How did I miss your point exactly? You are saying Phil has no empathy for saying to someone that has stupid beliefs on a cult "why doesn't he just leave" and you compared to a house wife in an abusive relationship, we could say the same thing about Phil paypigs brainwashed into Phil cult.
Not only that but the reason you used the battered house wife example is to create pity, it's a complete valid point to tell a beaten house wife to leave the relationship but you used that example because it's a poor woman being abused by an evil man, I'm pretty sure that the first time you heard domestic abuse in lesbian relationships you thought it was interesting to find out lesbians beat the shit out of each other in such high numbers, but you wouldn't use that as an example like that because it doesn't elicit the same pity.
Again how did I miss your point? You said that Phil has no empathy for saying implying the cult members are stupid but you laugh at people like Jax Raxxor that works for minimum wage and drops hundreds on Phil a month.