Plagued Waifu culture - Cartoon fuckpillows and the men (and women) who love them

[The Repeated Meme]

Okay, I'm being serious now. Please don't bring my mother into this. Fuck with me all you want but she's a completely sane woman and doesn't deserve this. She's normal. Not a horsefucking degenerate like me. I deserve this shit for being a certified retard, but don't stalk her.

What are you so afraid of, dumbshit? Nobody is going to fuck with you or your family. No-one cares about you or your mom, doxing you is just funny, that's all. Doxing only hurts as much as you let it, it's just a way to fuck with people. Nothing actually changes as a result except for you becoming a laughingstock.

A laughingstock on a small forum nobody in the real world knows or cares about outside of internet weirdos and social rejects like me.

 

[Dyn]

Thing can't get any worse, right?

Things can always get worse.

 

[Lala Loopsy]

Good riddance. Seems that this particular saga has come to a close.

I'm not going to have any sympathy for this absolutely insane horsefucking individual. Constant "I know I'm an idiot but I don't deserve this".
Maybe this is symptomatic of a bigger problem. I'm still thinking about the 'anonymous waifuist' moment from a while back. These people love to throw anyone under the bus to justify themselves. The mods, the "weird people" on the subreddit, their own "more autistic" family members. No one is safe. But at the same time they seem to enjoy the fact that they know people think they're strange. I mean, when I first caught wind of the farms back when I was still doing my waifu shit I had this constant feeling of "yeah, they're making good points, but they're not about me. I'm not like other waifuists". I don't know where that mindset comes from, or why they all seem to have it.
I feel like perhaps I made this point in the past but the worst waifufags are actually the ones who have any self-awareness because they will pull shit like the horsefucker and literally say "I'm not like other waifuists because I LOVE fruit farms! I love how you're calling out a group of people that I am a part of, and yet those rules do not apply to me. (Why? Because I actually have some self-awareness, enough to know that the thing I'm doing is strange and unhealthy but not enough to stop doing so)". It's playing both sides so that you always come out on top. It reeks of insecurity. Waifuists are nothing if not insecure.

So what am I trying to achieve with my rambling? I don't think horsefucker is that rare of a case here. Sure, not all of them want to fuck horses or shit in diapers but they all do want to be accepted and they will try any retarded option they can to make it work. And they're so desperate for that they'll try get in with people who explicitly don't approve of them. The waifu community is sad and pathetic and I almost feel sorry for them. Almost.


Literally was right about to post when this came through and this is 100% the truth. I can't speak for the ulterior motives of the moderators, I've heard everything from wanting to just have a high member count to stupidity to just not caring at all, but god damn for a community that sells itself on anyone being welcome and caring about your individual, special "relationship", the second you get into the discord with the big leagues you're thrown out into the deep end and if you don't have it in you to sell yourself constantly your effort is a waste of time.

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Yeah, I shortened this. I realised my mistake. It's late over here and this whole thing got the better of me. Apologies.

Indeed I have seen waifuists who are usually very self-aware until it comes to waifuism, then for some reason their sense of judgement gets warped as hell.

Some claim that "at least they aren't as bad as the real bad cases" ergo they are fine according to that weird logic, other seem to be open to discussion until you actually try to have that and they just twist your words to fit into their little delusional world and their ideology.
Trying to convince a waifuist with actual braincells that they are delusional is just futile. Their brain is so on a different track you can talk and talk and talk and they won't get you.
Or if they get you they might twist it into "Yes, I love xyz so unhealtily much" as if that was an achievement. It's a fake wake-up.

Actually I doubt they can be helped and I've obviously given up on trying. Mocking is fun while playing helper is pure frustration.

 

[BP4L]

Indeed I have seen waifuists who are usually very self-aware until it comes to waifuism, then for some reason their sense of judgement gets warped as hell.

Some claim that "at least they aren't as bad as the real bad cases" ergo they are fine according to that weird logic, other seem to be open to discussion until you actually try to have that and they just twist your words to fit into their little delusional world and their ideology.
Trying to convince a waifuist with actual braincells that they are delusional is just futile. Their brain is so on a different track you can talk and talk and talk and they won't get you.
Or if they get you they might twist it into "Yes, I love xyz so unhealtily much" as if that was an achievement. It's a fake wake-up.

