So I was thinking about this recently for whatever reason, and it occurred to me that Bioware really has no fucking leg to stand on when it suggests that people who think this game is going to be a 'woke disaster' are bigots for not wanting faggotry in the game (and all that that implies, but more on that in a bit).
I'll use my own experience as an example (skip this, or prepare for a sperg-out).
I dislike Inquisition because I think it's a really boring game with dull and lifeless environments, but I can concede that some bits of it are quite good, and I certainly wouldn't call that game 'woke'. Yes there are gay people in it, and even a trans person, but none of it is forced down your throat, or made a big deal of. In fact, unless you specifically pry, you wouldn't know that Cremisius (the trans man that serves with the Iron Bull) is a trans dude at all. You might have a vague idea based on the fact that they have Jennifer Hale voicing a character that looks vaguely like a man and is referred to as a man by everyone that knows him, but it's never specifically touched on until you choose to ask/pry. I found that the dialogue about him being trans is even well-written and after hearing his story, elicited some sympathy from me back in the day (this was before everyone and their dog decided to randomly troon out for no reason irl, so keep that in mind).
Then there's Dorian. Dorian is my favorite character in Inquisition. He's based as fuck. He doesn't give a shit about anything (have him in a party with notorious cunt Sera, and he will take a metaphorical shit on her when she tries to mess with him the way she does everyone else; hilarity ensues), he's hilarious, he's witty, he's clever (like you'd expect a fucking top-tier Tevinter-wizard-man to be)... and he happens to fuck dudes. Cool, I don't give a shit, it's none of my business who he fucks, both he and I know that... and apparently, so did Bioware, at least at the time. (Yes, I'm aware that there is a sort of psuedo-quest that deals with his sexuality, but it's very minor and makes absolute sense given his situation, and you can choose to respond however you like, you don't HAVE to be hugboxy about it, you can be a dick if you want, because you know, Role-Playing-Game).
Compare the above with the notorious trans person from Beamdog's expansion to Baldur's Gate who literally tells you they are trans upon first meeting you. You have (or had, since it was actually changed after the massive backlash) no choice but to listen to this utter berk tell you about their dumb-fuck gender issues despite existing in a world where changing your gender is as easy as popping down to your local wizard's. Hell, you probably still have the belt that literally changes your gender in your inventory, since that's one of the first items you get in the original game.
The point that I am making is that there's a massive fucking difference between having representation and faggotry in a game where it's incidental, as opposed to being the defining characteristic of those characters. If I were a gay dude, I'd be pretty miffed if a video game suggested that the only interesting thing about me is the fact that I'm gay (or sub in black/trans/whatever).
Anyway, I question the logic of how I could possibly be a fucking 'bigot' if I like Dorian as much as I do, if I felt sympathy after hearing Crem's story etc. Bioware has fallen so far that they don't or can't understand the difference outlined above, and have to fall back on declaring anyone that doesn't like the absolute shite they are defecating into the market as a bigot. Fuck off, mate.