@Hepativore there is indeed self labeling on that end and you see a lot of women who only want to date someone who falls into one fashion range. Sometimes its personality too but most "butch" women I have met are <5'5 and easily clockable as women.
I also do not like butch/futch(feminine butch like think ellen degeneres style) looking women and with gendy shit now I think this is for the best.
I'm personally a "lipstick lesbian" which basically means I look like a normal feminine Stacy.
However, if you can't tell from my posting history and memes.... my entire personality is anything but "girly". My hobbies, interests, areas of study, majority of my lolcows, and how I talk/act is very scrote.
I have never met another woman that says "Words of Power" on the internet as much as myself and that's probably for the best.
Am horse enjoyer, horses are fantastic. If they were predatory and had sharper teeth they'd be a lot scarier, but I love them. If you approach them calmly, with love, patience, and respect, they're not too dangerous (except for crushed bones from their hooves, bucking you off, and the inevitable leg muscle pain, but this is all manageable and the former two are pretty preventable for the most part). Fucking love horses, they're so gentle if you're good to them.
Horses wake up every day and vote whose a leader. If you're not it that day they won't listen to you.
I have no issue with horses and quite like them but I hate most "horse people" because those niggers are
insane and half of what they do isn't even for the horse it's to make
themselves feel good (
see: winter blankets, fancy barns, horses in stalls, new shoes for shows, jumping them, shoes in general, riding with bits because you don't know how to ride if you need a bit, pink/purple everything, Braiding manes, cutting tail hair, imprinting foals (this it literally evil), lmao step stools, not gelding your goddamn stallions/breeding, horse racing) basically anything that affects the natural abilities of horses being horses and how they communicate with one another or is an inherent disservice/money grab.
I think women have a tendency to baby horses too much or fall into a crutch of "im wearing a helmet so it's safe". Riding is inherently dangerous... because it is.
Horses are inherently dangerous, because they just are, especially since the modern ones who are fucking huge. (Majority of horses in history were very small all the horses who won wars and conquered vast lands were not giant steeds they were 14hh lil things).
A horse is insanely strong. with a well placed bite on the shoulder a mustang can still lift you off the ground or nip a good part of your skin off. A well placed kick, even a small one, can knock out bones or kill a man.
Even without meaning to, a horse can hurt you. A mistake show jumping from a horse misstep
(which I inherently disagree with as a practice) has killed people. Young people too. A fall can break ribs, necks, backs, arms etc. Someone who doesn't speak horse (this includes self proclaimed "horse people") can teach them bad behavior and this can lead to injury or self or others if they figure out a behavior can get them to act a certain way. Horses are smart and always watching and learning. Retraining a horse who rears up to get shit tier unconfident rider to go away is hell if they figure out
you're bluffing (because you are not bigger or stronger than them) when retraining them using a flag waving technique to get them to stop.
When you get on a horse, or are by a horse,
you are taking an educated risk. It's just as inane to say they're dangerous mindless beasts as it is to say they're perfectly safe. You have to know how to behave properly as a human (aka horses are always watching and learning), know that mistakes can cost you big time, and know that animals will do as they wish to even if they're perfectly good animals.