Oh right, I did say she could be a better post here. She says shit like this:
"My sister Caroline waited over 6 months before telling her lawschool-grad boyfriend I was in a situation needing dire legal assistance. She inexplicably aggressively gatekeeped, insisting he wouldn't be able to help me -- though Paul wasn't even in the know what was going on, and she was making decisions for him. I merely wanted her boyfriend, who has numerous lawyer friends, to review my police complaint and offer suggestions for what I could do (I live at half of the poverty line and couldn't afford a legal retainer.) I left the complaint at his place, and for that I was punished by being cut out of her life entirely. In a non-narcissistic setting it would have been the other way around: me cutting her put of my life for being completely unempathetic or concerned for me being profoundly psychological and sexually abused by a serial rapist. Alex bragged to her about brainwashing me, an unprotected and quite vulnerable person with a mental disability. I even told her if I went missing, it was because of Alex. Caroline gave zero fucks.
I'm completely different If my partner had a law school education and lawyer friends, I would DEMAND they get involved and help my abused family member in need: I'm not a stuck-up, superficial and cold-hearted bitch, though. She lacks so much integrity that she still partied with the Sikorski sons even after they made 'slanty eye' gestures to her in reference to her best friend at the time being Asian (I on the other hand was a loner for most of my life in protest of immature gross social-climbing and stayed my disgusted, shocked ass far away from their 'party'.) Hope you don't use cannabis either (even for PTSD) because she looks down at that, too: the only acceptable drug is cocaine, since it's the choice for attractive rich people -- the type of people she prefers to surround herself with. She had always had a reference for 'bad boys', and insisted she would never date a man with a TV in their bedroom. I wonder why privileged, completely different life trajectory first-born Caroline would make an exception for a multimillionaire heir with a downtown Toronto penthouse.
Should I also mention that she mocked my faith within earshot, a source of strength and hope in my depressing nightmare of a life? That she literally stabbed me with a sharp object when I was a teenager, in addition to constantly bullying me as a child? And when I was born, told my mother to bring me back to the hospital... not a damn thing has changed in 30 years.
Maybe one day people can look past her good looks and see her for the uncharitable, selfish, judgemental woman she truly is.
All my life I've been accustomed to protecting and giving way to narcs who treated me like shit... so I hope this post was informative as I have ventured into uncharted territory. Now I have to deal with the Polish mob putting a hit on me for exposing them racist, misogynist, spoiled Sikorski sons who still haven't apologized to me for disrespectfully grabbing by my face, or cornering me in their mother's kitchen to sexually harass me when no one else was around (even when I told them it was unwanted; it made me so uncomfortable that I left). Pray for my protection and thanks for reading..."