Many things are fun and pleasurable. Yet there's a time and place for everything, depending on what you want, what you want to sacrifice or risk, and what that thing "is" in the first place.
which according to your puritanical world view must be married missionary lights off and only for procreation, shit the irony is the puritans had fucking methods of aborting a fetus in the 1600s its like I am listening to my catholic priest from child hood go off on why virginity a must.
Indeed. So profound is sex, that it's better done in the context where a persistent pledge of love is made.
I've had both, they're about the same, for some that its their love language for me its fun. then again you had neither so that in of it self is a cope.
people make love some people fuck.
fucking can be considered making love to some, or a fun time.
If this genre of argument had merit, teen/single-mother pregnancies wouldn't have skyrocketed from the 1960s.
well gee dumb dumb, people were fucking since ancient times, one only had to lock at the gratifiti that the romans left about having a maxismus penisus. could it be and may just me talking oh idk that around the 1960s the advent of the birth control pill was in full swing? which spurred the sexual revolution, which in turn led to women to feel more liberated in their sexuality, at the time the pill was new, and you know the pill requires to be taken exactly at the same time every day to be effective. its not that hard to fuck it up., its why I use shots instead.
here's a sense in which you indeed cannot only say "don't have sex", but not only is "don't have sex" not the only thing that's being said, but anybody who wants to teach any kind of sexual restraint is butting heads with an already highly sexualized culture where children are being exposed to hardcore pornography at the age of nine,
you can thank men for porn, their the main consumers of said porn, I am antiporn myself. Your a man so congrats, you played yourself.
young women are encouraged to allow their bodies to be used by those young men as a means to self-validate (or because they think that's all they have to give), WAP is an "anthem",
honey boo, we've been having sexualized songs since the 90s, and again this whole pressure to objectify themselves comes from again men who most benefit, what you fail to realize is men have weaponized female sexual liberation to their benefit. you act like this some random occurance but its the natural of consquences of men eqauting sluttiness to empowerment.
Teen Vogue is talking to teenage girls about anal sex, teenagers are being encouraged to have irreparable damage done to their bodies and endocrine systems in service of becoming the "big tiddy goth gf"/"uke"-- and all the while, there's no actual long-term relationship goal within many of these people, because none of them are being taught that such a thing is good to have.
your point? this culture has degenerated because of mans porn sickness...
men are mostly behind this shit, not women coping out and playing the game. I'm sorry I am not penalizing the women because unfortunately culture has indeed changed.
So, no shit "people are still fucking"-- but it's become more widespread, the culture around it has degenerated gravely,
which is porn sicks mans fault, but then again, its alway woman who has to bear the sin.
abortions wont stop the culture as it is, it'll just bring unwanted babies to the mix.
