Because Graeme also clearly wants to wear them himself, which wouldn't add up as much.
Well, kind of.
But that's another weird thing about Graeme's diaper fetish:
he doesn't wear diapers. In fact, to the best of my knowledge, Graeme has
never worn diapers as an adult; he's never taken any steps towards wearing them, nor expressed any interest in doing so.
And it can't be that he's too tarded to wear diapers, either. Graeme's not exactly a shut-in; he knows how to work the internet, he knows how to buy things online, and he has enough pocket change to purchase video games and toys. Graeme's even got connections with ABDL diaper manufacturers - like Marcus aka Pedobear, one of his gay diaperdaddies, who has a day job selling fetish diapers to fully-grown furry perverts. At any point in the last couple years, Graeme could have
easily bought a pack of adult diapers from Marcus. But he hasn't.
Hell, even Graeme's own foray into softcore ABDL porn was diaperless! I don't recommend looking it up, but the short version is, several of the people Graeme was following were taking "down pants" photos of themselves wearing adult diapers. So Graeme did the same thing - except, instead of wearing diapers, he just took photos of himself in greasy boxer shorts. Gross, yes. But
how do you make diaper porn, for diaper fans, and forgot to include the diapers?!
On top of that, Graeme doesn't have any of the other kinks and paraphilias you typically see with diaper pervs. Graeme doesn't like pissing his pants or pooping himself. He isn't into sippy cups or bright plastic children's toys. He doesn't fantasize about crinkle noises, playing children's games, having bedtimes, getting spanked for being naughty, or tawking wike a widdle baybwie uwu wuwu, and while Graeme
loves to simp for men who RP as "daddies" and "littles", he doesn't actually get into any of that RP stuff himself. The most he'll say is
"so cute




"
Graeme
loves looking at drawings of children and ponies in diapers, but he has shown absolutely no motivation towards wearing or collecting diapers himself. He's definitely a diaper lover, and his interest in diapers as a sexual object does seem to be genuine, but he's either the world's
worst ABDL - like THE ONLY ABDL in history who has no diapers of his own, none whatsoever - or (what I suspect is more likely) he's literally
just a pedo who gets a boner from seeing kids in a diaper, and his connection with the ABDL world is more of that "sexual opportunism" mentioned above, i.e. the ABDLs are the only people who take sexy pictures of themselves in diapers, so Graeme takes what he can get.
I mean, you're right, in that
TBF, none of us can know if we're right.
this is all just speculation, from several years of following Graeme's thoughts and behavior. Have no evidence, beyond his (notoriously unreliable) stories and a couple Facebook links. I
suspect he's pining for a three-year-old girl he loved, once, long ago, but I can't prove a damn thing.
However, I really don't think Graeme's got a "normal" diaper fetish, like the Marcuses and Pamperchus of the world. It's something
more. Something different.