"If you claim you are "not interested in trans women", this implies there is a feature of trans women you do not find attractive. The problem here, is that there are no 100% shared features among trans women. Anything that you find a "turn off about trans women" doesn't apply to all trans women."
Ahh this old dusty argument again....
At the beginning of my tranny dating there simply weren't as many of them and the vast majority were SOLIDLY after men and had a strong aversion to vagina. Getting tits was more important to them than getting dicks chopped. But in the more recent years I started to discover that
all troons are in fact exactly the same. Even the "good ones" are batshit and have a host of secret fetishes like sissification and bimbofiction. Their entire existence is fetish larping.
Men and women are socially conditioned in completely different ways. There are abhorrent social behaviors and cringe moments that trans women publicly display that would mortify most women. Case in point: Sex. Trans women always want to dive right into having sex or sex talk or sharing fetishes. Online culture is also different. Like I hate trans memes with a passion because they are completely insane never funny and full of cope.
This is also not how woman talk to each other. I submit that of the 20+years I spent dating troons that they all have cluster b personality disorders, they all have suffered from some type of SA - whether or not they can or will actively acknowledge it (Lots of PTSD repressed memories) And none of them are able to look beyond the male gaze.
I have never identified as a lesbian and I can imagine what fresh hell it would be for a troon to date an ACTUAL lesbian.
I CAN see the pick me neuvo queer women dating troons, especially the low effort ones who can still fuck them. Troons also really don't have a lot of female friends and they tend to get frozen out from those groups. Sometimes they have male friends but usually those are people they had pre transition. Often they are loners or surround themselves with other troons.
Being the only woman among a group of troons is a weird experience. You just don't get the same energy as you do from dating a woman.
