There definitely seems to be something wrong with Jamil's temperament. He's highly reactive and emotionally sensitive. It doesn't take much for him to get pissed off at somebody if they talk negatively about him, like cuss him out or call him a fag, even in the Youtube comments which should hold little weight. I think that is why things which don't make normal people angry or sad all the time, they do to him, like seeing couples displaying affection in public. Also, he takes rejection from women too personally and deeply than most people would. While a normal person would try to rationalize why they got rejected and carry on to the next woman, for Jamil it takes him way longer to do the same thing since the rejection first has to devastated the core of his self-esteem and then put him in a state of depression. If only Jamil's therapist had the opportunity to know how messed up Jamil is, then Jamil could get some serious help to fix issues with his personality, rather than solely using the therapist solely to help him get a girlfriend.
His temperament is probably also the reason why he appears to act out firstly or mostly with his emotions when he is dealing with problems, rather than to approach the situation first pragmatically.
Considering the last few posts, this is why I think Jamil is doomed to fail in a relationship, if he can even get one. He already admits that he cannot understand women, so I don't see how he will be able to avoid conflict in relationships. Men and women already have enough problems understanding each other in relationships, so things don't forebode well for Jamil. I think adding as well his personal flaws into the mix, such as: wearing his emotions on his sleeve, irrational and extreme jealously, emotional sensitivity and reactivity-that relationship is going to be a clusterfuck, ending with his girlfriend dumping him for being a nutjob.
I wouldn't be surprised if Jamil ends up being controlling and displaying stalker tendencies in a relationship. It might be a natural adaption to cope with his fear of other men trying to steal his girlfriend away from him, which no doubt would be fueled from his own jealousy, rather than that actually being the case. These behaviors are simply a guess on my part, however.