For most, "helping ______ people" would involve looking at improved overall outcomes, even if you're making some recommendations that aren't fun in the moment. (Pre-diabetic? Be more active and reduce your carbs. Ex-felon? Take advantage of this free tattoo removal service.)
But "helping trans people" are like HAES types: they've constructed this reality where "helping them" means giving them whatever they want in this very moment, not telling them to do — or even talking about — anything that's the slightest bit unpleasant, and pretending that their version of science is the one true version.
Buncha Veruca Salts.