What’s weird is that lots of adults aren’t comfortable with their gender expression and everyone is aware of this. It’s why people make fun of guys who buy giant pickups — ooh, look who’s compensating for something! Gay adults in particular have issues with gender and gender roles and always have. And of course tall broad shouldered women and tiny high voiced men.
But on the other hand, most people aren’t thinking about this on a regular basis. Nobody thinks about the ‘fun things they get to do with their gender’. Maybe if you’re a woman you’ll feel lucky you can wear a skirt to work in the heat when men have to wear pants.
It's just how insidious the whole gendercult ideology is. You see that on every "cracked egg" story. Some dude is unhappy with his life. Maybe he's made some bad decisions, maybe his family sucks, or maybe he just got fucked over by the economy. The reasons don't matter. What matters is that he doesn't feel like a man. In their mind, men are successful. Men have good jobs. Men build things. Men date, get married and raise kids. He's not even conscious of any of it, but he knows something isn't right.
Then he goes on twitter or reddit, and finds a bunch of people telling him that he's not to blame. None of it is his fault. Not only that, the solution to his problems is extremely simple. He can't be a failing man. Clearly. That would be too big a hit to his ego. No, he's not being successful as a man, because he's a woman instead. Always has been. All those tiny gender nonconforming moments he's had in his life? They're not just normal things for a developing mind, occasional homosexual thoughts, or just random things that happened. They all get retconned as being his actual female nature trying to burst through for years. Decades, even.
Everything is explained by him being a woman. Which means there's no space for doubt, and that every solution is also to think about himself as a woman. All the new tranny has is a hammer, and so every problem looks like a nail. And he's a new convert, which means he's extremely zealous. And so
everything becomes about gender, and we reach the stage we are now.
It gets even better, though. Because since becoming a woman (or a man, for the rare TiF that isn't a mess of sexual abuse) is obviously impossible, the goal they must always strive towards is a source of permanent frustration. They see their lack of womanhood in everything they do, no matter how much they claim to be True and Honest Women. That frustration then breeds even more religious fervor and pushes them further and further away from reality.
At least the replies are having none of that shit.
No fap november rescues a few lucky souls each year.
I talked about cultural shifts, right? NNN is actually a good start. Sure it's a meme, and most guys who
actually try it fail, but anything that gets young men to stop treating masturbation as a daily habit, even if for just a month, is good.
Technically No Nut November also includes not having sex but let's be honest with ourselves here: 99% of the guys interested in it
aren't having sex to begin with.