell them otherwise

Said it before, but FOB women are the ONLY valid option these days for competent men with their shit together.

Why would you, as a man, do everything you need to do in order to be saleable in the SMP, when 99.9% of white women are shit tier, both in body and mind? Makes no sense to me.

If you don't lift or have your shit together, however, you should probably just retire your Johnson indefinitely.
This sounds so unintentionally gay i'm cracking up
 
Said it before, but FOB women are the ONLY valid option these days for competent men with their shit together.

Why would you, as a man, do everything you need to do in order to be saleable in the SMP, when 99.9% of white women are shit tier, both in body and mind? Makes no sense to me.

If you don't lift or have your shit together, however, you should probably just retire your Johnson indefinitely.
This is autistic people who can't get laid giving advice to other autistic people who can't get laid. The idea that this is what someone actually says and other people take seriously is lolcow teir shit.

It reads like twelve-year-olds speculating about how to get into an R-rated movie.
 
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Unfortunately, westernized women won't date autists unless they make 100k. As a blackpill doomed truecel women don't want to date men with mental health issues or disabilities unless they have money, the personality cope just means if the guy has money.

Yes, even a record selling parody writer indulges in the doom black pill philosophy.
 
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This is autistic people who can't get laid giving advice to other autistic people who can't get laid. The idea that this is what someone actually says and other people take seriously is lolcow teir shit.

It reads like twelve-year-olds speculating about how to get into an R-rated movie.
And your response tells me you're either a pedestrian ass man who can't get pussy unless it's handed to him, or you're a salty incel who has never seen a human vagina. Or a woman.

At its core it's very simple - women from conservative cultures are generally held to higher standards, both internally and externally, and thus are, again, generally speaking, better quality people in pretty much every aspect.

You'd have to be intellectually dishonest to go against that.
 
definitely good women out there.",
Lmfao.
It would be more useful for you to look at women as many different groups
They are all the same.
Now I'm not going to say that rural living is some promised land
Women going to be women no matter if they live in bumfuck Alabama or metropolitan New York.

the supreme court is about to give incels something to crow over.
What's going on?
If you're running into women who are narcissistic it might be because you're consistently going for that type of woman
Narcissism is intertwined in human nature.

the main problem with incels/femcels is their sense of entitlement and repugnant personalities. If they got a reality check and possibly sought out therapy, it's not hopeless for anyone.
I mean im not entitled and women treated me like shit. Therapy doesn't do much considering I have been in therapy on omanf off since I was a kid. I don't think wanting to be loved is entitlement.

The type of woman you meet on there will inevitably disappoint you.
Women no matter what will disappoint you. They are all superficial.
 
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The more you try to force it, the worse luck you will have. Do the activities you truly enjoy and hang out with the people you truly like and you will meet someone with compatible personality and interests. Ignore dating apps, all they will do is depress you.

Group activities are useful. If you lift, do a powerlifting meet in your area (even if you suck no one will notice.) You will have plenty to chat about with the women also competing that day and it will be way less fraught than attempting to strike up a conversation with a woman at the gym who doesn't know you. If you ride bikes, do some group rides with the same people and get to know them. Etc. It is way easier to chat and meet people in those settings without coming off as creepy and is also a lot less pressure.
 
And your response tells me you're either a pedestrian ass man who can't get pussy unless it's handed to him, or you're a salty incel who has never seen a human vagina. Or a woman.

At its core it's very simple - women from conservative cultures are generally held to higher standards, both internally and externally, and thus are, again, generally speaking, better quality people in pretty much every aspect.

You'd have to be intellectually dishonest to go against that.
You're right, we should submit to the glory of Islam and marry Muslim women.
 
Unfortunately, westernized women won't date autists unless they make 100k. As a blackpill doomed truecel women don't want to date men with mental health issues or disabilities unless they have money, the personality cope just means if the guy has money.

Yes, even a record selling parody writer indulges in the doom black pill philosophy.
Have you tried dating autistic women? Maybe that'll help.
 
