DirtbagDeluxe
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- Jun 17, 2014
I never bullied him or anyone else for that matter.
You do hurt him, by implying that because he finds white girls pretty that he must think black girls are ugly. Considering that he may just be influenced by a larger cultural trend, he's only going along because he's four and he only just developed a theory of mind. You giving him shit is like punching the shit out of somebody who's just been mugged and screaming at them that they shouldn't have gotten mugged.
The damage won't be visible for at least a decade, though. You're likely to only reinforce his preferences by demonstrating, as a black female role model in his life, black females are irrational, nagging, and will not hesitate to guilt trip him and shame him, and that all he is to black women is an emotional punching bag. As a black woman with authority in his life, you are using him for your own emotional ends and squandering an opportunity to not have him be a fuck-up like you.
Nice job. Aunt of the Year, surely. I hope he's smart and sees through your bullshit when he's a teenager.
Yes, you're right. I needed to read this.