This is why I came to kiwifarms, if I can't help them I can mock them and maybe MAYBE some will wake up at least a little bit when reading the valid points we point out. But that's most likely just an autistic hope of mine lol.

Actually I doubt they can be helped and I've obviously given up on trying. Mocking is fun while playing helper is pure frustration.

It's true, there's always going to be delusion. This entire waifu thing is a one sided delusional thing where you just trick yourself into believing they love you back. I also never understood those on /r/waifuism who pretend they are actually talking to them or things like that, though. That shit always weirds me out and feels like a dumb zoomer coping thing.

I admire your attempt to change their ways, but with the majority of people that dwell on /r/waifusim that sounds like pure masochism.

 

[Lala Loopsy]

It's true, there's always going to be delusion. This entire waifu thing is a one sided delusional thing where you just trick yourself into believing they love you back. I also never understood those on /r/waifuism who pretend they are actually talking to them or things like that, though. That shit always weirds me out and feels like a dumb zoomer coping thing.

I admire your attempt to change their ways, but with the majority of people that dwell on /r/waifusim that sounds like pure masochism.

Yea they just either know that character so well they instinctively know how the character would behave (similar to a Tulpa) or at least they think they know. It needs quite the extra level of obsession to develop such way of thinking.

So in their mind they DO talk to them and they DO take them out but their characters responses are imaginary. They are quite literally crushing on their own fantasy.
And usually they know that but wishful thinking makes them behave like complete lunatics.

Thank you also I agree. They are too far off/brainwashed/delusional. And it is very hard to wake them up when everyone in their surrounding tells them they are doing the right thing. So yea. Don't even bother trying.

 

[What the shit]

At some point, you just can't help but feel sad for these people who believe in these ridiculous delusions. As much as I think they're fucking retarded, I can only imagine what went wrong for them to get to this point.

 

[BP4L]

Yea they just either know that character so well they instinctively know how the character would behave (similar to a Tulpa) or at least they think they know. It needs quite the extra level of obsession to develop such way of thinking.

I am definitely part of that group at least, I know them well enough to an extend I could make assumptions to how they would respond. But yes, it's definitely a level of obsession that I am myself also very guilty off. I learned their language just to understand them better, to give you an idea of my autism. I ain't got no words to justify it, it's pretty much obsession. Fuck tulpa's though, that shit is ridiculously stupid.

So in their mind they DO talk to them and they DO take them out but their characters responses are imaginary. They are quite literally crushing on their own fantasy.
And usually they know that but wishful thinking makes them behave like complete lunatics.

Yep, that's the delusional part of waifuism. As I said before, only a few can be happy living like this but the majority of them end up back with 3D or just leaving their waifu within a 3 year time span. Or killing themselves because depression. Then again the majority on /r/waifuism are just dumb teenagers to begin with. I always figured it was a "monkey see, monkey do" kind of thing with those people. I honestly think that subreddit was a huge mistake and would be better off if mods were to just ban any underage or cringe user.

Thank you also I agree. They are too far off/brainwashed/delusional. And it is very hard to wake them up when everyone in their surrounding tells them they are doing the right thing. So yea. Don't even bother trying.

I hate that shit so much. I don't know why they have to be so incredibly cringe about their "relationship" like that and sometimes the hugboxing gets incredibly ridiculous as well. Throw in a unhealthy doses of teenage insecurity and anxiety and you have /r/waifuism.

 

[Lala Loopsy]

I am definitely part of that group at least, I know them well enough to an extend I could make assumptions to how they would respond. But yes, it's definitely a level of obsession that I am myself also very guilty off. I learned their language just to understand them better, to give you an idea of my autism. I ain't got no words to justify it, it's pretty much obsession. Fuck tulpa's though, that shit is ridiculously stupid.