Lmfao.

They are all the same.

Women going to be women no matter if they live in bumfuck Alabama or metropolitan New York.


What's going on?

Narcissism is intertwined in human nature.


I mean im not entitled and women treated me like shit. Therapy doesn't do much considering I have been in therapy on omanf off since I was a kid. I don't think wanting to be loved is entitlement.


Women no matter what will disappoint you. They are all superficial.
With this attitude it's no wonder you're miserable.
 
Lmfao.

They are all the same.

Women going to be women no matter if they live in bumfuck Alabama or metropolitan New York.


What's going on?

Narcissism is intertwined in human nature.


I mean im not entitled and women treated me like shit. Therapy doesn't do much considering I have been in therapy on omanf off since I was a kid. I don't think wanting to be loved is entitlement.


Women no matter what will disappoint you. They are all superficial.
Easy, three things - women are intensely vulnerable and feel it constantly, they only have a limited number of children in their life and they're usually making decisions, without admitting it, based off of your appearance.

So if you look lean and healthy - not necessarily large, which is a key point a lot of people seem to miss, it's all about bodyfat%, you'll discover women are suddenly friendlier, they'll DM you first and do weird shit to try to keep your attention.

The best you can be is strong and lean - followed by skinny and lean - followed by strong and normal.

That's it. Little else matters - your autistic nature will make them feel unsafe and they'll fuck off.

The thing which I have noticed is that it's very binary - if you are good, all women are interested - if not, no women are interested. Despite some professing some preference, none of them actually have these preferences.
 
Right now I have too much stuff to deal with in my life to add dating to it, shit was easier when I was younger and had few problems.

Meanwhile a lot of my 30yo boomer friends are what you could call mgtow except they dont belong to that gay-ass community or even know the term but are basically doing the mgtow says: dont marry, dont go into long-term relationships, fuck around and thats it. Its becoming really common.

Last time I was in a rural area the chicks were 6/10 at best and all with kids despite being in their early 20s
Yeah skanky rural babymamas seem to be the most common.
 
OK I'll give real advice now as a married woman

(Could work for femcels too just change she to he or whatever)
Meeting people offline
1) do not at bars or clubs despite the fact your intent is most likely fine it scares women due to the fear of date rape.
2) gyms are extremely iffy for the same reason
3) it's better to try through meetups or friends

Meeting people online
1) don't go by profile pic alone. I'm not saying go outside your physical attraction just also please read her profile. Common interests matter as do cultural things (like religions), political views, etc
2) dont ask about sex right away unless there is an indicator
3) if being rejected do not freak out at her or get into giant slap fights it's not worth it

Conversation pieces
1) don't bring up views about all women this despite the fact we're catty and cruel about other women to each other we have this weird aversion with dudes doing it
2) if she gives red flags like gold digging or violent behavior run
3)don't bring up having babies or marriage for a long time it's weird
4) don't talk shit about the friends she has That you don't like .

Simple I guess
 
OK I'll give real advice now as a married woman

(Could work for femcels too just change she to he or whatever)
Meeting people offline
1) do not at bars or clubs despite the fact your intent is most likely fine it scares women due to the fear of date rape.
2) gyms are extremely iffy for the same reason
3) it's better to try through meetups or friends

Meeting people online
1) don't go by profile pic alone. I'm not saying go outside your physical attraction just also please read her profile. Common interests matter as do cultural things (like religions), political views, etc
2) dont ask about sex right away unless there is an indicator
3) if being rejected do not freak out at her or get into giant slap fights it's not worth it

Conversation pieces
1) don't bring up views about all women this despite the fact we're catty and cruel about other women to each other we have this weird aversion with dudes doing it
2) if she gives red flags like gold digging or violent behavior run
3)don't bring up having babies or marriage for a long time it's weird
4) don't talk shit about the friends she has That you don't like .

Simple I guess
Where are you supposed to meet people IRL if you don't have many friends? Find clubs or something? Is that what you meant by 'meet ups'?
 
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