Guys, if you want to know whether or not Chantal was actually abused, all you have to do is listen to her words. Just listen to her own words about the "abuse".
The threesome night, for example, everyone seems to agree that she was pretty drunk. Is she upset because she was taken advantage of? Did she feel like she was too drunk to consent? Nope. Oh sure, she points to that and says technically it might have been date rape because she was drunk, but that's not what she's upset about -- that's just how she plans to punish DD and Nads for their real crime: Lying to her. She ate DD out to make Nads happy. He lied to get her to do it, and he probably lied about what it meant for him and Chantal that she do it (i.e. that it meant that they would get back together, or at least that it would open the door to that).
Why are we mad? Because we were lied to and didn't get our way.
The cheese night, she got "screamed at" for six hours or whatever because she's grossly inept at everything she does. Was she outraged that someone scared her? No, she was outraged that someone criticized her. Granted, it was pretty harsh to yell at her for six hours. But was she in fear for her life for those six hours? Nope. She just thought it was disproportionate and that she didn't deserve it.
Why are we mad? Because we had our mistakes pointed out. Again, Nader was out of line (and probably methed up) for going on about it as long as he did, but he hurt her pride, not her hide.
To this day, she'll make comments about how Nads "had it made" and how she was paying for everything and doing everything for him. All he had to do was fake love her, remember? All he had to do was claim her. She fully intended to financially control him, and that's abuse. Her bad luck was stumbling onto a grifter who would happily take her money and be conscienceless about doing so. Nader did not care what he "owed" her. He's a piece of shit who steals, lies, and defrauds people as a matter of course, but that's not what bugs her. What bugs her is that he did it to her.
Why are we mad? Not because he took our money. But because he took our money and then had the audacity to not to be under our thumb.
Chantal is not mad about being abused. She's mad that someone told her no. She's mad that he hurt her pride, rejected her, lied to her, and as she puts it, "didn't care about [her] feelings AT ALL". No one puts Chinny in the corner, guize. No one.
She's being beaten at her own manipulative game, and she does not like it one bit. She simply cannot take the L and move on. Her furious pride won't let her. And she has these instances where, depending on how she spins it, Nader possibly did break the law in his treatment of her, and she fully intends to weaponize them for revenge. This is different from being righteously angry about having been abused. Why should she have to feel bad? Why should she have to go to therapy and learn and grow and do better? It's not fair! She should have just been able to have her way, like she did when she browbeat Peetz into dating her, or when she managed to somehow trick Bibi into thinking she was stable enough for a relationship. Men aren't allowed to say no!
As for DD, I don't know that she's really being abused. We called the BDSM thing ages ago. We speculated about a slave contract way before it was confirmed. I think she's a lifestyle sub who's at least nominally on board with this shit. But there are two things we need to bear in mind here:
That doesn't mean she can't be abused. Contract or no contract, BDSM is not carte blanche to do whatever you want to your partner whenever you feel like it. I'm not going to sperg too much about this, but let's just be clear that consent can be withdrawn and abuse can be committed in these situations. It's entirely possible DD bit off more than she could chew with Nader, who gives every indication of being an out of control maniac who loves the sadism part of the arrangement, but who doesn't have the emotional or psychological depth to understand a healthy dynamic of any sort, let alone a BDSM one.
Nader is a terrible Dom. Even without going into any sort of spergery, just imagine willingly submitting to Cokey the Camel. Imagine taking this "Real Man" seriously when he babbles about being a pro chef and owning two abartments in Egypt and being a prison boss who can make a motorcycle out of a coke can. Imagine sitting up all night placating him like he's an angry child. Either DD has a humiliation fetish on top of everything else, or she is actually that desperate and lonely that she'll sign up with this loser as her master just to not be alone in her condo.
Even if they're true, though, these points actually make me respect her less. If she's as experienced in these things as I suspect she is, she should have known better. The minute he started smoking meth, she should have known that things would get out of hand eventually, if nothing else. (Are there really no other Doms in the entire Montreal region willing to take you, DD? Is it because of your big fucking mouth? You gave up some pretty intimate details to Korvina without, apparently, too much prompting. Or for that matter, permission. Is breaking you in simply not worth the trouble to anyone other than an actual homeless drug addict? Gorl, you're a goddamn mess, even for a lifestyle sub.)
