I think that in the context of what the Wholesome Vore Writer is writing (I have read plenty of their stories), there certainly isn't any sexual context or intent behind it at all. Can I speak the same for other people who write stories involving kids? Not at all, but I do know in my friend's context, that sexual anything is something they very much avoid as best as possible. So I think when it comes to me agreeing with it, it's really on a case by case basis, depending on the mindset and intentions behind the writing. (We can't control what people think about what we say, so there is no way to hold someone accountable for another person's thoughts)
Personally I dislike the terms of Pred and Prey, I think they're weird and just kind of odd to read, especially in the context of more safe and comforting vore. And I dooon't quite understand that last part about the 'destruction of innocence', so if you wouldn't mind explaining that more I'd be happy to listen!~
I don't know the context of the last part, but if it's in relation to real life then I could probably never imagine doing anything that'd cause harm to anyone. The way I perceive it is in a soft manner, where the person inside would be kept safe instead of being digested or anything like that. (I know it's unrealistic, but it's the internet, so... Haha) I'm not a fan of the idea of digesting someone alive, cause that just seems kind of cruel in most senses, but hey, everyone has their own thing right? Can't really judge someone for one thing, when I'm interested in swallowing people. Hahaha