As for not looking like you're trying too hard, most troons look like they don't try at all... because they don't.
They really don't. Troons complaining about how much effort they put into "looking good" while claiming that biological women don't have to try at all makes me MATI.
Go find a blonde beach babe on IG that has the "I woke up like this" look going on while she prepares a breakfast smoothie in her kitchen. She didn't wake up like that, she's just good at "no makeup" makeup and she takes care of herself. She diets, she exercises, she goes to the salon once a month for a cut and color touch up, she shaves or waxes, she has a strict skincare routine, she keeps her nails filed and clean, she practices daily good grooming (that one feminine thing that troons fully reject). That morning before her casual photoshoot she put on tinted moisturizer, curled her lashes, applied a light coat of mascara, filled in her brows, applied tinted lip balm, combed her hair, and hit the roots with some dry shampoo. Then consider that this woman put thought into what haircut and color would look best on her while complementing her skin tone, is aware that the shape of her brows can make a difference, and selects makeup based on what will make her look bright and healthy.
That's a lot of little things on their own, but they obviously add up. And again, that was a list for a "no makeup" makeup look. That wasn't a full face or complete hair styling routine. It can take a long time to learn what products work best for your hair and skin type, your needs, your goals, etc.. Some concealer formulas are amazing but they oxidize horribly. Some foundations are a perfect color match without mixing but cause breakouts. Don't even get me started on different mascara formulas and the wands.
My point is, women do have to try. All the time. Women experiment with different makeup formulas, obtain a good brush set, figure out makeup removal and skincare, change it up with age and environmental factors... it's anything but effortless, regardless of if they're going for a natural look or full blown glam. As dumb as it may sound, these beauty rituals take a certain level of knowledge, discipline, and self respect. I didn't even touch on fashion.
Troons think that growing out their unwashed hair and scribbling on pink lipstick (that's
always the worst shade for their skin tone) is the same thing. It's not, and it never will be. Maybe if the filthy beasts practiced actual self care like therapy and touching grass, instead of forcing everyone to go along with their perverted delusions, they would feel happy in their own body. And if not, that's sad, but it's no excuse to cry TERF every time someone points out that they're unwell and a collection of ill-fitting skirts and drugs isn't the cure.