I keep thinking about if Debbie-Ann Colbeck could lose her job at CH Robinson Worldwide Inc over this stuff.
It seems like if her name was so synonymous with the company that googling it would make her foolishness pop up in the first few results, it would hurt company image.
So far googling CH Robinson does not immediately show Debbie-Ann Colbeck. Good for them. Hopefully she doesn't give out corporate secrets the same way she plasters her personal life all over.
Her bad luck was stumbling onto a grifter who would happily take her money and be conscienceless about doing so. Nader did not care what he "owed" her. He's a piece of shit who steals, lies, and defrauds people as a matter of course, but that's not what bugs her. What bugs her is that he did it to her.
Quotes not working, but to address this:
And HIS bad luck was stumbling onto a gross fat creep and a literal predator who actively LOOKS for black and brown men, preferably immigrant status, and with some, minor, or major language barriers and advertised HERSELF as wanting only a hookup--not a relationshit--and was conscienceless about doing so. Chantal did not care that SHE lied. She is a creepy fat piece of stinky shit who steals, lies, and defrauds people as a matter of course. And of course, what bugs her is that not only is she not WINNING,
She came with her tray from the lunch line, found the popular kids' table in the lunchroom. She found a (maybe?) open spot and without asking, PLOPPED her smelly fat ass on the bench, sat her tray on the table, started shovelling food into that narrow palatte and
JUST.
STARTED.
TALKING.
LIKE.
SHE'S.
ONE OF THEM.
And the co-captain of the Varsity Cheer squad and her boyfriend kinda stopped mid sentence while talking with their friends, turned and faced the Gunt, brows knotted at her in castigation while the cheerleader loudly says.
"UMMM... WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING TO US?"
The table Beezers and reaction channels went quiet for a second, caught off-guard by the cheerleader's words, then burst out in a LOUD ASS off-key chorus of thunderous laughter before telling Gunt to FUCK THE FUCK OFF FROM OUR TABLE.
Gunt's narrow palatte mouth flopped open, masticated food falling back onto the tray. And proceeds to make a bunch of threats and channel strikes like the boss ass bitch she is.
What also bugs her is that her reverse dysphoria about REALLY being the slim, HAWT. popular girl in the cafeteria at high school got popped very publicly and hilariously and she was aware.
And she just might hurt or kill someone because of it.
She just let slip that she had rescheduled Monday's therapy appointment to today. But she cancelled today's appointment too, of course. So there's another lie that she never tells. She said she "got the date wrong" yesterday. Nope. Cancelled two days in a row.
@GargoyleGorl This "No one puts Chinny in the corner, guize. No one." made me invision that lifiting scene with chinny and stabby. His scrawny ass arms and her 450 lbs heft,,,,,,
She’s never going to therapy. She’s never going to do anything. Don’t forget, it’s always tomorrow. Everything is always tomorrow and that day will never come. She’s just going to stream, eat, and consume enough thc to take down an elephant. That’s it.
She's not going to the police. My theory I posted in chat: crazy bitch thinks Nader titling his livestream "I'm alone" and listening to music they heard together is him reaching out so the beast is appeased for now.
When did alleged adults begin calling each other dummy and swearing on their mothers'/grandmothers' lives? Isn't that late grade school or middle school stuff?
Remember when she said the phrase "love that for her" was stupid, and she hated people using it in reference to her?
She has used the phrase at least 47 times in this live alone, thinking she's some bad bitch.
I can't believe she's still talking about a guy she "slept" with a handful of times, like he stole decades of her life and she's some scorned ex wife. She needs to stop using her hug box as a therapist and see a professional.
Also rate me late but the recent recorded video highlighted exactly how much cognitive decline she has experienced over the last few years. Even with the ability to edit, write a potential script, etc, she comes across as slow and repetitive. She mispronounced so many words it was frightening.