Yep, that's the delusional part of waifuism. As I said before, only a few can be happy living like this but the majority of them end up back with 3D or just leaving their waifu within a 3 year time span. Or killing themselves because depression. Then again the majority on /r/waifuism are just dumb teenagers to begin with. I always figured it was a "monkey see, monkey do" kind of thing with those people. I honestly think that subreddit was a huge mistake and would be better off if mods were to just ban any underage or cringe user.

I hate that shit so much. I don't know why they have to be so incredibly cringe about their "relationship" like that and sometimes the hugboxing gets incredibly ridiculous as well. Throw in a unhealthy doses of teenage insecurity and anxiety and you have /r/waifuism.

Yup it's that one obsessive thinking. And if I may be so bold I assume it is also that thinking that can lead to Tulpas if you are autistic enough and believe in that shit. After all you can imagine your waifu so well it takes 0 brainpower and I think that's enough for some to call it "she's acting by herself!" And belief can move mountains.
Just a speculation though.

Agreed on the second part. I also think most just mimick the others so they fit in and don't have their "undying love" invalidated by others. Hell I can even see some go "I must proove others how deeply I love this character" and push themselves into extreme lunacy while others go all "awww you two are really meant for each other how cute!" The entire community is a mistake and if anyone really wants to do the waifu shit they are better off doing that alone behind locked doors and telling noone except their therapist. At least then they wouldn't be pushed into insanity by that insane community. ...And they wouldn't be mocked.

Yes I agree. I am also very concerned about the amount of teens who keep being waifuists into their adulthood. There are some waifuists who do that stuff for 10 or more years. I can only imagine how stunted their emotional growth must be... hence we have those adult waifuists behaving like teens.

 

[BP4L]

Yup it's that one obsessive thinking. And if I may be so bold I assume it is also that thinking that can lead to Tulpas if you are autistic enough and believe in that shit. After all you can imagine your waifu so well it takes 0 brainpower and I think that's enough for some to call it "she's acting by herself!" And belief can move mountains.
Just a speculation though.

Honestly, that wouldn't surprise me. I don't know enough about the tulpa topic because I rather stay as far away from it as I possibly can. But I also don't really consider those with tulpas as waifuists, more just people with an imaginary friend that took the appearance of a anime girl.

Agreed on the second part. I also think most just mimick the others so they fit in and don't have their "undying love" invalidated by others. Hell I can even see some go "I must proove others how deeply I love this character" and push themselves into extreme lunacy while others go all "awww you two are really meant for each other how cute!" The entire community is a mistake and if anyone really wants to do the waifu shit they are better off doing that alone behind locked doors and telling noone except their therapist. At least then they wouldn't be pushed into insanity by that insane community. ...And they wouldn't be mocked.

I have found myself liking it when people validated my feelings for my waifu but I don't like seeking that out. But yes, it's a much better thing to keep this behind locked doors. At least in real life I found that nobody would need to know this and I especially wouldn't dare telling everyone around me that "IM IN LOVE WITH A FICTIONAL CHARACTER!!11" because that's just dumb and opens you up for ridicule. I think being in certain smaller communities is fine, but /r/waifuism is NOT that kind of community.

Yes I agree. I am also very concerned about the amount of teens who keep being waifuists into their adulthood. There are some waifuists who do that stuff for 10 or more years. I can only imagine how stunted their emotional growth must be... hence we have those adult waifuists behaving like teens.

Yep, I'm half concerned for these teenagers as well because they just throw away a huge chunk of they teenage life. You should be experiencing your first love and that kind of bullshit with an 3D person. Heartbreak and all that will help you grow.. Don't go throwing away your life for a fictional character. Your brain is still undeveloped and you won't find happiness like this, and if you do it's short lived. I do know some people who have been waifuists for more than 10 year, but they have none that /r/waifuism mindset and are overall pretty happy with their waifu. I consider them of those more rare people for whom having a waifu is actually beneficial. Which is also rather rare because most people who seek this out have some kind of mental health issue, my self probably including.

 

[Lyra Plushie]

She's made a whole new flair on her sub just to crosspost r/w, lol

 

[Fake-n-Gay]

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She's made a whole new flair on her sub just to crosspost r/w, lol

Just a heads up, she's shitting up her own sub for our attention. I recommend no one bother screenshotting and posting her antics here since she clearly just wants us to keep mentioning her.

