Child dies after being left in vehicle; father kills self - oops

CHESTERFIELD, Va. (WWBT) - Chesterfield police are investigating what they say appears to be the “accidental death of a child and subsequent suicide of an adult.”

Officers responded to the 14100 block of Aldengate Road just before noon on Tuesday after receiving a call that a child had been left in a car for several hours and that the father was at the home making suicidal statements.

At the scene, police found a car with its door open in the driveway and a deceased 18-month-child inside the home.

Outside the home, they found the child’s father with an apparent self-inflicted gunshot wound in the woods behind the house. Callers had indicated that the father may kill himself in the woods behind the home.

“As they made entry into the residence, they found a deceased 18-month-old inside,” Lt. Col. Chris Hensley said. “As they continued to check the perimeter of the residence, they found an adult male in the wooded area behind the house deceased from an apparent gunshot wound.”

Police said those calls came from family members who were talking with the father and knew something was off when the child was not at daycare.

Based on their investigation, police believe the father discovered the boy had been left in his car while at work.

They said the 18-month-old was in the car for at least three hours.

Police said the father then drove home, where he took the boy inside before taking his own life.

“This is a horrible tragedy on so many levels, and our hearts go out to the family and friends that are going to deal with this, but we would be remised in not taking the opportunity for people to take this moment and realize how important it is to check your vehicles,” Hensley said.

While the investigation is ongoing, the National Highway Traffic Safety Administration tells parents to always check their entire vehicle before locking the door and walking away.

NHTSA also recommends asking your childcare provider to call if your child doesn’t show up for care as expected.

 
That's been my assessment. These people don't fully grasp either how much physical and sensory space a child takes up, as a living being, or how much mental space they take up if you're a halfway decent parent. You don't forget the dog because the dog is a presence. Same to the nth with a child. You notice it's almost always dual income office drones who end up cooking their kids? That isn't a coincidence. They can't be bothered to parent. That's someone else's job- they pay good money for someone else to do that job for them, so they can keep up with the joneses! You don't hear of a stay at home mom of twins with no sleep doing this. You don't hear of poor laborers who work in the sun all day doing this. It's always office drones. And they're the same demographic who also end up writing think pieces about "why did my kid troon out, why did her teachers expect ME to do something about her self injurious behavior, why does the universe hate ME?"
The average person is genuinely too retarded to properly raise a child in today's world. Can you really be that mad at them when they're too dumb to know how a car, or a phone, or anything that makes their life possible works? It's like leaving a chimpanzee next to a loaded gun and getting mad at it when it inevitably shoots itself.
 
The average person is genuinely too retarded to properly raise a child in today's world. Can you really be that mad at them when they're too dumb to know how a car, or a phone, or anything that makes their life possible works? It's like leaving a chimpanzee next to a loaded gun and getting mad at it when it inevitably shoots itself.
Tell me you’re a nigger without saying you’re a nigger
 
There is no excuse. If you have a child and you’re too retarded to do something as simple as make sure they’re not still in the fucking car before leaving (God forbid you faggots stop looking at your phone for five seconds!) you don’t deserve to be a parent and necking yourself like this “father” did is the only acceptable choice left.
I think most of these people are childless and if you replaced child with dog they would totally get why this was unimaginable.
Kids have always died for dumb or neglectful reasons, it's why we are to be fruitful and not hoist all our hopes and dreams on to one singular child. We know that the father was employed which is a already an obstacle parents who have the most children don't have to deal with. Don't we want employed fathers with a healthy sense of shame having the most offspring? I guess anti-natalism, "replacement rate immigration" and telling others with identical views they're too retarded to procreate is part and parcel of newfag conservatism though.
 
I guess anti-natalism, "replacement rate immigration" and telling others with identical views they're too retarded to procreate is part and parcel of newfag conservatism though.
This has nothing to do with politics, you mouth breathing faggot. Being a good parent isn’t partisan. I seriously hope this is just a piss poor attempt at trolling because if you honestly believe someone saying you’re a shitty parent for leaving an infant to die a horrible death is just “mean old conservatives hating on others” you really are a lost cause.

Fuck off back to Reddit, and deep throat a syphilitic moose cock, you cum-brained waste of sperm
 
Being any parent means sometimes kids die. Maybe you should go take your menopause medication if the idea that not all people make it to adulthood is causing you to get this MATI.
 
I think as much as we would all enjoy continuing to moralfag about how terrible these people are, the sleep deprivation thing someone brought up earlier is a salient point. Studies done on sleep deprivation have shown that when you're impaired by it, its actually worse than being drunk, to the point of being similar to falling down drunkenness or total stupor. Its not exactly hard to imagine how someone can do something like this in such and impaired state.

Of course, if your regular lifestyle needs you to be sleep deprived on a regular basis, you probably aren't the ideal candidate to have kids or at least be their primary care provider either.
 
Here's a decent article about these kinds of deaths, where they interviewed some parents that it happened to. It's a good reminder that humans are fallible.


I remember reading that article when my elder child was a tiny infant. The horror and fear I felt whilst reading it was overwhelming at the time.

This thing does happen more than you’d think - they are usually tragic accidents that happen when the parentis sleep deprived and the baby falls asleep in the back of the car. Especially if the parent isn’t the one who usually drops the kid off. There have been a couple of cases where it was provably murder, as well.
 
Here's a decent article about these kinds of deaths, where they interviewed some parents that it happened to. It's a good reminder that humans are fallible.


This is my absolute worst nightmare. I remember being a new mother with my first baby, and hearing on the news about a woman who had forgotten her baby in the car. It may have been that Lyn woman mentioned, I'm not sure. I remember being nauseated at the thought, and wondering how someone could be so stupid.

Once when my first was still an infant, I was headed to my mother in law's to drop her off before work. I wasn't the one to usually drop her off, and I entered the off ramp going in the direction of work rather than my MIL's. The minute my tires touched the road, I realized, FUCK! I didn't drop off the baby. Turned around, got her to her granny and off to work I went. I was sleep deprived, stressed because my husband at the time sucked, and it was not my usual routine, and thank God in Heaven I instantly remembered my baby in the back seat.

Anyway, I could totally see blowing my brains out too if I accidentally killed my kid. I wouldn't want to live anymore, and I couldn't face my baby's father having killed our baby. Just the thought is so harrowing it literally makes me form a sweat 'stache just thinking about it. Every minute of every day is devoted to my children, especially my youngest who is still a baby, and I just can't imagine thinking I had dropped them off with the sitter when I hadn't.
I just can't imagine how it can happen, I really can't.
 
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