Unless, you know, she does something exceptionally retarded.

 

[Spooky Transphobe Man!]

Okay, I'm being serious now. Please don't bring my mother into this. Fuck with me all you want but she's a completely sane woman and doesn't deserve this. She's normal. Not a horsefucking degenerate like me. I deserve this shit for being a certified retard, but don't stalk her.

Protip: Announcing you are a certified retard does not make you (nor your mother) any less of a certified retard.

 

[Bird Bitch]

Just a heads up, she's shitting up her own sub for our attention. I recommend no one bother screenshotting and posting her antics here since she clearly just wants us to keep mentioning her.

Unless, you know, she does something exceptionally retarded.

I’d go as far as to say we completely ignore any post that mentions the farms

 

[Retired Junta Member]

Yea they just either know that character so well they instinctively know how the character would behave (similar to a Tulpa) or at least they think they know. It needs quite the extra level of obsession to develop such way of thinking.

So in their mind they DO talk to them and they DO take them out but their characters responses are imaginary. They are quite literally crushing on their own fantasy.
And usually they know that but wishful thinking makes them behave like complete lunatics.

Thank you also I agree. They are too far off/brainwashed/delusional. And it is very hard to wake them up when everyone in their surrounding tells them they are doing the right thing. So yea. Don't even bother trying.

Tulpas are another matter tho. We’re talking about redditors and tumblr people so obviously they believe in a bastardised and simplified version of the original concept of Tulpa, but this whole idea implies that you can phisically or semi-phisically materialise a thought. So called tulpamancers are slightly more insane that waifiuists because their issues are more complex and layered and can easily slip into something worse.

 

[Bird Bitch]

Seems Clairs pissy about Lily's copyright infringement. THERE CAN ONLY BE ONE

Before anyone quotes me on ‘ignoring any posts that mentions the farms’ I was referring to Lily’s (or any other retards) blatant attention whoring

 

[Acid Barrier]

At this point the waifuist strategy of choice seems to be just gumming up the thread by spamming it so much the thread stops talking about the rest of the community.

Seems Clairs pissy about Lily's copyright infringement. THERE CAN ONLY BE ONE

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Clair is hardly the first waifuist to create their own subreddit to post personal waifu stuff.
OG thread favorite JediRalts still posts on his own sub for his waifu daily.
There's a few other forgettable ones like /r/tomorinao or /r/izumisumi or /r/PokemonCynthia. That weird Ryuko guy from years ago has his own nearly empty subreddit.
Hell, she's not even the only husbandofag to have one, since the Luthier husbandoist has one too.

There were previously a lot more, but half have gone missing over the years. I'm fairly certain there were atleast a few DDLC ones at some point.
Clair's is pretty much the first to get even the slightest bit of attention on its own, but having your own personal waifu subreddit is a fairly common practice among r/waifuism.

 

[Margo Martindale]

I still want to know why the squidward lady divorced squidward

 

[A single cheeto]

Has anyone here talked about Tangerinethecat? She's mostly found on /utg/, but the gist is she's obsessed with Spade King from Deltarune.



Her DNI (Do not Interact) is pretty funny, because she has these as bullet points:

Spoiler: DNI

She treats ship art with King as though he's cheating on her:

Spoiler: "CHEATING"

And hates anyone that ships ANYTHING other herself/King:

Spoiler: "HATRED"

Sorry if this is kind of shitty, this is my first time dabbling in the waifuism scene.

 

[Dick Justice]

OG thread favorite JediRalts still posts on his own sub for his waifu daily.

In retrospect it's kind of crazy how suddenly and thoroughly the patron saint of fuckpillows fell off the face of the thread.

I still want to know why the squidward lady divorced squidward

That's news. When was it posted?

 

[w4vy_gr4vy]

Seems Clairs pissy about Lily's copyright infringement. THERE CAN ONLY BE ONE

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Before anyone quotes me on ‘ignoring any posts that mentions the farms’ I was referring to Lily’s (or any other retards) blatant attention whoring

I'm starting to think they're both the same elaborate troll at this point.